{"id":35144,"date":"2019-04-08T09:25:57","date_gmt":"2019-04-08T09:25:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35144"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:22:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:22:18","slug":"superar-lo-desconocido-para-que-tu-relacion-dure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/superar-lo-desconocido-para-que-tu-relacion-dure\/","title":{"rendered":"Superar lo desconocido para que tu relaci\u00f3n dure"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quiz\u00e1 lo m\u00e1s temido de iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n sea la inevitabilidad de incertidumbre<\/em>.<\/b> And yet it\u2019s a natural part of every relationship, romantic or not, and therefore unavoidable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you feel like you need some direct answers as to why you and your partner aren\u2019t gelling, you\u2019re sick of trying to read his mind all the time, or you can\u2019t understand why you two aren\u2019t communicating as you should, you\u2019re certainly not alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The question is \u2013 how can you get what you need from this connection and from your partner without pulling away?<\/b> A menudo, cuando nos sentimos frustrados, nos distanciamos sin querer y acabamos hiriendo a la persona que nos importa, quiz\u00e1 de forma permanente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si nos sentimos inc\u00f3modos expresando lo que necesitamos, no hacerlo no es la soluci\u00f3n.<\/b> There are effective ways to manage difficult conversations, so your bond can grow stronger rather than abruptly dissolving. Don\u2019t let doubt take over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aprende a ser asertivo sin ser excesivamente agresivo, para que puedas generar confianza en el emparejamiento y resistir incluso en los momentos m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las relaciones, por su propia naturaleza, pueden dar miedo.<\/b> Pueden provocar una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones. El miedo a perder la independencia, a que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n, a perderte a ti mismo o a tu pareja en el proceso, son todos muy reales. Esto se debe a que no puedes controlar a otra persona. S\u00f3lo puedes controlarte a ti mismo y a tu parte del todo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning to set boundaries is vital so others understand what you are willing to accept and what you\u2019re not without being too forceful and pushing away.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to remember that no one, yourself included, is perfect, and you can\u2019t expect to change anyone over time. Never enter into a relationship thinking you\u2019ll be able to \u201cfix\u201d your partner\u2019s flaws and everything will \u201ceventually\u201d be perfect. That\u2019s simply not the case. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If there are things in the very beginning that you would consider to be red flags, walk away. Those things that gave you pause at the start aren\u2019t likely to simply dissipate with time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, puedes dejar de obsesionarte con lo desconocido mejorando la comunicaci\u00f3n, en lugar de alejarte cada vez que percibas malas vibraciones de la otra persona.<\/b> There may be things that come up which don\u2019t sit well with you but aren\u2019t necessarily significant enough to justify throwing in the towel. These are the things that can improve with healthy interaction. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By learning to stand your ground while being willing to listen to your partner\u2019s side of the story and remaining open to compromise, you can build a solid foundation. This way you\u2019re not always walking away, left alone, trying to figure out when that perfect person might show up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to make time for some self-reflection, too. If you are always the one walking away feeling defeated and as if you\u2019ll never find someone who will make you happy, you have to try to understand where this perspective is coming from. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sea honesto consigo mismo y est\u00e9 dispuesto a reconocer los patrones poco saludables que puede trabajar para mejorar su vida rom\u00e1ntica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve recently entered into a new relationship and are having second thoughts, take the time to reflect on your current relationship and what you like and dislike about it. You can ask yourself the following to see if your connection is worth hanging onto or if it\u2019s truly not right for you:
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 siento por esta persona? \u00bfMe importa de verdad?
\u00bfSoy la persona adecuada para \u00e9l?
\u00bfQuiero hacerle feliz?
Cuando esta persona es feliz, \u00bfme hace feliz a m\u00ed a cambio?
Do I miss him when he\u2019s gone?
\u00bfPuedo confiar en \u00e9l?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have genuine feelings for this person but are still feeling as if you should walk away, ask yourself what\u2019s missing. What\u2019s lacking? What could be improved?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si crees que puedes mejorar las cosas comunic\u00e1ndote eficazmente con la otra persona, int\u00e9ntalo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re stuck on something that you are not comfortable discussing, is this also something that you can live without? If not, and if your partner cannot offer it to you, maybe it truly is time to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The bottom line is, all relationships take work, and some work better than others. However, you\u2019ll have to stay open and honest with yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re always walking away, wondering when you\u2019ll meet that perfect person who will make you happy indefinitely, is there something about yourself that is causing continual disappointment? A veces lo \u00fanico que se necesita para entender c\u00f3mo hacer que una conexi\u00f3n dure es una mayor comprensi\u00f3n de uno mismo.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Perhaps the most dreaded thing about entering into a new relationship is the inevitability of uncertainty. And yet it\u2019s a natural part of every relationship, romantic or not, and therefore unavoidable. If you feel like you need some direct answers as to why you and your partner aren\u2019t gelling, you\u2019re sick of trying to read…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":35162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/adolescent-converse-all-star-converse-all-star-1021145-1024x686.jpg",1024,686,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35144","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35144"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35144\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35144"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35144"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35144"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}