Por lo tanto, si you\u2019ve been single for a whil<\/a>e, you\u2019re probably very well familiar with all the benefits of such a lifestyle.<\/strong><\/p>\n You can go on a journey wherever you want and whenever you want, you don\u2019t have to worry about \u2018Seen\u2019 messages or unanswered calls, you don\u2019t have to be perfectly hairless (shaved) all the time, you don\u2019t have to worry if someone will see the bags under your eyes when you wake up in the morning and you don\u2019t have to worry about them enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote.<\/a><\/p>\n You are a free, independent human being and you choose what you\u2019re going to do, when and how!<\/p>\n Pero<\/strong> aunque todas las ventajas anteriores son bastante atractivas, hay momentos en los que te quedas con ganas de m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are times when you really want to have someone special in your life with whom you\u2019ll share all of your secrets, who will hug you tight and hold you in their arms forever, who will forget to call you back after you call them and who will get on your nerves so much that you would want to kill them but you can\u2019t because you love them too much.<\/p>\n Renuevas tu vestuario, te compras la \u00faltima m\u00e1scara de pesta\u00f1as, actualizas tu perfil en las aplicaciones de citas, decides salir m\u00e1s y, de paso, conoces a algunos candidatos potenciales y les das la oportunidad de presentarse.<\/p>\n But somehow, every date ends up in disaster. Half of the time you fight to find a common language, you can\u2019t relax and even the people around you notice a lack of connection between the two of you.<\/p>\n Te cansas y no le ves sentido a seguir saliendo. Y es entonces cuando te dices a ti mismo: \u2018I will never <\/strong>enamorarse<\/strong><\/a> no matter what I do and I will never experience true love. I\u2019m going to be single forever!\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n Independientemente de lo que pensemos los dem\u00e1s, lo cierto es que tienes todo el derecho a sentirte as\u00ed.<\/p>\n It\u2019s really frustrating to constantly make efforts for the wrong people or for those who you\u2019re simply not compatible with.<\/p>\n Now, I know that it sounds unreal but, believe me, not all hope is lost! First of all, know that there is nothing wrong with being solo and you\u2019re definitely not going to be like this forever.<\/p>\n Someday in the near future, you will find your true love (I can promise you that)! Until then, here are some helpful things to remind you of whenever you feel like you\u2019ll be single forever!<\/p>\n Lo primero que tienes que entender es que no pasa nada por sentirte solo.<\/p>\n Incluso las personas que tienen pareja se sienten solas (aunque por motivos diferentes).<\/p>\n The point is, no matter the circumstances, there will always be times when you\u2019ll feel lonely because it\u2019s a part of our human nature.<\/p>\n Y siempre que te sientas solo o desees una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica, debes saber que no pasa nada por sentirte as\u00ed.<\/p>\n It may sound absurd but it\u2019s better to feel lonely because you are single than to feel lonely in a relationship.<\/p>\n Always look on the bright side and you\u2019ll see how everything makes perfect sense (though I know that sometimes we\u2019re just unable to see it that way).<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, siempre que te sientas solo, respira hondo y dite a ti mismo que est\u00e1 bien sentirse as\u00ed y que pasar\u00e1.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t think there\u2019s any need to tell you that your potential partner will not just appear at your door, so always keep this in mind!<\/p>\n Recuerda que si quieres que algo suceda, tienes que emprender ciertas acciones.<\/p>\n Si quieres conocer a alguien nuevo, tienes que estar dispuesto a salir m\u00e1s, tienes que ir siempre a alg\u00fan sitio nuevo, quiz\u00e1 ir al gimnasio de vez en cuando, encontrar alg\u00fan pasatiempo nuevo, plantearte darte un capricho con las aplicaciones de citas y similares.<\/p>\n Sea cual sea la acci\u00f3n que decida emprender, \u00a1sin duda le beneficiar\u00e1!<\/p>\n Lo peor que puedes hacer es seguir en el sof\u00e1 y seguir diciendo que nada va a cambiar.<\/p>\n Recuerda que todo est\u00e1 en tu mente. El cambio se producir\u00e1 cuando est\u00e9s dispuesto a trabajar por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n Nunca confundas el amor verdadero con la perfecci\u00f3n. Nunca busques a la persona perfecta porque tal vez ese chico o chica que rechazaste en el pasado sin siquiera darle una oportunidad era tu alma gemela en potencia.<\/p>\n Rel\u00e1jate y ten en cuenta que tu futura alma gemela ser\u00e1 alguien que est\u00e1 lejos de la perfecci\u00f3n, como el resto de nosotros.<\/p>\n Pero cuando te enamores de ellos, se convertir\u00e1n en perfectos para ti.<\/p>\n All of their flaws and quirks will be invisible to your eye or you simply won\u2019t mind them because that\u2019s what makes them who they are.<\/p>\n Always be open to give a chance to everyone, even if they don\u2019t fit your definition of a real man at that moment because that\u2019s the only way to meet the one.