{"id":34500,"date":"2020-07-19T11:08:58","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T11:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34500"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:26:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:26:27","slug":"amor-verdadero-versus-amor-narcisista-cuando-marcharse-de-una-vez-por-todas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amor-verdadero-versus-amor-narcisista-cuando-marcharse-de-una-vez-por-todas\/","title":{"rendered":"Amor verdadero contra amor narcisista: Cu\u00e1ndo dejarlo de una vez por todas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estar en una relaci\u00f3n con alguien que es inherentemente egoc\u00e9ntrico significa esencialmente estar en el exterior mirando hacia adentro.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir m\u00e1s como alguien que observa la relaci\u00f3n en lugar de sentirte como la mitad de ella.<\/p>\n

When someone is narcissistic, there really isn\u2019t any room to talk about you.<\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t love.<\/b><\/p>\n

Perm\u00edtete asimilarlo porque necesitas o\u00edrlo. Cualquiera que te quiera te valorar\u00e1 a ti y a tus contribuciones. Querr\u00e1 saberlo todo sobre ti y apoyarte.<\/p>\n

Of course, you\u2019re not going to see eye to eye all of the time, and this is part of why being in a relationship is so great. You can complement each other and pick up where the other leaves off.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n con un narcisista, no te valoran ni te aprecian.<\/b> De hecho, no eres t\u00fa en absoluto.<\/p>\n

You are an extension of self, their self, at least from your partner\u2019s point-of-view.<\/p>\n

Los narcisistas tienden a establecer uniones con aquellos que mejorar\u00e1n su propio ego. Esto significa que sus parejas suelen tener rasgos que otros admiran, el narcisista incluido.<\/p>\n

But the narcissist doesn\u2019t admire you for these traits \u2013 he admires himself and his ability to make those things his by partnering with you.<\/p>\n

El narcisista s\u00f3lo ama al narcisista.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mientras est\u00e9s dispuesta a dar, \u00e9l estar\u00e1 dispuesto a dejarte. Si sigues ofreci\u00e9ndole tus admirables rasgos para que los tome, \u00e9l seguir\u00e1 tom\u00e1ndolos.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, mientras t\u00fa est\u00e9s dispuesto a jugar a este juego s\u00e1dico, \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n lo estar\u00e1. Sin embargo, si en alg\u00fan momento no est\u00e1s dispuesto o empiezas a darte cuenta (y lo har\u00e1s) de que esta asociaci\u00f3n es unilateral, se producir\u00e1n lesiones narcisistas y, poco a poco, los muros empezar\u00e1n a derrumbarse.<\/p>\n

Si causas da\u00f1o, cuidado con la ira.<\/b><\/p>\n

No hay nada m\u00e1s aterrador que la ira que sobreviene despu\u00e9s de decirle a un narcisista que ya es suficiente.<\/p>\n

If you tell your narcissistic partner the gig is up, game over, you\u2019re out, he will become determined to scare you back into submission.<\/p>\n

El narcisista no se detendr\u00e1 ante nada para retenerte.<\/b><\/p>\n

This shouldn\u2019t sound flattering. It means your partner will become hell-bent on destroying you if that\u2019s what it takes to maintain control and keep you by his side.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Algunas de las formas m\u00e1s comunes de hacerlo incluyen aislarte de amigos y familiares, contar mentiras impensables sobre ti a quienes m\u00e1s importan, iniciar una campa\u00f1a de desprestigio y autoinfligirte lesiones para meterte en problemas con la ley.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSigue sonando halagador?<\/b><\/p>\n

You should never underestimate the extent of this person\u2019s psychological sickness. It runs deep, and it has likely been around for a very long time.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not something this person can just \u2018get over.\u2019 You have to know you can\u2019t change him, you can\u2019t fix him, you aren\u2019t the cure.<\/p>\n

No one is \u2013 this is work that can only be done from the inside out.<\/p>\n

Cuando decida marcharse, recuerde este hecho y d\u00e9 prioridad absoluta a su propia seguridad.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There are certain steps that need to be taken if you think you are in a relationship with a self-centered narcissist and you don\u2019t want to be anymore.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to know, if you are imagining the worst when you walk about that door, you are not being paranoid. It\u2019s always better to be safe than sorry.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate tu tiempo para preparar una huida bien pensada antes de salir.<\/p>\n

Above all, you\u2019ll need to resist the urge to look back. Once you\u2019ve shut the door, leave it shut.<\/p>\n

El narcisista har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para persuadirte de que vuelvas porque la din\u00e1mica de poder ha cambiado inesperadamente, y no hay nada que ponga m\u00e1s nervioso a un narcisista.<\/p>\n

This person will try to manipulate you into coming back. They will lie, beg, and steal \u2013 whatever it takes to regain control. But if you\u2019ve successfully left, you are in the driver\u2019s seat, and this is the best place to be.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Volver s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1 las cosas cien veces. If you choose to go back, the fa\u00e7ade will be dropped the second you\u2019re back behind closed doors with this abuser, and the ultimate descarte <\/em>se producir\u00e1. <\/b><\/p>\n

Volver hace que el narcisista se sienta m\u00e1s poderoso que nunca, y utilizar\u00e1 este poder para destruir. Si usted pens\u00f3 que era malo antes, volver a un narcisista, y pronto se dar\u00e1 cuenta de lo malo que realmente puede ser.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let this happen. Take the time to devise a safety plan, and once you\u2019re out the door, never look back.<\/p>\n

Recuerda, los narcisistas son incapaces de dar o recibir amor. Y t\u00fa mereces amor verdadero. No contactes con \u00e9l de una vez por todas.<\/p>\n

\"Amor<\/p>\n

\"Amor<\/p>\n

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Being in a relationship with someone who is inherently self-centered essentially means being on the outside looking in. It makes you feel more like someone who is observing the relationship rather than feeling like half of it. When someone is narcissistic, there really isn\u2019t any room to talk about you. This isn\u2019t love. Allow that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":105086,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34500","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/True-Love-Versus-Narcissistic-Love-When-To-Leave-Once-And-For-All.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34500","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34500"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34500\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105086"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34500"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34500"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34500"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}