{"id":34990,"date":"2020-04-02T07:43:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T07:43:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=34990"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:19:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:19:38","slug":"12-maneras-de-darle-espacio-sin-miedo-a-perderle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-maneras-de-darle-espacio-sin-miedo-a-perderle\/","title":{"rendered":"Dale espacio: 12 maneras de evitar el miedo a perderle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>\u00bfQuieres saber c\u00f3mo darle espacio pero sin arriesgarte a perderle en el proceso? Est\u00e1s en el lugar adecuado.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Al igual que en cualquier relaci\u00f3n sentimental duradera, puede llegar un momento en que las cosas parezcan ir mal.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que empiece a mostrarse distante, que las cosas que normalmente parec\u00edan ir bien sean cualquier cosa menos eso, y que la compenetraci\u00f3n entre vosotros dos parezca un poco rota.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-tu-hombre-hace-estas-10-cosas-probablemente-sea-hora-de-dejarlo-2\/\">Tu hombre<\/a> is acting differently, but you just can\u2019t seem to figure out what the hell is going on.<\/p>\n<p>Is it you? Is it something you did or is he simply struggling with something internally and he doesn\u2019t know how to handle it right?<\/p>\n<p>Cuando la comunicaci\u00f3n no es sana y uno de los miembros de la pareja act\u00faa fuera de lo normal sin ofrecer ninguna explicaci\u00f3n v\u00e1lida de su comportamiento, la relaci\u00f3n puede pasar factura.<\/p>\n<p><i>Sientes que <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/por-que-los-hombres-necesitan-espacio-en-una-relacion-y-como-afrontarlo\/\"><i>necesita espacio<\/i><\/a><i> y tienes muchas ganas de d\u00e1rselo, pero temes que le guste demasiado y se vaya. Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 haces?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>How do you give him the space that he clearly needs, yet at the same time, still make sure he knows you\u2019re there for him, and you desperately want to get to the bottom of whatever is bugging him? How to know what your <\/i><i>el hombre quiere<\/i><i> de ti?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The first thing that\u2019s important to note here is that guys handle their problems much differently from women.<\/p>\n<p>Normalmente les gusta alejarse un poco y ocuparse de sus cosas internamente.<\/p>\n<p>Se entregan a su trabajo un poco m\u00e1s de lo habitual, como forma de mantenerse distra\u00eddos de lo que les preocupa.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t like to hash it over too much, and they rely on their own abilities to solve their issues. Men are just wired differently.<\/p>\n<p>Las dificultades emocionales no les resultan f\u00e1ciles de afrontar, as\u00ed que cuando empiezan a sentir la tensi\u00f3n de todo ello, lo manifiestan de formas que pueden resultar perjudiciales para sus relaciones sentimentales.<\/p>\n<p>They usually don\u2019t mean to be that way; it\u2019s just a result of their inability to cope with their issues openly and honestly like women do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78431 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pone la mano en los brazos del hombre y mirandolo en cafe de la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-puts-hand-on-mans-arms-and-looking-at-him-in-street-cafe-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escucha, por desgracia <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/tu-amor-no-puede-cambiar-a-un-hombre-hasta-que-el-mismo-decida-hacerlo\/\">can\u2019t change<\/a> c\u00f3mo es tu pareja. \u00c9l es quien es, y tienes que aceptarlo como parte de \u00e9l y darte cuenta de que no tiene nada que ver contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody has their own way of working out their issues, and you cannot control what happens in somebody\u2019s head and how they react to things and resolve them.<\/p>\n<p><i>Pero lo que s\u00ed puedes controlar es c\u00f3mo <\/i><i>usted<\/i><i> reaccionar ante ellos.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Puedes optar por dejar que estas cosas te afecten de forma negativa, sentarte ah\u00ed tranquilamente y enfurru\u00f1arte, o puedes <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-dura-realidad-de-romper-con-un-narcisista-y-como-afrontarla\/\"><i>tratar con ellos<\/i><\/a><i> como la mujer adulta que eres e intenta que el proceso de darle el espacio que ans\u00eda desesperadamente sea lo menos doloroso posible.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s probable es que s\u00f3lo sea una fase y que pase. Va a encontrar una salida a su dilema emocional y despu\u00e9s se disculpar\u00e1 por haber dejado que eso tensara vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You are going to realize that you\u2019ve made a big deal out of nothing, and you\u2019ll be perfectly fine and secure in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t always trust your head when it goes into panic mode. Sometimes it\u2019s just a little glitch, and it\u2019s only a matter of time before things get resolved.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t panic if you feel like you need to give him some space. That can actually prove to be healthy for your relationship in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>He is going to realize what a great woman he has by his side\u2014one that selflessly lets him deal with his stuff without nagging, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-lo-esperes-no-vale-la-pena\/\">le espera<\/a> with zero judgment when he\u2019s back to his old self.