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t meet the perfect person, they become one when you get to know them better.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 que enamorarse <\/a>suena tan sencillo y de hecho lo es, pero tambi\u00e9n hay algunas cosas que requieren que las trabajes.<\/p>\n Cuando se trata del mundo de las citas, es de suma importancia trabajar en tu interior.<\/p>\n Ask yourself what types of people you are attracted to and why that is so, ask yourself if you are treating every potential date equally and whether you have difficulties trusting others or you\u2019re afraid of intimacy.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo, acepta las cosas como son y empieza a trabajar en ellas.<\/p>\n But don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that ser soltero<\/a> debe significar que hay algo mal contigo.<\/p>\n On the contrary, most of you are single by choice but these are some essential questions that will boost your \u2018performance\u2019 when it comes to the dating world.<\/p>\n If you already were in a relationship and things didn\u2019t go really great, chances are that your past might be preventing you from enjoying the present.<\/p>\n Si tu relaci\u00f3n fue un aut\u00e9ntico desastre, es completamente normal que sientas aversi\u00f3n a entablar una nueva.<\/p>\n Your mind might be telling you that it\u2019s time to move on but your heart is simply afraid to meet new people and I understand that completely but letting go of the past is one of the number one things you need to do if you want to refresca tu vida amorosa<\/a> y empezar de cero.<\/p>\n If your previous relationships hurt you, don\u2019t think that this will happen again because the chance of such a thing is not that high.<\/p>\n Al fin y al cabo, tus penurias te han hecho diez veces m\u00e1s sabio, \u00a1as\u00ed que no dejar\u00e1s que vuelva a ocurrir lo mismo!<\/p>\n I will try to help you as much as I can but now I will ask you to promise me one thing and that is that you\u2019ll never forget that you deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t ever think that you\u2019re not worthy of love just because someone in your past has made you feel so.<\/p>\n Eres suficientemente bueno.<\/a> Eres incre\u00edble. Eres un verdadero milagro. Y pase lo que pase, nunca lo olvides.<\/p>\n When you meet someone new, don\u2019t think that you have to go out of your way to deserve their love or win their affection. No!<\/p>\n It\u2019s true that you have to make an effort too (just like them) but don\u2019t ever think that you are unworthy if you\u2019re not giving 200% of yourself.<\/p>\n Accept the fact that the dating world is a cruel place and there are high chances that you won\u2019t find your special one on the first few dates but if you keep being persistent, I can promise you that you will!<\/p>\n Lo m\u00e1s importante es ser sincero con uno mismo y admitir que el mundo de las citas es una mierda y que pasar una noche en el sof\u00e1 con tus series favoritas es mucho m\u00e1s agradable.<\/p>\n But no matter how much you are attached to your couch, it doesn’t have the same emotional needs as you have.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que arrem\u00e1ngate y ten en cuenta que no ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil, \u00a1pero puedes hacerlo!<\/p>\n After all, you can never find the good until you\u2019ve experienced the bad.<\/p>\n No importa cu\u00e1ntas veces repitieras en tu cabeza que you\u2019ll stay single forever<\/a>, please, don\u2019t forget to love yourself.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t hate yourself for the fact that all of your friends are taken or perhaps married. The same thing waits for you, too!<\/p>\n The only difference is that they have experienced it earlier than you which doesn\u2019t mean that you will.<\/p>\n \u00c1mate a ti mismo<\/a>, tu cuerpo y tu alma, y piensa siempre en positivo porque atraes lo que piensas.<\/p>\n Si sigues pensando que you\u2019ll stay single<\/a> para siempre, atraer\u00e1s cosas negativas y seguir\u00e1s decepcion\u00e1ndote a ti mismo.<\/p>\n Qui\u00e9rete lo suficiente como para creer que las cosas cambiar\u00e1n pronto y que disfrutar\u00e1s de pasar tiempo con tu ser especial antes de lo que imaginas.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Aunque no es bueno tener un nivel de exigencia excesivo, tampoco lo es no tenerlo en absoluto.<\/p>\n No te enamores de todo aquel que te muestre un poco de respeto y aprecio.<\/p>\n Recuerda que es normal que act\u00faen as\u00ed si quieren conquistarte y demostrarte su afecto.<\/p>\n Feel free to be picky sometimes (but remember, sometimes!) and don\u2019t let your heart fall in love with every stranger with beautiful eyes and even more beautiful words.<\/p>\n Encuentra el equilibrio entre tu deseo de amar y tus expectativas.<\/p>\n Enam\u00f3rate de alguien que te inspire a ser mejor persona y que luche por ti pase lo que pase, no porque tenga que hacerlo, sino porque quiere.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let your single label prevent you from indulging in trying new exciting things and spicing up your life from time to time.