{"id":35346,"date":"2020-05-11T08:24:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T08:24:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35346"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:04:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:04:31","slug":"si-haces-7-de-estas-14-cosas-eres-una-buena-novia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-haces-7-de-estas-14-cosas-eres-una-buena-novia\/","title":{"rendered":"Si haces 7 de estas 14 cosas, eres una buena novia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hay tantos tipos de novias que ves todos los d\u00edas y no puedes evitar preguntarte: \"\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de novia soy yo?\".<\/p>\n

O una pregunta a\u00fan mejor que hacerse, \u201cWhich type of a girlfriend should I be?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Las relaciones se han vuelto tan dif\u00edciles porque la gente se ha vuelto tan complicada. Nos enfadamos por peque\u00f1eces, nos resentimos por estupideces.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo hace falta un poco para ponernos al l\u00edmite, lo que acarrea problemas en nuestras relaciones.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, as we get so easily angry with our other half in a relationship, we don\u2019t accept an apology so lightly.<\/p>\n

Face it, all of us have that no-one-will-screw-with-me attitude because it\u2019s hard to forget what someone said or did that bothered us.<\/p>\n

Well, relationships are not about resentment or suppressing anger. They aren\u2019t about keeping score of who did what and when.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Todos lo olvidamos. Las relaciones deber\u00edan basarse en el amor y en la capacidad de perdonar y seguir adelante.<\/p>\n

Nadie es perfecto. Ni t\u00fa, ni \u00e9l, ni vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfAd\u00f3nde quiero llegar? <\/em><\/p>\n

Dicho todo esto, quiero que te des cuenta de que no importa el tipo de novia que seas, puedes ser ta mejor novia consultando estos 15 consejos para triunfar.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you mean well and you sincerely love the person you\u2019re with, you are indeed a buena novia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No obstante, s\u00e9 que a\u00fan tienes tus dudas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we are going to move on to the more analytical part of the article, to make you totally confident you\u2019re behaving exactly as you should.<\/p>\n

Si haces al menos 7 de estas 14 cosas, eres un<\/em><\/strong> BUENA NOVIA<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Eres una combinaci\u00f3n perfecta de pegajosa e independiente.<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

Ning\u00fan hombre te dir\u00e1 que le gusta que su novia est\u00e9 cerca de \u00e9l todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

No one likes people who act like a lost puppy in a relationship \u2013 women who don\u2019t do anything by themselves and act like they have no life outside of the relationship.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, no one wants a woman who is too independent and doesn\u2019t need you for anything.<\/p>\n

If she can do everything by herself, what\u2019s the point of being in a relationship?<\/p>\n

Una novia perfecta sabe moverse en el feliz t\u00e9rmino medio entre ser pegajoso<\/a> e independiente.<\/p>\n

Una novia perfecta sale con su novio, pasan tiempo haciendo cosas juntos, pero tiene una vida fuera de la relaci\u00f3n con sus amigos y su familia, como se supone que todo el mundo debe tener.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re self-assured<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You know you look good and you feel good about yourself. You don\u2019t need anyone to keep telling you that you rock.<\/p>\n

You are perfectly aware of that, but you don\u2019t misuse it. You\u2019re not an ass to others just because you are confident.<\/p>\n

A los hombres les encantan las chicas que no se obsesionan con si son guapas o no y con gustar a la gente.<\/p>\n

El hecho de que no pienses cambiar por nadie porque te gustas tal y como eres es lo que te hace \u00fanico e interesante.<\/p>\n

Tu personalidad y tu mentalidad, tal y como son, te convierten en una buena novia.<\/p>\n

Haces cosas bonitas por \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La vida cotidiana puede llevarte a una rutina aburrida.<\/p>\n

Antes de que te des cuenta, te encuentras haciendo las mismas cosas una y otra vez, lo que pone en peligro tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Incluso las parejas que llevan m\u00e1s tiempo juntas se enfrentan a estos problemas.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why the fact that you do small nice things for your boyfriend makes you a great girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Le preparas un caf\u00e9 por la ma\u00f1ana, le dejas una bonita nota sobre una mesa o le escribes un p\u00e1rrafo de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you do these or any of other selfless things for him, it means you\u2019re willing to keep the relationship alive even after so much time spent together.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re smart<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not childish; you\u2019ve outgrown the high school phase of dating and all the problems that come with it.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s what men are looking for \u2013 a mature and grown-ass woman who doesn\u2019t act like a spoiled brat.<\/p>\n

Los hombres quieren a su lado a una mujer que est\u00e9 a su altura y que pueda desafiarles a nivel intelectual.<\/p>\n

Los hombres necesitan el desaf\u00edo y t\u00fa tienes el cerebro para hacerlo.<\/p>\n

You never compare your relationship with someone else\u2019s<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Although it\u2019s extremely hard not to compare what you have with what someone else has, you somehow manage it.<\/p>\n

