{"id":34582,"date":"2020-03-20T12:52:50","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T12:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34582"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:13:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:13:18","slug":"dating-older-women-12-cosas-que-realmente-quieren","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dating-older-women-12-cosas-que-realmente-quieren\/","title":{"rendered":"Citas con mujeres mayores: 12 cosas que realmente quieren"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las citas a los veinte y a los cuarenta a\u00f1os son dos mundos diferentes.m\u00bfRecuerda el caos que reinaba en su cabeza cuando era joven?<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas las cosas triviales que entonces parec\u00edan problemas insoportables?,Pues bien, la experiencia de salir con mujeres mayores es diferente en todos los sentidos posibles.<\/p>\n

I bet you\u2019d give anything to go back to having problems you thought were the biggest you\u2019ll ever face.<\/p>\n

Ahora, cuando miras esas cosas desde una perspectiva diferente y con mucha m\u00e1s experiencia, la versi\u00f3n m\u00e1s joven de ti parece tan tentadora ahora.<\/p>\n

Las citas han cambiado en general. Conocer gente nueva est\u00e1 m\u00e1s al alcance que nunca. Basta con echar un vistazo a Tinder o a cualquier otra app similar.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t like that when you were young. In your past, you didn\u2019t have a whole organization revolving around connecting people.<\/p>\n

If you met someone, you met them by accident and if you liked them, you went out on a date. That\u2019s how things worked.<\/p>\n

En realidad, lo que quiero decir es que las citas han cambiado en su conjunto, pero las citas tambi\u00e9n han cambiado para ti.<\/p>\n

Your priorities back then and now are in no way similar. And believe me, this is a good thing because\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2022 there\u2019s no more relationship drama;<\/p>\n

\u2022 the chances of a committed relationship are higher;<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re able to recognize a douche miles away.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

El t\u00fa de los 40 y el t\u00fa de los 20 son polos opuestos.<\/p>\n

Now, you are so much more aware of who you are and what you want \u2013 or better said, you know what you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Puede que te haya costado muchos errores y mucho tiempo llegar a este punto, pero lo has conseguido.<\/p>\n

There is no more relationship drama and it\u2019s much easier to recognize if you\u2019re facing a potentially serious relationship with a normal and earnest man.<\/p>\n

La idea err\u00f3nea a la que se enfrentan las mujeres cuando entran en la cuarentena es que no tienen derecho a elegir como pod\u00edan hacerlo antes.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s a joke. You have every right to be picky and choose carefully with whom you\u2019re going to date.<\/p>\n

Creo que tienes m\u00e1s derecho a hacerlo ahora que cuando eras m\u00e1s joven.<\/p>\n

After so many years\u2019 experience, you deserve to get what you want.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres mayores que triunfan en las citas saben exactamente lo que quieren. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re interested in finding out what that is, here are the personality traits that older women really look for in a man:<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Un hombre maduro<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Una mujer mayor no est\u00e1 interesada en chicos emocionalmente inmaduros.<\/p>\n

A decir verdad, nadie lo es, especialmente una mujer mayor que est\u00e1 en una ligera ventaja cuando se trata de reconocer a un hombre emocionalmente inmaduro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ella quiere un hombre amable, gentil y cari\u00f1oso. Alguien que es genuino y honesto no s\u00f3lo a ella, sino a s\u00ed mismo, tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

She wants a man who is emotionally independent because she doesn\u2019t need a child to take care of, but a man who will take care of her.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t play mind games because she\u2019s passed that a long time ago.<\/p>\n

Men who can\u2019t handle their own problems don\u2019t even have to bother trying to date her because if you can\u2019t deal with your own issues, how are you supposed to be someone\u2019s support?<\/p>\n

2. Un hombre con sentido del humor<\/h2>\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n

A veces la vida puede ser dura. Las situaciones en las que te encuentras pueden llegar a ser m\u00e1s de lo que puedes manejar y, precisamente en esos momentos, necesitas soltarte.<\/p>\n

In those situations, you need something to distract you and keep your mind off your problems \u2013 you need a laugh.<\/p>\n

Un hombre con buen sentido del humor te har\u00e1 eso. Te arrancar\u00e1 una sonrisa y te animar\u00e1 cuando m\u00e1s lo necesites.<\/p>\n

Also, a good sense of humor is a sign of intelligence. If he\u2019s funny, you can be sure he is more than just pretty to look at.<\/p>\n

3. Un hombre independiente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

By independent, I mean give a woman some space to breathe. An older woman doesn\u2019t have the need to be by her man\u2019s side all the time.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s not insecure or afraid of being cheated on the moment her man leaves her sight.<\/p>\n

Buscan voluntariamente algo de espacio y tiempo para s\u00ed mismos, para alejarse de su pareja.<\/p>\n

Necesitan tener sus aficiones, tiempo a solas y tiempo de calidad con sus amigos.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re used to dating younger women who have the need to spend all their free time with you, get that idea out of your head because it\u2019s not how it\u2019s going to work with dating an older woman.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want a clingy man who denies her right to autonomy.<\/p>\n

4. Un hombre rom\u00e1ntico<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Insecurity doesn\u2019t fade with years. It can be easier to control and it can appear less often, but it\u2019s always present. Where am I going with this?<\/p>\n

