{"id":34886,"date":"2020-06-28T08:44:16","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T08:44:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34886"},"modified":"2022-06-01T20:04:58","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T20:04:58","slug":"todavia-lo-amo-5-senales-claras-de-que-es-hora-de-dejarlo-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/todavia-lo-amo-5-senales-claras-de-que-es-hora-de-dejarlo-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTodav\u00eda le quiero? 5 se\u00f1ales claras de que es hora de dejarlo ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTodav\u00eda <\/em>lo amo<\/em><\/a> \u00bfo s\u00f3lo me quedo con \u00e9l por razones pr\u00e1cticas y de conveniencia?<\/em><\/p>\n

Es una pregunta que me he hecho bastantes veces en la vida y ni una sola vez me result\u00f3 f\u00e1cil afrontar los hechos.<\/p>\n

Breakups are just the worst, and I have to say, there have been times where I deluded myself into thinking it was a smart idea to stay in a doomed relationship just so I wouldn\u2019t have to go through all that inevitable heartbreak.<\/p>\n

I mean, who in this world wouldn\u2019t do everything in their power to try and salvage a relationship that you feel has potential to go the distance?<\/em><\/p>\n

Nothing is perfect, no relationship is without its glitches and faults, so why wouldn\u2019t you work on saving it instead of just <\/em>abandono<\/em><\/a> a la primera se\u00f1al de problemas y decidir que ya no le quieres?<\/em><\/p>\n

Por desgracia para m\u00ed, siempre resultaba que mi instinto estaba en lo cierto.<\/p>\n

De alg\u00fan modo, siempre me indicaba que deb\u00eda dejarlo, pero mi testarudo trasero lo ignoraba, esperando que de alg\u00fan modo estuviera equivocado.<\/p>\n

Si ahora mismo est\u00e1s pasando por este dilema imposible y te preguntas constantemente, \u201c\u00bfTodav\u00eda le quiero?<\/a> \u00bfo s\u00f3lo estoy prolongando lo inevitable?<\/em>\u201d just listen to what your gut feeling is telling you.<\/p>\n

Tu coraz\u00f3n siempre va a querer quedarse y hacer ejercicio<\/a> tus problemas.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, hay tanto amor, tanta historia y tantos buenos momentos entre vosotros que ser\u00eda una tonter\u00eda dejarlo estar. Pero hay momentos en los que simplemente lo sabes. En el fondo, tienes la respuesta.<\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve just buried it so deep, hoping it wouldn\u2019t resurface and you could keep living your fantasy, avoiding the harsh reality that has come upon you.<\/p>\n

Nadie puede culparte. Todos queremos ser felices para siempre y todos har\u00edamos lo que fuera necesario para encontrarlo y conservarlo.<\/p>\n

But sometimes what you don\u2019t realize is that what you are actually doing is sacrificing your happiness and your joy.<\/p>\n

Te est\u00e1s negando tu derecho a ser verdaderamente feliz al permanecer en una relaci\u00f3n en la que no te sientes realizado.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for mediocre love. Don\u2019t settle for broken communication and half the effort on his part.<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay where you don\u2019t feel like your authentic self and where your spirit is crushed.  <\/em>Te debes a ti mismo encontrar a esa persona que te da v\u00e9rtigo por dentro.<\/em><\/p>\n

And if your current partner is not doing that, you\u2019re with the wrong person, and that\u2019s okay!<\/p>\n

You are still a good person if where you currently are isn\u2019t where you want to stay forever. You are the only one who knows what sparks joy in you.<\/p>\n

If your gut is telling you that you\u2019re not where you\u2019re meant to be, listen to it! It\u2019s almost always right.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering whether you still love him or if you should finally su\u00e9ltalo<\/a>, here are 5 signs that point out it\u2019s time for you to move on to better things:<\/em><\/p>\n

Vuestras peleas se han vuelto demasiado frecuentes e intensas<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Todas las parejas se pelean.<\/a> Arguments are a normal occurrence in healthy long-term relationship because they are a way to get your partner to see things from your point of view and to get them to understand where you\u2019re coming from.<\/p>\n

It is not a way to make the other partner feel bad about themselves or kick them while they\u2019re down. You\u2019re going to fight. That\u2019s a fact.<\/p>\n

But what matters is that you do it with some ground rules that ensure that you\u2019re actually trying to make things better without worsening the situation or diminishing your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, aseg\u00farate de que la direcci\u00f3n de tu discusi\u00f3n es hacia una soluci\u00f3n conjunta con el m\u00ednimo da\u00f1o para tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Sin golpes bajos. Nada de sacar a relucir viejos argumentos (resueltos) s\u00f3lo para demostrar tu punto de vista.<\/p>\n

Focus on the problem at hand and nothing else. Secondly, try to see things from your partner\u2019s perspective.<\/p>\n

Try to understand what he\u2019s trying to tell you and always keep in mind that he is not trying to herirte<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Simplemente intenta que veas las cosas de otra manera. Las discusiones no son excusa para ser abusivo de ninguna manera.<\/p>\n

They are not an excuse to make your partner feel like shit and violate their trust. If this is what your relationship has come to, it\u2019s time to take a break.<\/p>\n

