{"id":35367,"date":"2020-05-11T12:24:18","date_gmt":"2020-05-11T12:24:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35367"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:58:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:58:52","slug":"si-el-no-puede-decir-estas-10-cosas-en-el-primer-mes-hes-no-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-el-no-puede-decir-estas-10-cosas-en-el-primer-mes-hes-no-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no puede decir estas 10 cosas en el primer mes, no vale la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acabas de empezar a salir con alguien y probablemente te preocupa que pueda ser otro error (lo cual es totalmente comprensible).<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re sick and tired of looking for all of those clues and signos de un hombre de verdad<\/a> or signs guaranteeing you that he\u2019s a guy who won\u2019t screw you up this time.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re wondering if there\u2019s a secret formula that will reveal his true nature, I daresay that there actually is!<\/p>\n

If you want to know his true intentions, pay attention to what he\u2019s saying to you instead of only observing what he is doing!<\/p>\n

So, if he can\u2019t say these 10 things within the first month of dating, know that it\u2019s time to move on because he\u2019s simply not worth it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI really like you\/enjoy spending time with you.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been on several dates so far and everything has been going smoothly, and you can feel mutual attraction and chemistry, it is normal to expect him to acknowledge that he likes you or that he likes spending time with you.<\/p>\n

And if he can\u2019t say it or refuses to say it (thinking that you already know that), then he\u2019s definitely not worth it.<\/p>\n

Un chico que realmente se preocupa por c\u00f3mo te sientes y si te gusta siempre se asegurar\u00e1 de decirte lo mucho que le gustas primero.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want this\/that from relationships.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t specify what he is looking for in a relationship but keeps dating you and perhaps keeps sending you some mixed signals, it means he\u2019s utterly indecisive and probably emotionally damaged.<\/p>\n

Also, he might refuse to tell you how he wants things to be because he already knows that he\u2019s in it just to manipulate you and satisfacer su ego\u00edsta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Always demand that they tell you about their expectations so that you know whether you\u2019re on the same page or not.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to make things official.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Un chico que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 interesado en un romance superficial y nada serio siempre se negar\u00e1 a oficializar las cosas contigo.<\/p>\n

No matter how much it seems that you\u2019re definitely meant to be, if he is ignoring making your relationship official, it means that he\u2019s not ready for one.<\/p>\n

No querr\u00e1 hacerlo porque obviamente le interesa tener a alguien al lado o est\u00e1 totalmente indeciso respecto a vosotros dos.<\/p>\n

Whatever the true reason is, if he\u2019s not ready to be official with you, he\u2019s definitely not worth it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want us to\u2026\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

If he never makes future plans with you (and I don\u2019t mean two years in advance), you should stop for a moment and think about it.<\/p>\n

Proposing things like, \u201cI want us to go to a concert\/see something,\u201d <\/em>significa que quiere asegurarse de que te ver\u00e1 en el futuro.<\/p>\n

It means he likes to spend time with you and he\u2019s ready to do anything to initiate more of it.<\/p>\n

Saying, \u201cI want us to\u2026\u201d is the ultimate sentence of a real healthy man who knows what he wants and is not afraid of fighting for it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI would like to meet your friends.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve already met his friends but he still doesn\u2019t show a willingness to meet yours, then there\u2019s something wrong with him.<\/p>\n

Perhaps he\u2019s not interested in meeting your friends because he\u2019s afraid of their possible judgment of him and his actions.<\/p>\n

All in all, if he doesn\u2019t want to meet your close friends, it means he\u2019s not really interested in being a part of your life either.<\/p>\n

And you certainly don\u2019t want to perder el tiempo<\/a> en alguien as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to show you my place.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

There are two reasons why a guy would like to show you his place. Reason one: he\u2019s only interested in getting into your pants.<\/p>\n

Segunda raz\u00f3n: realmente quiere ense\u00f1arte su casa.<\/p>\n

Para distinguir entre ambos, basta con que prestes atenci\u00f3n a sus acciones si visitas su casa y lo sabr\u00e1s con certeza.<\/p>\n

If you decipher that he\u2019s not the kind of guy who is only interested in taking you to bed, then you can be sure that he genuinely wants to show you his place and he wants to share his life with you.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to see you again.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"encantadora<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been on a few dates (and you had a great time together) and every time you part, he simply never says that famous sentence, \u201cQuiero volver a verte,<\/em>\u201d then you can be sure that there is something fishy about him.<\/p>\n

If he never acknowledges his enjoyment and never bothers to initiate your next hangout, then he\u2019s not worthy of you making an effort either.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m totally over my ex.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si sabes que tuvo una relaci\u00f3n antes de que empezaras a salir con \u00e9l y se niega a hablar de ello, lo m\u00e1s probable es que a\u00fan sienta algo por ella.<\/p>\n

En ese caso, huir de \u00e9l ser\u00eda una buena alternativa.<\/p>\n

Pero si de alguna manera inicia que he\u2019s totally over his ex<\/a> (without saying it directly) then there\u2019s no need to worry about it.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want to take you out for (a romantic) dinner instead of drinks.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

The importance of making an effort when it comes to dating and relationships simply can\u2019t be emphasized enough.<\/p>\n

So, if your guy is constantly taking you out to bars for drinks instead of a peaceful, romantic dinner (from time to time), it means he\u2019s not making enough effort for you or to get to know you better, which means he\u2019s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n

\u201cTell me about your life goals.\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Contrary to the previous point, if he\u2019s begging you to tell him about your objetivos en la vida<\/a>, this means he\u2019s totally interested in getting to know you better and he wants to be familiar with all of your future plans so that he can coordinate them with his.<\/p>\n

So, if you never hear the sentence, \u201cTell me more about yourself or your life goals,\u201d within the first month of dating, then you should seriously think about getting out of it before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n

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So, you\u2019ve just started dating someone and you\u2019re probably worrying that he might just be another mistake (which is completely understandable). I\u2019m sure you\u2019re sick and tired of looking for all of those clues and signs of a real man or signs guaranteeing you that he\u2019s a guy who won\u2019t screw you up this time….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":98555,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35367","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Cant-Say-These-10-Things-Within-The-First-Month-Hes-Not-Worth-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35367","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35367"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35367\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35367"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35367"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35367"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}