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s perfect, and we all go through our own shit. What really matters is how you choose to come out of it.<\/p>\n<p>Dale el espacio que necesita, pero aseg\u00farate de hacer lo que sea necesario para mantener un estado de \u00e1nimo positivo durante todo el proceso.<\/p>\n<p><i>Aqu\u00ed tienes 12 formas de darle espacio, con el m\u00ednimo riesgo de perderle:<\/i><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dale espacio y retrocede un poco<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78429 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg\" alt=\"silueta de mujer mirando al cielo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-looking-at-sky-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La forma m\u00e1s obvia, y a la vez m\u00e1s eficaz, de darle algo de espacio es hacer exactamente eso.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that this is how it is at this very moment and adjust. Don\u2019t text him all the time, and don\u2019t call too much.<\/p>\n<p>If he isn\u2019t texting you first, don\u2019t initiate conversation every single day because that is the exact opposite of what you\u2019ve promised him.<\/p>\n<p>Si te preguntas qu\u00e9 quiere tu hombre en este momento, hazle caso a tu instinto.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you think you will never be able to help him, the next day you won&#8217;t think like that.<\/p>\n<p>Let him figure it all out, and don\u2019t pry too much. I understand it\u2019s extremely difficult backing off from <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-debes-luchar-por-la-persona-que-amas\/\">al que amas<\/a>, but just remember that you\u2019re doing it all for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Si sigues comport\u00e1ndote as\u00ed, acabar\u00e1 volviendo. Y ese era tu plan desde el principio, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>Let him know you\u2019ll be spending time with your best friend on Saturday, so if he has no plans, you can have brunch on Sunday, but don\u2019t pressure him.<\/p>\n<p>Be casual and chill. He should see you as a source of support and not somebody who can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dale-3-dias\/\">dale un poco de tiempo para \u00e9l<\/a> when that\u2019s all he really needs.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s going to be tricky not receiving that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/25-cute-and-endearing-goodnight-texts-for-him-and-her\/\">texto de buenas noches<\/a> from him every night, but it\u2019s crucial that you keep to your word and make him see he can trust you. It\u2019s all going to be okay in the end.<\/p>\n<p>Be supportive of his struggles, respect his space, and let him know that whenever he\u2019s ready, you\u2019re here to talk it all out and figure out where you stand.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C\u00e9ntrate en ti y deja de poner excusas para contactar con \u00e9l<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78430 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bebiendo caf\u00e9 junto a la ventana de su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-drinking-coffee-beside-window-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve made a conscious decision to give him space, do just that. You don\u2019t need to make ridiculous excuses to text and call at all times because he will see right through them.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep badgering him after promising to step away for a bit, he\u2019s going to feel pressured and attacked, and it can only negatively affect how things will continue after this.<\/p>\n<p>No, he didn\u2019t forget that you exist, and no, he is not going to get used to a life without you because that is not the point of it all.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that he figures himself out\u2014alone. That&#8217;s why you should give him the boyfriend space he craves so much.<\/p>\n<p>Al final del d\u00eda, pensar\u00e1 de otra manera, y puede que vuelva a ti antes de que lo creas posible.<\/p>\n<p>No tiene nada que ver con usted ni con terceros.<\/p>\n<p>He is going to reach out when he\u2019s ready, and you\u2019ll talk then. If he doesn&#8217;t call you today, it doesn&#8217;t mean he won&#8217;t call you the next day.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n esa positividad y las cosas saldr\u00e1n mejor de lo que pensabas.<\/p>\n<p>Anything else is just too needy and insecure, and you know that\u2019s not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/si-sientes-que-ya-no-sabes-quien-eres-lee-esto\/\">qui\u00e9n eres<\/a> o c\u00f3mo quieres que te vea.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas poder disfrutar de tu vida a solas. Hay tantas cosas que ver y tanto que hacer, as\u00ed que c\u00e9ntrate en todo eso, \u00a1y el tiempo volar\u00e1!<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re focused on the positives and choose to see the beauty in everything, it usually translates into real life.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n el \u00e1nimo y encuentra siempre un motivo para sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nada de acosar en las redes sociales.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78432 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tecleando en su smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-typing-on-his-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es contraproducente para darle espacio. No est\u00e1s en el instituto, envi\u00e1ndole mensajes de amor y pregunt\u00e1ndole cu\u00e1ndo vendr\u00e1 a verte.