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<\/p>\r\n\r\nNo te conformes nunca con menos de lo que mereces.<\/p>\r\n
Have you ever stopped and really thought about why you\u2019re doing the complete opposite?<\/p>\r\n
Es decir, nadie te obliga a hacerlo, nadie te proh\u00edbe pedir lo que te mereces. As\u00ed que, de nuevo, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te conformas?<\/p>\r\n
When you exclude emotions from reason, it\u2019s more than logical to abandon a relationship that is making you unhappy.<\/p>\r\n
It\u2019s perfectly normal to leave with no strings attached and find your happiness elsewhere. Sadly, nothing is that simple as long as emotions get the better of you.<\/p>\r\n
Even if you don\u2019t love the person you\u2019re unhappy with, you\u2019ve grown used to them and there is no way you could just leave without feeling something\u2026 anything.<\/p>\r\n
That\u2019s when emotions make a big deal and guilt you into staying unhappy. You feel sorry for the person; you feel sorry for the lost time and you keep hoping that something will gradually change.<\/p>\r\n
You don\u2019t want to just quit and let everything you\u2019ve worked hard for go to waste.<\/p>\r\n
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Normalmente, esos sentimientos son los culpables, pero a\u00fan m\u00e1s com\u00fan es que la gente que se conforma con menos es incre\u00edblemente insegura<\/strong> y lo hacen porque tienen poca o ninguna fe en s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\r\n We all have that seed of doubt, the mistrust in ourselves, planted deep inside us, but the way we\u2019re handling it is what counts.<\/p>\r\n Algunos mantienen sus inseguridades bajo control y otros dejan que sus dudas les coman vivos. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n For as long as you don\u2019t put an end to it, you aren\u2019t going to be happy.<\/p>\r\n Change your attitude from \u201cI\u2019m not good enough to be with someone\u201d to \u201cI want someone who actually deserves me\u201d and your unhappiness is going to come to an end.<\/p>\r\n That part of your life will turn into nothing more than a huge mistake from which you\u2019ve learned the most important lesson.<\/p>\r\n The reason why you\u2019re settling can be this, or it can be because you\u2019re just miedo a la solter\u00eda<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n I understand it\u2019s scary, especially if you\u2019ve spent most of your life as part of a duo and now you have to go back to the game, but you\u2019re not sure if the rules have changed.<\/p>\r\n You\u2019re not sure if you\u2019re going to make it. Let me tell you something, every change is scary, but you can never know for sure that it\u2019s a bad thing.<\/p>\r\n Y todos somos as\u00ed. Todos asumimos, en el acto, que si las cosas cambian y se convierten en algo con lo que no estamos familiarizados, eso es malo para nosotros.<\/p>\r\n That is a load of crap! That is the fear talking out of you \u2013 the fear that is your biggest enemy.<\/p>\r\n Something that is pulling you down and pulling you back, something that isn\u2019t allowing you to grow.<\/p>\r\n Este miedo a la solter\u00eda est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionado con la miedo al abandono<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n We are \u2013 and I\u2019m using \u201cwe\u201d because I\u2019m talking about all of us, not just you \u2013 we are all putting an enormous amount of pressure on ourselves because of these abandonment issues.<\/p>\r\n Intentamos salvar una relaci\u00f3n rota, aunque eso signifique encontrar excusas para un comportamiento t\u00f3xico. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n To anyone else, leaving a loveless relationship seems the right road to take, but for you, it\u2019s a dark path full of obstacles and challenges.<\/p>\r\n It\u2019s the leap to the unknown; it\u2019s a huge risk you aren\u2019t willing to take just yet!<\/p>\r\n\r\n I bet you\u2019ve thought exactly the same as what I\u2019m I about to say: \u201cIt\u2019s better to be in a crappy relationship than spend the rest of your life alone!\u201d<\/p>\r\n This is when everything goes to hell. This one sentence craps all over your life. This one sentence defines you who you are and how you\u2019re going to deal with love.<\/p>\r\n Adoptar este tipo de postura te mete en una situaci\u00f3n de la que es muy dif\u00edcil escapar. I have a story to share with you\u2026 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n Estaba en una relaci\u00f3n sin amor. Al principio, era como cualquier otra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n Est\u00e1bamos en nuestra fase de luna de miel y \u00e9ramos muy felices. Parec\u00eda que nada podr\u00eda separarnos.<\/p>\r\n Sadly, as time passed by, I fell out of love. He wasn\u2019t that interesting anymore because he didn\u2019t try hard enough, which led me to believe he didn’t care.<\/p>\r\n![\"Mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Thoughtful-woman-looking-through-window.jpg\")
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