{"id":35219,"date":"2019-04-09T06:48:59","date_gmt":"2019-04-09T06:48:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35219"},"modified":"2022-02-24T10:45:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T10:45:54","slug":"3-metodos-inteligentes-para-burlar-a-un-narcisista-y-dejar-la-relacion-para-siempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/3-metodos-inteligentes-para-burlar-a-un-narcisista-y-dejar-la-relacion-para-siempre\/","title":{"rendered":"3 m\u00e9todos inteligentes para ser m\u00e1s inteligente que un narcisista (y dejar la relaci\u00f3n para siempre)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1l es la clave principal para repeler a un narcisista?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/asi-es-como-te-libraras-para-siempre-de-un-psicopata-narcisista\/\">El m\u00e9todo de la roca gris<\/a> \u2013 become as dull as dishwater.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A los narcisistas les atraen las personas compasivas y cari\u00f1osas, las que irradian energ\u00eda y rebosan empat\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Cuantas m\u00e1s emociones muestre una persona, m\u00e1s atractiva ser\u00e1 para un narcisista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>La raz\u00f3n es muy sencilla. Los narcisistas necesitan su suministro. Necesitan la atenci\u00f3n y la admiraci\u00f3n de sus v\u00edctimas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s what feeds their egos and gives their lives meaning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>En otras palabras, <strong><em>el narcisista utiliza a su pareja como fuente de suministro narcisista impersonal.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>En este tipo de relaciones, el amor no existe.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>El hecho de ser visto y percibido como un suministro narcisista te hace d\u00e9bil y f\u00e1cil de controlar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Only if you let someone treat you like shit will you come out as a victim, but if you play your moves smart and sneaky as they do, you\u2019ll be able to outsmart a narcissist.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Experimentar una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/abuso-narcisista\/\">relaci\u00f3n narcisista<\/a> is probably one of the worst things you\u2019ll live through in your life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Those people suck you dry; they steal every little emotion from you \u2013 that\u2019s the first step to gain complete control over you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Cuando lo consiguen, te tienen en sus garras. Controlan tus emociones y tus pensamientos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>A partir de ese momento, eres su marioneta, te mueves donde ellos te dicen que te muevas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Al principio, cre\u00edas que le quer\u00edas. Le diste un mar de segundas oportunidades a pesar de su constante traici\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Fue a causa de todos los <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-tacticas-de-succion-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas\/\">t\u00e1cticas de limpieza<\/a> y la culpabilizaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>That\u2019s what brought you back every time you decided to leave. But the fact is, you keep coming back until you hit rock bottom.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Mientras tengas aunque sea un poco de fuerza, encontrar\u00e1n la manera de atraerte de nuevo a la relaci\u00f3n para quitarte lo poco que te queda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong><em>Cuando no te quede absolutamente nada, s\u00f3lo entonces podr\u00e1s marcharte. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong><em>You won\u2019t be interesting anymore. You\u2019ll be dull and unimportant.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Only, you don\u2019t have to risk your sanity to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-a-un-narcisista-de-una-pieza\/\"> dejar a un narcisista<\/a>. You don\u2019t have to come to your lowest point to leave.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong><em>Pruebe a utilizar algunos de estos m\u00e9todos inteligentes pero discretos para burlar a un narcisista.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. El m\u00e9todo Gray Rock<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Se trata de convertirse realmente en una roca gris. Una roca tan aburrida y poco atractiva que nadie la mirar\u00eda dos veces.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Using the grey rock method, you\u2019ll become completely unattractive for him to interact with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tu pareja maltratadora perder\u00e1 inter\u00e9s en ti y acabar\u00e1 por dejarte en paz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Look at it this way. Imagine him being a small boy and small boys want toys to play with \u2013 only a narc doesn\u2019t want toys because his toys are people.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Juega con las personas y sus sentimientos, y eso tiene graves consecuencias.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>In a narc\u2019s eyes, you are the same as the toy. He knows he can do whatever he wants with you because he has the authority.