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es algo serio, y debes tratarlo en consecuencia.<\/p>\n<p>It may seem innocent enough, but if you can\u2019t peel your eyes off his Facebook and Instagram accounts, you\u2019re going to make yourself go mad. The no contact rule is a lifesaver in situations like this.<\/p>\n<p>Ten paciencia y dale su espacio de hombre para que piense en todo.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stalk him. Don\u2019t keep tabs on who he\u2019s following, whose photos he liked, and the comments he might have posted on somebody\u2019s video. Don&#8217;t even try to be sweet and cute by saying &#8216;hi&#8217; on Snapchat. I<\/p>\n<p>know a lot of women would do something like this, but now you know that it isn&#8217;t the right thing.<\/p>\n<p>Por mucho que lo desees, renuncia a mandarle mensajes. Porque, si pasas tanto tiempo centrada en \u00e9l, te perder\u00e1s toda la diversi\u00f3n de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t mess with your head by imagining scenarios that aren\u2019t real, based on what you see on his <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/heres-what-his-social-media-posts-reveal-about-him-and-your-relationship\/\">redes sociales<\/a> perfiles.<\/p>\n<p>Just because he went out with his friends the night before, does not mean he\u2019s not struggling.<\/p>\n<p>All it means is he needed a breather. Sympathize with that, and don\u2019t judge.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que le dejas solo durante un tiempo porque necesita espacio. Si le gusta pasar tiempo con ciertas personas, ac\u00e9ptalo.<\/p>\n<p>As I\u2019ve already mentioned, people deal with their issues in their own ways. Nobody is right or wrong here. We\u2019re all just finding our way.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t overanalyze things, and keep an open mind. Nobody said it would be easy, but do your best to keep a level head.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo est\u00e1s empeorando las cosas para ti. As\u00ed que nada de redes sociales ni de acoso.<\/p>\n<p>Deja que las cosas vayan a su ritmo y conf\u00eda en tu chico. Cr\u00e9eme, al final del d\u00eda estar\u00e1s muy orgullosa de ti misma si consigues llevarlo todo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t interrogate him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78426 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria hablando con un hombre en el caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-woman-talking-to-a-man-in-cafe-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go into it too aggressively. You don&#8217;t know the real reasons why your man is pulling away. Maybe he has some issues he doesn&#8217;t want to share with you.<\/p>\n<p>Ten en cuenta que ni siquiera \u00e9l sabe qu\u00e9 demonios pasa por su cabeza, as\u00ed que tus 20 preguntas no van a hacer que nadie se sienta mejor.<\/p>\n<p>The hardest part is not taking it personally. All you want to know is why he isn\u2019t talking to you and why he can\u2019t just confide in you. What did you do?<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s your first mistake. You didn\u2019t do anything. This is his internal problem and he is the only one who can fix it for himself.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t do anything until he takes the initiative and works on his own shit.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo dale espacio de chico, y ver qu\u00e9 pasa despu\u00e9s. Pi\u00e9nsalo de esta manera.<\/p>\n<p>If you were mentally (or in any other way) struggling with something but you didn\u2019t really want to talk about it, how would it make you feel if he invaded your personal space and didn\u2019t give you a second to figure it out by yourself?<\/p>\n<p>No es tan agradable, \u00bfverdad? As\u00ed que tenlo en cuenta cada vez que quieras acosarle con preguntas y presionarle innecesariamente.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re going to give him space, try to respect that, and let him come to you when <i>he<\/i> est\u00e1 listo.<\/p>\n<p>Cr\u00e9eme, lo peor que puede pasar es empujarle a hacer cosas para las que no est\u00e1 preparado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t chase after him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78428 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una mujer con el pelo recogido junto a una ventana y mirando hacia fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-woman-with-tied-hair-standing-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s the point? If he\u2019s going to find his way back, he\u2019s going to do it on his own.<\/p>\n<p>If he chooses someone else, it is okay as well. Love can&#8217;t be forced, so why try in the first place?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make him feel suffocated and pressured into making a decision before he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t spend so much time focusing on him. I know a lot of women do this, but I am begging you not to do it. Trust me, it won&#8217;t bring you where you want to be. Just do your own thing in your own space.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t resort to any grand gestures or ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-llamar-su-atencion-7-metodos-probados-que-siempre-funcionan\/\">llamar su atenci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>That is below you. You know him better than anyone, so you know how that\u2019s going to make him feel.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n la cabeza alta y las esperanzas a\u00fan m\u00e1s altas.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like texting him, just think about it. Will it help you to make him run into your arms? I don&#8217;t think so.