{"id":34703,"date":"2019-03-25T08:14:11","date_gmt":"2019-03-25T08:14:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34703"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:27:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:27:45","slug":"conoces-mi-nombre-no-mi-historia-asi-que-piensa-antes-de-juzgar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/conoces-mi-nombre-no-mi-historia-asi-que-piensa-antes-de-juzgar\/","title":{"rendered":"Conoces mi nombre, pero no mi historia, as\u00ed que piensa antes de juzgar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Conoces mi nombre, no mi historia. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te apresuras a juzgar?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The person that I am and how I choose to condone myself is the result of numerous circumstances and tough shit I\u2019ve been through in life, which I guess could be said for a lot of people out there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many a time, I\u2019ve heard stories about people from those who weren\u2019t in the least bit personally involved with them and every single time it baffled the shit out of me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve heard judgment, hate and trash-talk about people that I knew first-hand weren\u2019t true.
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\"Conoces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Siempre me qued\u00e9 callado porque me di cuenta de que discrepar con gente testaruda y sentenciosa era un profundo desperdicio de mi aliento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 que muchos de ustedes pueden simpatizar con esto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How many of you have been talked about and judged based on the uneducated opinions of malicious people who have nothing better to do in life but stick their nose into other people\u2019s business?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfY cu\u00e1ntas veces te has sentido tan profundamente herido por esos comentarios perversos, sabiendo que hay gente ah\u00ed fuera que realmente se va a formar una opini\u00f3n equivocada de ti bas\u00e1ndose en eso?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es un asco, lo s\u00e9. Yo soy enfermo y cansado<\/a> de personas que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1n familiarizadas con mi nombre, pensando que conocen toda la historia de mi vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conoces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t and I\u2019ve finally found a way to make peace with that and not let it disturb me as much as it used to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo que soy como persona no tiene nada que ver con que la gente hable mal de m\u00ed. Recu\u00e9rdatelo siempre cuando la mierda empiece a afectarte. Ayuda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have a big mouth. When something gets to me, I run my mouth off in so many directions that it\u2019s hard for me to stop myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am extremely passionate about the people and things that I love and when I have something to say, I usually don\u2019t mince my words. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And guess what? I\u2019m fucking proud of that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Puedes pensar lo que quieras al respecto, pero yo protejo ferozmente mi salud mental, a mis seres m\u00e1s queridos y a quienes considero que est\u00e1n siendo juzgados injustamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca voy a disculparme por ser as\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si usted <\/em>can\u2019t handle<\/em><\/a> me at my most passionate, you don\u2019t deserve me at my calmest.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No soy el tipo de chica que se va a quedar sentada tranquilamente en el sal\u00f3n, esperando a que su hombre llegue del trabajo para hacerle la cena y complacerle en todo lo posible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me encanta mi hombre<\/a>. Y siempre voy a estar aqu\u00ed para \u00e9l. Pero de vez en cuando, yo tambi\u00e9n merezco que me cuiden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo tambi\u00e9n tengo d\u00edas malos. Yo tambi\u00e9n me enfrento a cosas dif\u00edciles y tambi\u00e9n me emociono y me frustro.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs demasiado pedir que me cuiden a veces? \u00bfMe convierte eso en una mujer dif\u00edcil de amar?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conoces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

I really don\u2019t think it does. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And whoever feels that I\u2019m not entitled to my own shit and my own emotions doesn\u2019t have a place in my mind or especially in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve dealt with pain. I\u2019ve experienced loss. I\u2019ve let myself get broken into so many pieces\u2026 but I\u2019ve also picked myself up every single time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve had days where I didn\u2019t want to live. I\u2019ve had days where waking up in the morning felt like the most pointless thing I could do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero me levant\u00e9 cada vez y aqu\u00ed estoy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still alive and still kicking life\u2019s ass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So don\u2019t you dare begin to think you know my story, when all you know is my name!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been told about me but what do you really know? How deeply does that individual really know me? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preg\u00fantatelo la pr\u00f3xima vez que oigas una historia que parezca demasiado inveros\u00edmil para ser cierta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo soy una mujer fuerte<\/a>. M\u00e1s fuerte de lo que nunca pens\u00e9 que era.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I may seem on the outside like I don\u2019t care much but those who know my story know that I care more than I should.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f3lo intento ocultarlo al mundo para protegerme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did you know that I\u2019ve had my heart broken more times than I am willing to admit?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conoces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Did you know that I\u2019ve been cheated on, lied to and manipulated by those who were supposed to be my rock?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I bet you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque no tengo ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s en gritar mis historias personales al mundo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is mine is mine and only those close to my heart get to know what\u2019s in it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Creo que mis luchas y c\u00f3mo las afronto son lo que me hacen ser quien soy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s so easy letting shit get to you and bring you down. It\u2019s too easy letting bad people tear you apart piece by piece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero una vez que aprendes que no todo el mundo tiene el mismo coraz\u00f3n que t\u00fa, resulta m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil ignorar esos comentarios hirientes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You just have to accept that people are always going to have something to say. There will always be those who think they\u2019re smarter than God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But karma is going to get them\u2026 I firmly believe in that. Everybody gets what they put out into the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y precisamente por eso intento ser una buena persona. Intento ser amable, compasiva y cuidar de los que quiero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Veo cada d\u00eda como una nueva oportunidad de hacer algo que merezca la pena. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if I manage to put one smile on one person\u2019s face, I consider the day a success.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Conoces<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Le sugiero lo mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e9 amable, s\u00e9 bueno y haz el bien a los dem\u00e1s. La vida es as\u00ed de sencilla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know your story and don\u2019t let irrelevant people get you to doubt yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Su malicia es el reflejo de su insatisfacci\u00f3n con su propia vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuida de ti mismo, de tu familia y de tus amigos, y ten siempre presente que las cosas m\u00e1s peque\u00f1as marcan la mayor diferencia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esto me ayud\u00f3 a superar mucho dolor y frustraci\u00f3n, y espero sinceramente que a ti te sirva para lo mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My life, my story. And if you don\u2019t like it, tough! Because I really don\u2019t care anymore.<\/em>
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You know my name, not my story. So why are you so quick to judge? The person that I am and how I choose to condone myself is the result of numerous circumstances and tough shit I\u2019ve been through in life, which I guess could be said for a lot of people out there. Many…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":34713,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34703","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/cole-patrick-454572-unsplash.jpg",800,600,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34703","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34703"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34703\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34703"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34703"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34703"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}