If a woman is a bit older than the average girls you\u2019ve dated, it doesn\u2019t mean she doesn\u2019t need romance in her life.<\/p>\n

She is a woman after all and a compliment or two every now and then wouldn\u2019t hurt. It would give her the confidence boost every woman needs.<\/p>\n

Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, el romanticismo es lo que hace que las citas sean divertidas. \u00bfQu\u00e9 ser\u00eda sin \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

5. Un hombre que no teme llamar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Texting is for insecure boys. When you don\u2019t have the guts to say something you want, you\u2019ll text it; it\u2019s so much easier.<\/p>\n

If she asks you something you don\u2019t have to answer right away, you can come up with the tex perfecto<\/a>o la respuesta que crees que quiere o\u00edr.<\/p>\n

You see, older women know this and if you text her rather than call her, she\u2019ll know that you are not serious about your relationship.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que coge el tel\u00e9fono como un hombre, porque los mensajes de texto son cosa de chicos.<\/p>\n

If you have something to say, be a man and call her or tell it to her face. Don\u2019t hide behind texts.<\/p>\n

6. A man who doesn\u2019t care about the past<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

She wants a man who doesn\u2019t care what happened before him.<\/p>\n

An older woman has a life behind her and it may be an unpleasant one \u2013 a life she\u2019s trying to let go of.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s probably been divorced or she has been in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

Whatever her past looked like, she has moved on from it and she doesn\u2019t need reminders and your questions about \u201cwhat happened.\u201d<\/p>\n

Si quiere que lo sepas, lo compartir\u00e1 contigo.<\/p>\n

En este momento, ella est\u00e1 buscando un nuevo comienzo. Un nuevo comienzo contigo.<\/p>\n

7. Un hombre que presta atenci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

In a perfect world, this should be the customary behavior of a normal guy with a woman of any age, but it\u2019s especially important when dating an older woman.<\/p>\n

Escucha sus necesidades y deseos. Presta atenci\u00f3n cuando hable, porque est\u00e1 diciendo mucho m\u00e1s de lo que oyes al principio.<\/p>\n

Nunca la des por sentada si quieres que tu relaci\u00f3n tenga un final feliz.<\/p>\n

Presta atenci\u00f3n a los detalles, que sin duda son la clave del \u00e9xito de una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

8. Un hombre que no es todo apariencia<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

An older woman doesn\u2019t need superficial emotions. She wants to date a man who loves her for her personality.<\/p>\n

After all, if a man doesn\u2019t like his partner\u2019s personality traits, physical beauty will eventually fade.<\/p>\n

Si una persona es bondadosa, amable y cari\u00f1osa, su exterior resulta m\u00e1s atractivo para alguien.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why love at first sight usually fades. Beauty doesn\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

9. Un hombre seguro de s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

These women have seen everything there is to see. They\u2019ve encountered every possible type of a man there is.<\/p>\n

Nada puede enga\u00f1arles, ya que lo han visto todo.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t try to hide anything from her and don\u2019t pretend to be someone you\u2019re not. She will see right through you from the first contact you make.<\/p>\n

Your approach alone and your first impression will give away who you really are. You can\u2019t make a fool out of her or play her in any way.<\/p>\n

If you want to ask her out, be confident and upfront. Believe in yourself, because if you don’t how do you expect her to believe in you?<\/p>\n

10. Un hombre que quiere mejorar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Las personas tienen que trabajar sobre s\u00ed mismas mientras vivan. Siempre cometemos errores y siempre debemos aprender de ellos.<\/p>\n

Esa es la \u00fanica manera de mejorar y ser mejor.<\/p>\n

The easiest thing you can do is to brush aside issues when things aren\u2019t peachy.<\/p>\n

You can turn off your phone and spend a few nights watching Netflix, but that won\u2019t keep you on top for long.<\/p>\n

Women don\u2019t want men like that by their side.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres quieren hombres que trabajen constantemente en s\u00ed mismos, tratando de encontrar la mejor soluci\u00f3n posible para cada situaci\u00f3n en la que se encuentren.<\/p>\n

Tienen que preocuparse por s\u00ed mismos y por su \u00e9xito. Deben esforzarse por convertirse en la mejor versi\u00f3n de s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019re doing both yourself and the person you’re with a favor. By seeing you grow, they will wish to become more like you.<\/p>\n

11. Alguien que sea su mejor amigo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

El n\u00facleo de toda relaci\u00f3n seria es la amistad. Cuando se trata de relaciones duraderas, toda mujer mayor busca tanto un amigo como un amante.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get this wrong and assume you can\u2019t have fun with an older woman.<\/p>\n

No es ajena a los rollos de una noche y a las relaciones ocasionales.<\/p>\n

Only, those things are not what she really wants \u2013 unless when it comes to blowing off some steam, anything goes.<\/p>\n

12. Un hombre que tiene su vida resuelta<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

Okay, he can be a bit off course. After all, no one\u2019s perfect. But for the most part, he has it all sorted out and planned.<\/p>\n

Las mujeres mayores, cuando salen contigo, esperan que tengas alg\u00fan tipo de plan para el futuro.<\/p>\n

They are not looking for a project to have fun with and they are definitely not planning to spend the best years of their lives on someone who hasn\u2019t grown up yet.<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

\"Citas<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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