<\/p>\n<p>Perseguirle har\u00e1 lo contrario de lo que quieres. Lo alejar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s y entonces es muy poco probable que quiera... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/20-senales-definitivas-de-que-tu-ex-acabara-volviendo\/\">volver<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make yourself seem desperate and incapable of being on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Eso no es un rasgo atractivo y deber\u00edas estar bien sola durante un tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Just leave the situation as it is, and don\u2019t try to impact the way things turn out. It\u2019s not up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Just have faith he\u2019ll come back to you, and keep yourself preoccupied in the process. Trust me, no contact is what both of you need right now!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quit thinking you\u2019re losing him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78433 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando su tel\u00e9fono durante la noche en su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-during-night-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s stronger than you and that it\u2019s hard to control the scenarios your mind creates. But that is the worst thing that you can do now.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s daunting, imagining what he\u2019s up to and what he\u2019s doing without you, but please, quit thinking the worst.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s a fair possibility that he might leave. But giving him his guy space is a must because that is the only way he can stay alone with his thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>Que \u00e9l decida quedarse solo es, por desgracia, una posible consecuencia de todo esto, y tienes que estar preparada para ello. Pero nada est\u00e1 escrito en piedra.<\/p>\n<p>That is merely the worst case scenario, and guess what? You\u2019ll survive if it comes to it!<\/p>\n<p>Si sigues entrando en estado de p\u00e1nico, puede que sean tus miedos los que est\u00e1n aflorando y sacando lo mejor de ti.<\/p>\n<p>It is normal to fear losing your partner, but just because it scares you, doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/que-es-la-dependencia-emocional-10-maneras-de-superarla-con-exito\/\">superarlo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t help but be a complete and total wreck, perhaps this is not the healthiest relationship for you. Just think about that.<\/p>\n<p>True love doesn\u2019t make you feel nauseated. It doesn\u2019t create twisted scenarios in your head and play <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/me-niego-a-ser-victima-de-tus-juegos-mentales\/\">juegos mentales<\/a> contigo.<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly, love doesn\u2019t make you feel insecure. It makes you feel safe, protected, and secure in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Si te sientes mal cuando est\u00e1 cerca y cuando no est\u00e1, significa que no es el adecuado para ti. Tal vez ser\u00edas mucho m\u00e1s feliz con otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>Even during a \u201ctimeout,\u201d you wouldn\u2019t be going through this.<\/p>\n<p>Think about that while you\u2019re on your own and try to figure out what it is that\u2019s really scaring you.<\/p>\n<p>Y recuerda que t\u00fa diriges tu propia vida y puedes tomar todas las decisiones que creas oportunas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cambia tu energ\u00eda hacia ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78422 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista trasera mujer extendiendo las manos fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/back-view-woman-spreading-her-hands-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Darle vueltas constantemente en la cabeza te va a restar toda tu energ\u00eda y positividad.<\/p>\n<p>Thinking about the reasons why men pull away won&#8217;t help you to bring your man back.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to be left jaded and frustrated. Stop while you\u2019re still you! Focus on yourself. Your world is so much bigger than that one person!<\/p>\n<p>I know he\u2019s not just anyone and he\u2019s extremely important to you, but so are many other people, yourself included!<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re giving him space, do the same for yourself. Don&#8217;t contact him, don&#8217;t send text messages and don&#8217;t go to places he might be.<\/p>\n<p>Try to find what it is that keeps you happy when he\u2019s not around.<\/p>\n<p>Averigua cu\u00e1les son tus pasiones y de d\u00f3nde vienen tus ganas de vivir.<\/p>\n<p>Conc\u00e9ntrate en tus sentimientos. Trabaja para ponerte en el lugar m\u00e1s saludable posible mental y emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>Try to just close your eyes, wash those worries away, and appreciate what\u2019s around you.<\/p>\n<p>Pasa tu tiempo libre con tus mejores amigos y conc\u00e9ntrate m\u00e1s en ellos y en ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really easy to be happy; all you need to do is give it a shot! He is special, and he is amazing, but so are you, and so is the rest of your world.<\/p>\n<p>Encuentre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/entertainment\/cual-es-la-clave-de-tu-felicidad\/\">tu felicidad <\/a>en otros lugares, y de repente te sentir\u00e1s un mill\u00f3n de kilos m\u00e1s ligero.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pase lo que pase, que sepas que estar\u00e1s bien.