Hay cero esfuerzo de su parte para hacer que funcione<\/h2>\n

\"El<\/p>\n

You can love him all you want, but when you\u2019re the only one actively putting in effort and working on your relationship while he\u2019s just sliding along, it\u2019s time to rethink this whole thing.<\/p>\n

When you realize that he doesn\u2019t even ask how you are anymore nor does he try to do the little things that would go a long way, now that is a sign of a broken relationship.<\/p>\n

You can still love him, but when he can\u2019t be bothered to equally participate in the partnership you\u2019re both in, he\u2019s not worth your time.<\/p>\n

No esforzarse y ni siquiera preocuparse por hacerlo es una clara se\u00f1al de falta de respeto.<\/p>\n

You can make all the excuses you want for him, but when a man loves you, he\u2019s not just going to sit there while you\u2019re busting your ass trying to fix things.<\/p>\n

Un hombre que te quiere no va a dejar que seas la \u00fanica invertida en vuestra relaci\u00f3n porque sabe lo doloroso que es sentirse sola cuando m\u00e1s bien deber\u00edas sentirte respaldada por tu hombre<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And quite frankly, if he isn\u2019t trying, he probably doesn\u2019t even care enough about you anyway.<\/p>\n

Take that as your biggest sign to leave, and don\u2019t ever think about settling for this treatment again.<\/p>\n

In this situation, even if you do still love him, he\u2019s just not the guy for you. Recognize that, respect yourself enough, and let him go.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t say \u201cI love you\u201d anymore<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Naturally, you don\u2019t need to say those three words all the time in order for them to be true.<\/p>\n

After a while, you both just feel it so intensely, that there\u2019s no need to throw it around as much.<\/p>\n

Pero no hay necesidad de insistir. El amor est\u00e1 ah\u00ed y los dos lo sab\u00e9is.<\/p>\n

But when you notice that you can\u2019t remember the last time you heard him say \u201cTe quiero<\/a>\u201d or vice versa, now that\u2019s a sign that you should start worrying about your relationship and joint future.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t feel the need to say it to him anymore, start wondering why that is.<\/p>\n

Normalmente, cuando dejas de sentir lo que sol\u00edas sentir, poco a poco dejas de decirlo sin darte cuenta.<\/p>\n

And if this is the case on both parts, that could be a sign that you\u2019re both falling out of love.<\/p>\n

Try saying it to him and pay attention to how it makes you feel.  If you have to force it and it doesn\u2019t really feel natural, you may no longer feel it.<\/p>\n

Cuando tienes que presionarte para expresar tu amor a tu pareja, lo m\u00e1s probable es que el amor ya no exista.<\/p>\n

Cuanto antes lo admitas, mejor te sentir\u00e1s cuando te desprendas de lo que ya no te hace crecer.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n se ha convertido m\u00e1s en una rutina<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

There is nothing better than finding that one person you want to spend every waking moment with and experience everything life has to offer by each other\u2019s side.<\/p>\n

Waking up together and facing life\u2019s challenges just seems better when you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

Granted, there are going to be days that won\u2019t feel like such a rush of emotions where you can\u2019t wait to see them, but even on those days you\u2019ll know that it\u2019s all normal and you still love him just as much as you did before.<\/p>\n

However, when your relationship feels like it\u2019s en la rutina<\/a> and there is no more excitement to see each other, talk about all the things that have happened to you that day, and you don\u2019t even feel the need to change it, you might have a problem.<\/p>\n

When things become boring, there is nothing that makes you happy about going home to him, and you don\u2019t even feel like that\u2019s a problem, your relationship may have just become nothing but a daily routine.<\/p>\n

You might even avoid intimacy to the point where snuggling together doesn\u2019t even sound appealing anymore.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes relaciones sexuales ciertos d\u00edas, e incluso entonces, tienes que obligarte a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that he\u2019s pressuring you, more like it\u2019s become a robotic routine that you feel you should do at times, even though the need is no longer there.<\/p>\n

Love is not supposed to feel like a routine, so if you feel this has become your reality, it\u2019s time to end it ASAP.<\/p>\n

When you think about your future, he\u2019s simply not in it<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

\u00c9sta es la se\u00f1al m\u00e1s clara de todas. Es natural imaginar lo que te depara el futuro, y cuando eso ocurre, si tu pareja simplemente no est\u00e1 ah\u00ed, entonces probablemente tengas una buena raz\u00f3n para marcharte.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a while, it is perfectly normal to think about your joint future and how you plan to level up in your relationship.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t feel like he belongs in your life for the long haul, you probably shouldn\u2019t even be asking yourself if you still love him. You clearly don\u2019t!<\/p>\n

El hombre al que amas y con el que quieres estar mucho tiempo es alguien que estar\u00eda en primera l\u00ednea de tus planes de futuro.<\/p>\n

Pero si tienes que obligarte a colocarlo en tus pensamientos sobre el futuro, probablemente las cosas vayan mejor si romper<\/a> con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean there is something wrong with him, it simply means that your relationship has run its course and it\u2019s time to move on to better things!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel bad. Anything that\u2019s not making you happy or fulfilled doesn\u2019t belong in your life.<\/p>\n

Better things will come along and when you find the one who\u2019s supposed to be in your life for good, you\u2019ll just know because you\u2019ll never have to wonder about him.<\/p>\n

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