Seeing all those selfies of happy couples on social media doesn\u2019t make it easier to only look at your relationship, but you are confident enough and smart enough to know that nothing is exactly what it looks like.<\/p>\n

God knows what happens between that \u201chappy\u201d couple when they are not pretending to be the happiest by posting cute selfies on Instagram.<\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019re not made of stone and you have critical moments too when you can\u2019t help but wonder if you are as happy as they are.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, you\u2019ve always made it through.<\/p>\n

Te dedicas<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

First, you\u2019ll never cheat. You never even thought of cheating. Second, you always have your man\u2019s back.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always stick up for him.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if he\u2019s right or wrong, the point is you trust him and you care enough to defend what he believes in, even if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

La devoci\u00f3n es algo que todos los hombres aprecian. Si te comportas as\u00ed en una relaci\u00f3n, cr\u00e9eme, te devolver\u00e1n el favor.<\/p>\n

Le animas a seguir sus sue\u00f1os<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You talk to him about what he wants. You listen to him talking about his dreams, about things he\u2019s passionate about.<\/p>\n

Even if those things don\u2019t mean anything to you, you\u2019ll respect them and you\u2019ll help him get there any way you know how.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t do anything except listen to him and hear out his problems, you\u2019ll do it because that is the only way to encourage him to never throw in the towel.<\/p>\n

Le dejas actuar como un hombre<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You are well aware of the fact that men and women are from two different worlds. We don\u2019t function or think the same way.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you won\u2019t make him do girly stuff, the stuff he doesn\u2019t feel comfortable doing. You don\u2019t want to make him feel less manly.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t follow him around making sure he doesn\u2019t do something stupid.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00edas en \u00e9l y sabes que tiene que tener tiempo para s\u00ed mismo, igual que t\u00fa tienes que tener tiempo para ti.<\/p>\n

Necesita salir con sus amigos y hacer cosas que hacen los chicos.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t force him to be a romantic<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s not his thing. He shows that he loves you in different ways. So, you don\u2019t pressure him into doing romantic gestures for you.<\/p>\n

You know he won\u2019t feel good because that\u2019s just not who he is.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de la gente demuestra su amor con grandes gestos rom\u00e1nticos, escapadas sorpresa y regalos bonitos.<\/p>\n

Even though you see this happening around you with your friends, you don\u2019t care that your man is not like that.<\/p>\n

Tiene un mont\u00f3n de formas \u00fanicas de demostrarle lo mucho que le importas<\/a> \u2013 and you\u2019re more than okay with that.<\/p>\n

Haces que quiera superarse<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You are going to bring out the best in him \u2013 you want to bring out the best in him.<\/p>\n

Eres su apoyo en todas las situaciones y haces que quiera convertirse en una persona a\u00fan mejor de lo que ya es.<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento de su vida, un hombre se siente responsable de su futuro y, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, eso ocurre por culpa de una mujer.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed es como influyes positivamente en su vida. Haces que quiera cambiar y ser mejor.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t take your anger out on him, even if you\u2019re having a bad day<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to keep your emotions under control. Some days you just feel simply bad; you aren\u2019t in the mood to talk to anyone, not even him.<\/p>\n

But when those days come, you don\u2019t unleash that frustration on him.<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s necessary, you\u2019ll go away; you\u2019ll get out of his way to not cause a scene because you\u2019re well aware that you\u2019re a bit edgy, so you might misunderstand things he says or does.<\/p>\n

Basically, if you\u2019re feeling a bit bitchy, you\u2019ll move out of his way.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t let him neglect his friends and family<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A lot of men do this when they enter relationships. A lot of them act like they no longer have friends, just because they\u2019ve found a girlfriend.<\/p>\n

This behavior is shitty and you\u2019ll never let him do something like this.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farate de recordarle lo importante que es mantenerse en contacto con los que te importan.<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s not as necessary to do this with friends as it is with his family.<\/p>\n

Men get like that; they don\u2019t have the need to call their mom just to say they love her, but that\u2019s why they have you to remind them it\u2019s a nice and loving thing to do.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try new things, even if you don\u2019t like them<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll do it for him.<\/p>\n

If something means so much to him, you\u2019ll keep whatever your opinion is about that particular thing to yourself and you\u2019ll try it because you love him and you want to make him happy.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, si conseguir que hagas algo nuevo con \u00e9l es otra oportunidad de pasar m\u00e1s tiempo con la persona que amas, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no?<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t force him to change<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

I saved the best \u2013 or better said \u2013 the more important for last. If you\u2019ve fallen in love with someone, you\u2019ve fallen in love for a reason.<\/p>\n

Puede que haya algunas cosas que quieras que cambie, pero en general, le quieres por c\u00f3mo es.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, it\u2019s not fair to ask someone to change after you choose to be with that person the way they are.<\/p>\n

Your boyfriend appreciates that you\u2019ve accepted him with flaws and all.<\/p>\n

After all, you aren\u2019t perfect either.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>\n

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