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78423 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"linda mujer sentada en el caf\u00e9 y mirando hacia fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/cute-woman-sitting-in-cafe-and-looking-out-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember all those things you didn\u2019t think you\u2019d ever survive? Well, look at you now! Alive, healthy, and thriving! This is the exact same thing.<\/p>\n<p>It may seem like losing him could be the end of the world, but it\u2019s really not.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you did lose him, you\u2019d find your way back to happiness again.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s important to know is that you do not need another person to feel whole.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesitas un poco de espacio para organizar tus pensamientos mientras le das a \u00e9l un poco de espacio de hombre. Cr\u00e9eme, es el mejor consejo que te pueden dar.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re already a complete, functioning human being all by yourself. Nothing can change that.<\/p>\n<p>Once you are able to be happy and fulfilled when you\u2019re on your own, only then will you be truly ready for whatever may come your way.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re waiting to see if he can find his way back to you, keep your thoughts positive.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa eres el \u00fanico responsable de tu propia vida, y s\u00f3lo t\u00fa puedes hacer que te sientas bien en tu piel.<\/p>\n<p>Make yourself aware that you\u2019ve already survived so much, and you can handle this as well.<\/p>\n<p>So if he chooses a different path, you\u2019ll be ready and able to cope with it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n<p>And if he comes back, you\u2019ll know that you don\u2019t <i>necesita<\/i> para que seas feliz, pero te encanta que te mantenga as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Have faith that things always end up the way they\u2019re supposed to<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78420 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Joven triste sentada sola en una piedra al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Sad-young-girl-sitting-alone-on-a-stone-outdoors-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Just because he seems perfect and your relationship is making you so happy, doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that he is perfect for <i>usted<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Todav\u00eda puede ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-belleza-de-conocer-a-un-buen-chico-tras-una-relacion-toxica\/\">un buen tipo<\/a>no es bueno para ti. Conf\u00eda en que todo saldr\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n<p>If he can\u2019t seem to find his way back and decides to break it off with you, have some faith that this is how it\u2019s supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p>A guy who is right for you would never leave and decide that you\u2019re not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-puedes-perder-al-hombre-que-esta-destinado-a-ser-tuyo\/\">destinado a ser<\/a> together, don\u2019t you think?<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t control how a person feels. When he\u2019s not where you are, it\u2019s only fair to let him go.<\/p>\n<p>Let him find what\u2019s right for him, and give yourself a chance to find somebody who will never leave.<\/p>\n<p>Right now, it\u2019s difficult to see this as a fact because you are too emotionally invested, but one day down the line, you\u2019re going to realize that this was in fact true.<\/p>\n<p>When enough time has passed, and when you\u2019re with somebody new who can appreciate you and make you feel secure, you\u2019re going to see how you\u2019re supposed to feel beside the one who\u2019s right for you.<\/p>\n<p>And then, you\u2019ll never let your mind play tricks on you again. People who are meant to be will always gravitate towards each other.<\/p>\n<p>Una gran relaci\u00f3n es dif\u00edcil de desarrollar, por lo que debes tener suficiente paciencia si quieres ser feliz en el amor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t change how somebody feels, no matter how hard you try<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78440 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-sitting-beside-man-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada sentada junto a un hombre en un banco del parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\"><\/p>\n<p>If your man is going through some serious issues and he is really taking his time, accept that you can\u2019t just change how he feels.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t interrogate him about why men pull away and why he is acting like that.<\/p>\n<p>Es el \u00fanico que tiene poder para sentirse mejor.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesita un poco de espacio para organizar sus pensamientos y decidir qu\u00e9 har\u00e1 a continuaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos chicos se enfrentar\u00e1n a cosas as\u00ed en el instituto, mientras que otros lo har\u00e1n cuando sean completamente maduros.<\/p>\n<p>It sucks, and it\u2019s so frustrating, but all you can really do is just give him space, take a step back, and hope it all works out in your favor.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que recuperes a tu hombre y que no tengas que volver a pasar por esto.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, if things just don\u2019t go the way you want them to, that is okay, too.