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Puede crear escenarios a su gusto y hacerte bailar al ritmo de la m\u00fasica que pone. Los narcos te controlan por completo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Ignorarlo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Narcissists are unable to produce emotions, that\u2019s why they feed off of yours. It\u2019s in their interest to provoke any kind of reaction from you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if it\u2019s love or rage, the emotion is what counts. They need to see your reaction to their behavior.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Las personas normales interpretar\u00edan el hecho de que est\u00e9s molesto como algo que probablemente hicieron mal, pero no un narcisista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Your every emotion, anger or happiness, they will see as love because they don\u2019t know what love is. They can\u2019t understand love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>By playing their game, you\u2019re only entering deeper into their trap. Another way to get rid of a narcissist is to tell them everything to their face.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Si crees que te mienten, ll\u00e1males mentirosos delante de todo el mundo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Deja de cumplir sus expectativas y de creer en sus promesas y gestos grandilocuentes. Todo eso es mentira.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Y mientras prestes atenci\u00f3n a su comportamiento, seguir\u00e1n haciendo lo mismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Deja de alimentar sus egos haci\u00e9ndoles creer que son importantes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Incluso cuando te enfrentas a un narcisista, el trabajo no est\u00e1 hecho. La lucha no ha hecho m\u00e1s que empezar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When you show them they won\u2019t be able to control you that easily, they will come at you with everything they\u2019ve got.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Utilizar\u00e1n todas las t\u00e9cnicas y manipulaciones posibles para que vuelvas a su camino.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Lo primero que har\u00e1n ser\u00e1 intentar encontrar otra v\u00edctima de la que alimentarse. No les est\u00e1s dando suficiente suministro narcisista y lo necesitan con urgencia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They are like junkies in a desperate need of a fix. No matter what they have to do and who they have to hurt, they\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If that plan fails, they will start behaving differently \u2013 they will start acting as normal people do in normal relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Se disculpar\u00e1n por su comportamiento y jurar\u00e1n no volver a hacerlo. Se arrodillar\u00e1n para pedirte perd\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Su miedo es real en ese momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>They are sincerely scared you\u2019re going to leave them, but not because they love you, but because they need their supply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ignore those false emotions and don\u2019t be crazy to give them a second chance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Alabarle<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Este es el m\u00e9todo m\u00e1s peligroso y arriesgado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you really think you\u2019re able to lie like that without giving away your true intentions, then, by all means, do it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Not only will you succeed, but you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-herir-emocionalmente-a-un-hombre-narcisista-6-formas-efectivas-de-hacerlo\/\">herir a un narcisista<\/a> en el proceso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ll\u00e9nalos de atenciones, dales todo lo que quieran. Diles lo guapas, consideradas e inteligentes que son.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Lie all you want, but it\u2019s crucial to stay believable, otherwise he\u2019ll put you through hell.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Al mismo tiempo, planifica tu huida. Calcule cuidadosamente todo hasta el \u00faltimo detalle antes de decidir marcharse.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Make sure he doesn\u2019t expect you to make that move, or else &nbsp;the whole plan may go to waste.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>There is a way to leave a narcissist, but there isn\u2019t a way to do it without having consequences.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Pase lo que pase en tu vida despu\u00e9s de salir con un narcisista, prep\u00e1rate para sanar y empezar a creer en ti mismo una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>By using these methods, you\u2019ll be able to do it faster and maybe less painfully.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-35222\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"3 m\u00e9todos inteligentes para ser m\u00e1s inteligente que un narcisista (y dejar la relaci\u00f3n para siempre)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-09T084805.809.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the main key to repel a narcissist? The gray rock method \u2013 become as dull as dishwater. Narcissists are attracted to compassionate and loving people, people who radiate energy and are bursting with empathy. The more emotions a person shows, the more attractive they are going to be to a narcissist. The reason&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":35221,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/adult-beautiful-beauty-1472980-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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