{"id":35296,"date":"2019-04-10T07:50:07","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T07:50:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35296"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:20:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:20:14","slug":"no-temas-sus-palabras-teme-su-silencio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-temas-sus-palabras-teme-su-silencio\/","title":{"rendered":"No temas sus palabras, teme su silencio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, esta chica no ha sido s\u00f3lo tu amante y compa\u00f1era sentimental. Siempre actu\u00f3 tambi\u00e9n como tu mejor amiga.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She\u2019s been one of the rare honest people in your life, the one who\u2019s never had a problem calling you out on your actions and telling you the harsh truth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La que siempre crey\u00f3 que hab\u00eda algo bueno en ti y se esforz\u00f3 para que ese bien prevaleciera.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Desde que tienes memoria, esta chica ha estado intentando <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/la-chica-tiene-que-dejar-de-intentar-salvar-a-la-gente-toxica\/\"><strong>salvarte<\/strong><\/a><strong> de ti mismo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She hoped that she\u2019d be the one to inspire you to become better, the one whose love will make you change.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>She\u2019s been the only one who fought for you, even if that meant fighting against you.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El que nunca pens\u00f3 en rendirse y dejarte colgado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La que estaba dispuesta a mover monta\u00f1as por ti aunque t\u00fa nunca movieras un dedo por ella. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La que te dio todo su ser, sin pedir nada a cambio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>La chica que siempre ten\u00eda la energ\u00eda para explicarte en qu\u00e9 te equivocabas, la chica que luchaba contra tus demonios y la chica que intentaba alejarte de tu oscuridad. <\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, instead of appreciating all of her effort, the truth is that she\u2019s been annoying the hell out of you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, you\u2019re a grown-ass man, and you don\u2019t need her telling you what to do. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t need someone nagging you and questioning your every move. You don\u2019t need someone calling you all the time and worrying about nonsense. Someone who yells and argues with you about every little thing. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014one of these days, she\u2019ll have had enough. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>One of these days, she\u2019ll give you exactly what you want<\/strong>\u2014<strong>she\u2019ll leave you alone, and <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-esperara-para-siempre-algun-dia-shell-solo-se-alejan\/\"><strong>se marchar\u00e1<\/strong><\/a><strong> de ti, para no volver jam\u00e1s.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sin embargo, <strong>you won\u2019t be happy and relieved. <\/strong>Instead, you\u2019ll be sadder than you\u2019ve ever been. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Y <strong>you\u2019ll miss each one of these things that were getting on your nerves.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uno de estos d\u00edas, sus palabras se convertir\u00e1n en silencio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suddenly, you won\u2019t have anyone patiently waiting for you to come home and anyone worrying sick if you\u2019re alright. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There won\u2019t be any more of her paragraph-long text messages, any more missed calls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se acabaron sus arrebatos de celos y su miedo a perderte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se acabaron sus l\u00e1grimas, sus s\u00faplicas para que entres en raz\u00f3n y las segundas oportunidades.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of these days, this girl will stop making excuses for your crappy behavior, and finally, she\u2019ll turn her back on you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She won\u2019t have any more time for your false promises and for your lies.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Suddenly, she\u2019ll be OK with whatever you do.<\/strong> Nothing will bother her, and she\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re not worthy of her trouble. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That you\u2019re not worthy of her sleepless nights and of all the years she\u2019s wasted, waiting for you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/ella-espero-a-que-te-pusieras-las-pilas-pero-tu-la-ahuyentaste\/\">ponte las pilas<\/a>.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just like that, you\u2019ll see that she no longer cares. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Que <strong>all of the pain you\u2019ve caused her managed to kill all the love she felt for you and turn it into indifference.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No, this won\u2019t be one of her tactics to scare you. She won\u2019t pretend that she\u2019s stopped loving you just so you\u2019d realize that you are losing her. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She won\u2019t walk away just so you\u2019d start chasing her. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This time, it will really be over. And that is when you\u2019ll understand everything, <strong>when you\u2019ll realize that all of this time, you were the one who needed her and not the other way around.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is when everything she\u2019s been trying to tell you will find its way to your heart and mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019ll understand that she loved you like no other, and you should have treated her differently while you still had the chance to do so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When this happens, you\u2019ll be completely crushed and devastated, and you\u2019ll be ready to do whatever it takes to have all of the parts you thought you didn\u2019t like about her back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, no, you shouldn\u2019t be worried about this girl leaving you as long as she is investing her time and energy in you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No obstante, <strong>once her words turn into silence, know that you\u2019re gone from her heart from good, and there is nothing you will be able to do to change that. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T094848.967-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"No temas sus palabras, teme su silencio\" class=\"wp-image-35298\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T094848.967-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T094848.967-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-10T094848.967.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For as long as you can remember, this girl was not just your lover and romantic partner. She always acted like your best friend as well. She\u2019s been one of the rare honest people in your life, the one who\u2019s never had a problem calling you out on your actions and telling you the harsh&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":35297,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/StockSnap_Q2S0SPEI4C-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}