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes things need to fall apart in order for you to see what\u2019s really <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocupes-no-te-preocup\/\">adecuado para usted<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, dejar ir lo que parece bueno para ti es exactamente lo que necesitas para verlo como lo que realmente es.<\/p>\n<p>Never force anything. That is not the foundation upon which you want to base your relationship. If it\u2019s not working out, let it go.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras est\u00e1s ocupada buscando la manera de hacerle volver, la vida pasa a tu lado.<\/p>\n<p>Open your eyes to it, and you just might find what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfDe qu\u00e9 sirve tener una buena relaci\u00f3n con otra persona si la que tienes contigo mismo es estupenda?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 tipo de relaci\u00f3n quieres realmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78427 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una hermosa mujer sentada en una mesa con un ordenador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-beautiful-woman-sitting-on-table-with-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEl tipo de chico que necesita mucho espacio es alguien con quien realmente quieres estar?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfTe gusta c\u00f3mo te hace sentir estar con una persona que no est\u00e1 segura de ti y del tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos? Pi\u00e9nsalo un segundo.<\/p>\n<p>Giving him space is a noble gesture, and sometimes it\u2019s what\u2019s needed, but if he is taking his time, and he demands space more than just that one time, is he really somebody you want to be with?<\/p>\n<p>Is it possible that maybe you\u2019re just not right for each other? That does not have to be the case at all, but if it\u2019s in the least bit possible, it\u2019s worth thinking about.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de hombre est\u00e1s buscando? \u00bfLo ves en \u00e9l?<\/p>\n<p>Si la respuesta es afirmativa, esp\u00e9ralo y mant\u00e9n la fe.<\/p>\n<p>But if he is leaving you uncomfortable and insecure, perhaps you\u2019re not as happy as you\u2019d like while <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/if-you-have-to-bend-over-backward-to-be-with-him-hes-not-the-one\/\">estar con \u00e9l<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Repasa tus opciones, preg\u00fantate qu\u00e9 quieres de una relaci\u00f3n y persigue exactamente eso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pasa tiempo con la gente que te hace feliz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78425 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos sonrientes tom\u00e1ndose un selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/group-of-smiling-friends-taking-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta es tu oportunidad perfecta para pasar tiempo de calidad con aquellos que hacen tu vida un poco mejor y te hacen re\u00edr un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget about your family and friends. While he is searching for his way back, you focus on other people that you cherish in life.<\/p>\n<p>Go on a night out with your besties, and put your worries to the side! Go visit your family if they don\u2019t leave nearby, and spend a weekend unwinding with them.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9 un tranquilo paseo por la ciudad; si\u00e9ntese en un parque y lea un buen libro.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hagas lo que hagas, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-7-peores-mensajes-de-texto-para-enviarle-durante-una-pelea\/\">don&#8217;t send him any text messages<\/a> cuando te quedas solo. Eso lo arruinar\u00e1 todo.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00ed, esto es algo que aconsejan todos los coaches de relaciones, lo que lo convierte en uno de los mejores consejos sobre relaciones.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-un-viejo-amigo-se-pone-en-contacto-contigo-de-repente-2\/\">Reencuentro con viejos amigos<\/a> you may have neglected a bit. You\u2019ll see how little it takes to just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-persona-adecuada-no-te-hara-pasar-por-un-infierno-para-ser-feliz\/\">s\u00e9 feliz<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>And then, whatever he decides, you\u2019ll be able to handle it all right, knowing you have an amazing support system around you that\u2019s not going to let you wander in sorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Esto tambi\u00e9n te recordar\u00e1 lo querido que eres y lo mucho que la gente se preocupa por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Tu autoestima volver\u00e1 a estar en lo m\u00e1s alto y tu alma simplemente florecer\u00e1.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78424 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Dale espacio: 12 maneras de evitar el miedo a perderle\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Want to know how to give him space but not risk losing him in the process? You\u2019re in the right place. Just like in any real, long-term romantic relationship, there might come a time in yours where things suddenly just seem to be off. He may start acting distant, things that normally seemed fine are&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":78437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34990","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Give-Him-Space-12-Ways-To-Avoid-The-Fear-Of-Losing-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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