{"id":34461,"date":"2019-03-18T10:22:24","date_gmt":"2019-03-18T10:22:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34461"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:28","slug":"6-lecciones-que-el-divorcio-de-mis-padres-me-enseno-sobre-las-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-lecciones-que-el-divorcio-de-mis-padres-me-enseno-sobre-las-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"6 lecciones que el divorcio de mis padres me ense\u00f1\u00f3 sobre las relaciones de pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

Que tu familia se rompa delante de ti es una de las experiencias m\u00e1s traum\u00e1ticas para cualquier ni\u00f1o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deber\u00eda saberlo porque es algo por lo que pas\u00e9 despu\u00e9s de que mis padres se separaran.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, what I didn\u2019t know at the time was that their divorce would help me a lot through life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What I didn\u2019t know was that it would teach me some crucial things about relationships which I wouldn\u2019t have had the chance to learn otherwise and here are 6 of them.
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1. No todas las relaciones est\u00e1n hechas para durar toda la vida<\/strong>
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Let\u2019s face it\u2014none of us se casa<\/a> con una estrategia de salida ya planificada. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We don\u2019t promise to love each other until death do us part unless we really believe in the vows we are saying or if we feel like our marriage has no expiration date.
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Nevertheless, things don\u2019t always end up the way we planned them to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can be convinced that someone is the person you\u2019ll grow old next to but eventually, it turns out that they are not meant to be yours.
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La cuesti\u00f3n es que no todas las relaciones est\u00e1n hechas para durar toda la vida, por mucho que lo deseemos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Algunas personas est\u00e1n ah\u00ed para ayudarnos a atravesar una determinada etapa de la vida o para ense\u00f1arnos una lecci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once their job is done and once they\u2019ve accomplished their mission, we lose them, even though that was something we could never imagine happening.
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2. Y eso est\u00e1 bien.<\/strong>
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Y todo eso forma parte de la vida. No, que tu relaci\u00f3n termine o que tu matrimonio se venga abajo no es el fin del mundo.
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S\u00ed, es doloroso y devastador. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ed, a veces sientes que todas tus peores pesadillas se han hecho realidad, pero estas cosas simplemente ocurren. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y simplemente no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto en lugar de aceptarlo y sacarle el m\u00e1ximo partido. \u00a0
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3. It\u2019s always better to walk away than to stay in a toxic relationship<\/strong>
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Another thing my parents\u2019 divorce taught me is to never permanecer en una mala relaci\u00f3n<\/a> or next to a man who can\u2019t give me what I need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that you should run for the hills at the first sign of inconvenience or that you shouldn\u2019t fight for your relationship but it doesn\u2019t mean that you should ever stay in an unhealthy relationship which is making your life hell.
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I\u2019ve learned that walking away from someone who isn\u2019t making me happy anymore is always a good idea, no matter what someone might tell you about it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estar solo siempre es mejor que estar en una relaci\u00f3n en la que te conformas con menos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Empezar de nuevo y estar soltero siempre es mejor que permanecer al lado de alguien que te hace desgraciado.
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4. Your history with someone shouldn\u2019t be a reason to stay next to them<\/strong>
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Cuando se pone fin a una relaci\u00f3n sentimental y, sobre todo, a un matrimonio, obviamente se tiene mucha historia con la persona que se deja atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se trata de alguien con quien has pasado por muchas cosas y con quien estabas construyendo una vida en com\u00fan.
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Nevertheless, this shouldn\u2019t be the only reason you decide to stay by their side. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, a lot may connect the two of you\u2014children, a mortgage, a house, a business together\u2026 Yes, this person has become your comfort zone.
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However, you can\u2019t spend an eternity dwelling on the happy memories, if the present is far from pretty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t stay next to someone just because of your past if you don\u2019t see your future next to them.
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5. Sadly, love isn\u2019t always enough<\/strong>
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Cuando era peque\u00f1a, cre\u00eda en los cuentos de hadas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cre\u00eda que todo lo que se necesita para un final feliz es que el chico al que amas te corresponda.
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Well, my parents\u2019 divorce showed me otherwise. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me demostr\u00f3 que hay otras cosas m\u00e1s importantes adem\u00e1s del afecto mutuo, como el esfuerzo, el compromiso, el respeto, el aprecio y, lo m\u00e1s importante, la compatibilidad.
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It helped me see that your love can\u2019t change someone unless they decide to do it themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That love can\u2019t make up for some crucial differences between people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me hizo darme cuenta de que a veces, love isn\u2019t enough<\/a> and that it alone can\u2019t make a relationship work.
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6. Sobrevivir\u00e1s<\/strong>
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When you\u2019re going through a brutal break-up, you think of it as the end of the world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are convinced that this is a pain you can\u2019t survive and you see no hope of ever putting yourself back together.
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Bueno, \u00bfadivina qu\u00e9? Mi madre y mi padre sobrevivieron a su divorcio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ed, al principio los dos estaban destrozados, pero al final se curaron. Y ahora son m\u00e1s felices que nunca.
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So, if they could heal from losing the person they once wanted to spend their entire life with, who I am to think that I won\u2019t be able to get over some random boy who tried to break my heart? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQui\u00e9n soy yo para no tener fe en que sobrevivir\u00e9 a todos los dolores emocionales que me depare la vida?
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