<\/p>\n Vete de viaje, aprende nuevas aficiones, encuentra nuevas recetas de cocina, busca nuevos lugares interesantes que visitar o lo que te apetezca.<\/p>\n Ocuparte de cosas nuevas es algo que te ayudar\u00e1 a mantenerte en contacto contigo mismo y a refrescar tu vida, as\u00ed como tus h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re all into finding new ways of divertirse<\/a>Al instante parecer\u00e1s diez veces m\u00e1s atractiva y la gente que te rodea tambi\u00e9n lo notar\u00e1.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, recuerda que hay una diferencia entre querer algo y necesitarlo.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re going on dates just because you need other people\u2019s approval or attention, this will not last long.<\/p>\n En primer lugar, tienes que trabajar sobre ti misma y darte cuenta de qu\u00e9 es lo que te hace sentir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n En el momento en que empieces a querer algo por el mero hecho de quererlo, aumentar\u00e1s tus posibilidades de tener \u00e9xito en tu vida amorosa y tu posible pareja tambi\u00e9n lo reconocer\u00e1.<\/p>\n I know it sounds silly but people will be attracted to becoming a part of your life just because you don\u2019t need them but you want them.<\/p>\n Know what you bring to the table and be someone who doesn\u2019t NEED others to be happy.<\/p>\n Recuerda que primero debes encontrar tu propia felicidad y luego compartirla con los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n Sea siempre razonable en cuanto a sus expectativas.<\/p>\n Siempre es mejor tener expectativas m\u00e1s bajas que imaginar que las cosas deber\u00edan ser como t\u00fa las ves y, cuando te das cuenta de que no es as\u00ed, te decepcionas al instante.<\/p>\n La regla de oro de las citas es rebajar las expectativas.<\/p>\n When you don\u2019t have any assumptions or expectations about someone, you\u2019re much more stress-free and that way you are protecting yourself from future disappointments.<\/p>\n Just go with the flow and act accordingly and you\u2019ll see how much your love life will actually improve. Again, it\u2019s all in your head!<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let the dating world stress you out to the extent of giving up. ‘Love takes patience’ and never forget that.<\/p>\n El afecto y la conexi\u00f3n iniciales que puedas compartir con alguien son s\u00f3lo el primer paso cuando se trata del amor verdadero.<\/p>\n El verdadero amor requiere tiempo y paciencia.<\/p>\n Tienes que estar dispuesto a invertir todo tu cuerpo y alma (y esperar lo mismo de tu pareja) y aun as\u00ed habr\u00e1 algunos peque\u00f1os problemas con los que tendr\u00e1s que lidiar.<\/p>\n So, don’t be discouraged when something unexpected happens because that is just a part of the big thing called ‘true love’ that waits for you impatiently.<\/p>\n![\"silueta](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/silhouette-of-couple-dancing-outside.jpg\")
<\/p>\nIt\u2019s Perfectly Okay To Feel Lonely<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/young-woman-sitting-alone-in-the-back-outdoors-on-the-beach-of-a-tropical-island.jpg\")
<\/p>\nAct\u00faa<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-drinking-water-and-sitting-at-gym.jpg\")
<\/p>\nOlv\u00eddese de la perfecci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"hermosa](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-brunette-staring-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\")
<\/p>\nTrabaja en tu interior<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/relaxed-woman-taking-bath.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDejar atr\u00e1s el pasado<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"el](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-raise-hand-to-hot-air-balloons.jpg\")
<\/figure>\nMereces que te quieran<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"hermosa](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/beautiful-caucasian-woman-walking-outdoors.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEntre en la realidad<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-having-dinner-in-the-dark.jpg\")
<\/p>\nQui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"chica](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/shy-girl-standing-and-looking-down.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDon\u2019t Fall In Love With Everyone<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-hugs-woman-from-back.jpg\")
<\/figure>\nProbar cosas nuevas<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/woman-cooking-in-the-kitchen.jpg\")
<\/p>\nDon\u2019t Be Needy<\/strong><\/h2>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/man-and-woman-eating-in-restaurant.jpg\")
<\/figure>\nDon\u2019t Expect Too Much<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nSea paciente<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\n![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-holding-hands-outside.jpg\")
<\/figure>\n![\"Si](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/If-You-Feel-Like-Youre-Going-To-Be-Single-Forever-Read-This-Pinterest.jpg\")
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