{"id":35283,"date":"2019-04-10T06:44:12","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T06:44:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35283"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:20:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:20:52","slug":"la-leccion-de-amor-mas-amarga-que-le-enseno-su-pareja-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-leccion-de-amor-mas-amarga-que-le-enseno-su-pareja-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"La lecci\u00f3n de amor m\u00e1s amarga que le ense\u00f1\u00f3 su pareja t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>La vida es un torbellino imprevisible de acontecimientos inesperados. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>A veces acabas contando tu buena suerte y otras aprendiendo lecciones duras pero valios\u00edsimas.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ambos momentos son igualmente necesarios para mantenernos con los pies en la tierra y conscientes de que, por mucho que intentes planificar tu vida, en realidad nunca funciona.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo que est\u00e1 destinado a ti siempre acaba por encontrarte, pero no antes de que te hayas enfrentado a situaciones dif\u00edciles que te han convertido en una persona fuerte, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/a-la-valiente-mujer-que-dejo-a-su-pareja-maltratadora\/\">mujer valiente<\/a> que eres hoy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lo mismo ocurre con el amor. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siempre damos ese salto de fe hacia lo desconocido, rezando para que nos lleve a un lugar nuevo, m\u00e1gico y seguro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Somewhere we won\u2019t get hurt but rather shown the extent of the deepest love possible and thrive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pero antes de ser bendecido con ese tipo de amor especial, \u00fanico en la vida, lo normal es pasar por algunas penurias poderosas que sacuden tu mundo y te hacen pensar que tu alma ha sido aplastada para siempre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Luckily, that is rarely the case but the toughest lesson you\u2019ve probably learned seemed so cruel and devastating at the time and now you are thankful, because all it did was made you stronger and much more resilient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Siempre ocurre cuando menos te lo esperas.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You are beaming with joy and content and feel like you\u2019re on cloud nine most of the time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/asi-es-como-tu-hombre-te-hara-feliz-segun-su-signo-del-zodiaco\/\">Tu hombre<\/a> is showering you with love, affection and kindness and you\u2019ve never been happier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It kind of seems like things are too good to be true but somehow, it just works and you wouldn\u2019t dream of doing anything to jeopardize it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Until that one thing happens. Until the man you feel so blessed to have crushes you with those five painful words\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u2018\u2019I don\u2019t love you anymore.\u2019\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y un d\u00eda, simplemente se detiene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te quedas desconcertado. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t believe what you\u2019re hearing and you can\u2019t accept it. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El hombre que te hace sentir la mujer m\u00e1s feliz del mundo ha decidido de repente que ya no te quiere, \u00bfy qu\u00e9 se supone que tienes que hacer con eso?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u00bfC\u00f3mo se supone que debes reaccionar al o\u00edr esas palabras que te destrozan el alma y que han arruinado tus sue\u00f1os y esperanzas?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The man you planned your future with no longer deems you worthy of his attention and no matter how painfully crushed you feel, that\u2019s your reality and it\u2019s not going to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esta es una de esas cosas que te romper\u00e1n o te har\u00e1n diez veces m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este es el momento en el que decides que no importa lo rota que est\u00e9s, no vas a dejar que esto, o \u00e9l, mate tu esp\u00edritu y aplaste tu alma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>You are faced with a brutal truth and there\u2019s no getting around it. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Yesterday, you were as happy as one can be and today, your heart is shattered and you truly don\u2019t feel like you can move on.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>How one person can cause you so much pain is incomprehensible to you&#8230; but unfortunately, it\u2019s all too real right now.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nunca pensaste que te pasar\u00eda esto y, aunque as\u00ed fuera, estabas segura de que ese tipo era la \u00faltima persona que podr\u00eda hacerte algo as\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He was supposed to be your \u2018one\u2019!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Como dije, el desamor y el dolor siempre te encuentran cuando est\u00e1s m\u00e1s feliz. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La vida funciona extra\u00f1amente de esa manera, pero en cierto sentido, este es un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/una-carta-a-mi-marido-de-mierda-esta-es-tu-llamada-de-atencion\/\">llamada de atenci\u00f3n<\/a> that you didn\u2019t even know you needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recuperarse de una ruptura tan dura que nunca viste venir es una lecci\u00f3n que nunca entender\u00edas realmente hasta que pasaras por ella.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s bitter, it\u2019s raw and it\u2019s world-shattering. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One can\u2019t really comprehend it without surviving it first and that\u2019s exactly what you did. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You survived and you\u2019re doing better than you ever thought you could.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019s important to understand in situations like this is that it\u2019s never your fault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can love someone to the moon and back and they can still decide you\u2019re not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-verdad-es-que-nunca-seras-lo-suficientemente-buena-para-el-hombre-equivocado\/\">suficientemente bueno<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Puedes desvivirte haciendo cosas bonitas por esa persona y aun as\u00ed tendr\u00e1 las pelotas de dejarte e irse a buscar a alguien mejor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esto no refleja <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/never-let-a-guy-change-who-you-are\/\">qui\u00e9n eres<\/a> como persona. Esto no te define, ni te hace insuficiente o no lo suficientemente bueno. Recu\u00e9rdalo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People will do all kinds of vicious things and there\u2019s nothing you can do to stop it other than keeping your head up and walking out of that situation dignified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No dejes que te vean llorar ni que vean lo mucho que te han herido. Lo m\u00e1s probable es que eso solo les infle el ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vete a casa, llora a moco tendido y desah\u00f3gate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do whatever you need to relieve your soul of this hurt and don\u2019t feel like you need to be strong for anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You deserve to go through this however you choose, as long as you decide that you\u2019re not letting it mark you for life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Once your tears have dried and your soul feels a little more at ease, rise above this and take this lesson as the most invaluable thing you\u2019ll ever learn.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te mereces el mundo. Te mereces <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/espera-encuentra-hombre-no-da\/\">a man who won\u2019t give up on you<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te mereces un hombre que sepa lo valiosa que eres y que jam\u00e1s so\u00f1ar\u00eda con hacerte un da\u00f1o tan profundo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As\u00ed que, hasta que ese hombre aparezca, haz lo que sea necesario para volver a ese lugar sano y feliz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are no rules on how to grieve. And when you\u2019re finally back to your old self, you\u2019ll be ready for that all-encompassing type of love that will find you and sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because just like pain, love always finds you when you\u2019re on the verge of giving up on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>And isn\u2019t that the true beauty of this thing called life?<\/em><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T084322.062-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"La lecci\u00f3n de amor m\u00e1s amarga que le ense\u00f1\u00f3 su pareja t\u00f3xica\" class=\"wp-image-35285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T084322.062-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T084322.062-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T084322.062.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life is one unpredictable whirlwind of unexpected events. Sometimes you end up counting your lucky stars and other times you end up learning tough yet invaluable lessons. Both times are equally necessary in order to keep us grounded and aware that as much as you try to plan your life out, it never really works&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":35284,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35283","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/backlit-dawn-field-1118871.jpg",800,450,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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