{"id":3531,"date":"2017-08-14T13:32:59","date_gmt":"2017-08-14T13:32:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3531"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:13:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:13:09","slug":"el-llama-hes-borracho-solo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-llama-hes-borracho-solo\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00f3lo llama porque est\u00e1 borracho y solo."},"content":{"rendered":"

No cojas el tel\u00e9fono.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the call you\u2019ve been waiting for, isn\u2019t it? It\u2019s the sound you have heard ringing in your sleep for so many nights.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your first look at your phone and the hope it\u2019s his number\u2014calling to apologize, to tell you he loves you and wants you back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s him and all you\u2019ve been waiting for and you\u2019re fingers are itching to pick up, aren\u2019t they?<\/p>\n

Pero, antes de cogerlo, hay algo que debes tener en cuenta.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te ha hecho esto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve tried to move on so many times, but somehow he always gets in your way. Either he calls, texts, shows up, or you hear his name in your head and you drop everything.<\/p>\n

You drop everything waiting for him to spread his arms and welcome you in his hugs, but it isn\u2019t really happening how you\u2019ve pictured it.<\/p>\n

Puede hacerte sentir como nadie.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Because you gave him that much power. You\u2019ve allowed him to become so important and you can\u2019t help but want him.<\/p>\n

Pero si te dieras una semana para pensar en \u00e9l sin que tus sentimientos nublaran tu juicio, las cosas cristalizar\u00edan un poco.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d see he isn\u2019t as special as you thought. He isn\u2019t even average, but you made him perfect and #1. That\u2019s what you do\u2014you give people much more credit than they deserve.<\/p>\n

Ver tambi\u00e9n<\/strong>: <\/b>Te mereces que te traten como a una mierda<\/a><\/p>\n

Pero sigues olvidando lo jugador que es.<\/b><\/p>\n

See, whenever he rings you up, you\u2019re the first to show up. You\u2019re like those duty officers that are first to arrive at the crime scene.<\/p>\n

But, honestly and harshly, that\u2019s all you\u2019ll ever be. There is no higher position for you in his police station.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him in.<\/b><\/p>\n

He is not calling because he\u2019s taking you seriously this time. He\u2019s not calling because he knows you\u2019re worthy. He\u2019s not calling because he wants you to get back together.<\/p>\n

Te llama porque te necesita como un par\u00e1sito necesita otra vida de la que alimentarse. Necesita que le cuides, que le quieras y que te preocupes por \u00e9l. Necesita tu amor, tu generosidad y tus ojos c\u00e1lidos.<\/p>\n

He needs to not be alone now when everybody else has left him. He\u2019s calling because he\u2019s drunk and he\u2019s alone. It\u2019s the same story all over again.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be flattered by the guy who calls you only when he\u2019s drunk. No, it doesn\u2019t mean he loves you.<\/p>\n

It means he just needs you, and you\u2019re the only person he knows who will pick up the phone.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Instead, you should be flattered with a grown-ass man who\u2019s not afraid to call you when he\u2019s sober, treat you right, and darte el amor que mereces.<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re constantly preventing yourself from getting over him. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cada vez que te llama, el coraz\u00f3n te da un vuelco. Cada vez que ves su nombre en la pantalla, te entran ganas de gritar de alegr\u00eda.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve it. Remember how many nights you have spent dry-heaving out of desire for him?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te has tumbado en el suelo deseando que desapareciera el dolor y no haberle conocido? \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has querido borrarle de tu memoria?<\/p>\n

Y, sin embargo, basta una llamada suya para que olvides todo el dolor y todas las l\u00e1grimas de vida que dejaste caer por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Alguien tiene que decirte que la pr\u00e1ctica hace al maestro.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Puede que ahora te mate no cogerlo, pero m\u00e1s adelante s\u00f3lo ser\u00e1 un nombre al azar en la pantalla.<\/p>\n

I promise he won\u2019t know you wanted and waited for him to call. He won\u2019t know how much you miss him. Nobody will ever tell him how much you\u2019re hurting.<\/b><\/p>\n

But he\u2019ll think you\u2019re doing just fine without him and that there is no place for him in your life. Eventually, it will be so. He doesn\u2019t need to know it\u2019s different now. <\/b><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s, he\u2019ll realize what has he lost. <\/a><\/b> He\u2019ll be aware that he treated you the way nobody should ever be treated and he\u2019ll regret all the times he ignored you, manipulated you, and made you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll keep calling the only person who loved him for who he was, but you\u2019ll just let it ring.<\/p>\n

Because, sooner or later, there will be somebody who\u2019ll treat you better than him.<\/p>\n

There will be somebody who\u2019ll give you the love you deserve\u2014and it\u2019s not him. <\/b><\/p>\n

He doesn’t deserve to hear your voice.<\/p>\n

\"S\u00f3lo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t pick up the phone. It\u2019s the call you\u2019ve been waiting for, isn\u2019t it? It\u2019s the sound you have heard ringing in your sleep for so many nights. It\u2019s your first look at your phone and the hope it\u2019s his number\u2014calling to apologize, to tell you he loves you and wants you back. It\u2019s him…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":111934,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3531","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Hes-Only-Calling-Because-Hes-Drunk-And-Alone-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3531","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3531"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3531\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/111934"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}