{"id":35376,"date":"2020-02-11T13:00:37","date_gmt":"2020-02-11T13:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35376"},"modified":"2022-02-27T01:43:26","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T01:43:26","slug":"como-pedirle-a-un-chico-que-sea-tu-novio-10-maneras-de-hacerlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-pedirle-a-un-chico-que-sea-tu-novio-10-maneras-de-hacerlo\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo pedirle a un chico que sea tu novio: 10 maneras de hacerlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque puedas suponer que llamarle novio de la nada convertir\u00e1 por arte de magia al chico que te gusta en tu media naranja, las cosas en la pr\u00e1ctica lamentablemente no suelen ir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Yes, we\u2019d probably all like for our relationship to start as spontaneous as possible without the unnecessary fuss and awkwardness but sometimes that is just not possible.<\/p>\n

You can send all the possible signs that you want to be his girlfriend or that you wish to label things between the two of you but some guys simply don\u2019t take the hint, as much as you\u2019d like them to.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que hay situaciones en las que tienes que pedirle directamente a un hombre que sea tu pareja sentimental y si le gustar\u00eda iniciar una relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/a> contigo.<\/p>\n

Sabiendo esto, lo siguiente que probablemente te est\u00e9s preguntando es c\u00f3mo pedirle a un chico que sea tu novio.<\/p>\n

At first, this probably appears to be a mission impossible, especially to a girl who\u2019s never made the first move but it\u2019s actually a piece of cake and something you\u2019llyou\u2019ll wish you\u2019dyou\u2019d done sooner, no matter the outcome.<\/p>\n

Fear not, because we\u2019re here to explain to you in detail how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend the easiest and yet the best way possible, without looking desperate.<\/p>\n

Sigue esta gu\u00eda paso a paso sobre c\u00f3mo pedirle a un chico que sea tu novio y te aseguramos que todos los hombres en los que te fijes ser\u00e1n tuyos en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.<\/p>\n

Deshacerse de los prejuicios<\/h2>\n

\"foto     <\/p>\n

A pesar de todos los cambios que los tiempos modernos han tra\u00eddo a la escena de las citas, una cosa ha permanecido igual desde siempre: los hombres siempre han sido los que han dado el primer paso.<\/p>\n

Eso significa que se espera de ellos que se acerquen a la mujer, pero tambi\u00e9n que den el paso para llevar su relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel.<\/p>\n

Son ellos los que nos cortejan a las mujeres y los que nos hacen todas las preguntas importantes, empezando por si quieres ser su novia y terminando con una proposici\u00f3n de matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Bueno, si te est\u00e1s preguntando c\u00f3mo pedirle a un chico que sea tu novio, lo primero y m\u00e1s importante es que te deshagas de cualquier prejuicio sobre el papel masculino o femenino en las relaciones o en las citas en general.<\/p>\n

Debes dejar de esperar pacientemente a que el chico que te interesa te lea la mente y sepa por arte de magia que est\u00e1s lista para comprometerte y hacer oficial vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Otra cosa de la que deber\u00edas olvidarte es de considerarte coja y pat\u00e9tica si haces esta pregunta en lugar de esperar a que \u00e9l haga soso.<\/p>\n

No, asking a guy if he wants to be your boyfriend doesn\u2019t make you any less of a lady and it certainly doesn\u2019t make him any less of a man.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you should should demand equality in a romantic relationship and if this is the case, , then what\u2019s the problem with taking over what has been traditionally considered to be a man\u2019s role?<\/p>\n

Averig\u00fce lo que quiere<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de averiguar c\u00f3mo pedirle a un chico que sea tu novio, tienes que saber lo que realmente quieres. \u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de relaci\u00f3n esperas conseguir?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 preparado para comprometerse plenamente con un relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a>? \u00bfQuieres una relaci\u00f3n por no estar soltera o realmente quieres estar con este chico espec\u00edficamente?<\/p>\n

Do you want him to be your boyfriend because you care for him and because you consider that things between you two have reached a point where you\u2019re both ready to take your relationship to the next level or just to prove to yourself that you can have him?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 sientes por este hombre? \u00bfEs amor o lujuria? \u00bfSus sentimientos son pasajeros?<\/p>\n

Naturally, him agreeing to your proposal isn\u2019t a guarantee that the two of you will grow old together but you need to know if you can see yourself next to this man from this point of view.<\/p>\n

You might think that all of these questions you should ask yourself are a bit too much and that you\u2019d be thinking too much ahead of time if you analyzed each one of these aspects but trust me on this one\u2014it is crucial for you to know where exactly you stand yourself before trying to figure out where the two of you stand as a couple.<\/p>\n

Sea sincero consigo mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, firstly you have to come clean with yourself.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t lie to yourself about the relationship between the two of you and about its potential future.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEtiquetar las cosas es algo que \u00e9l podr\u00eda aceptar? \u00bfTienes alguna posibilidad con \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

Recuerda que entrar en una relaci\u00f3n comprometida es un gran paso hoy en d\u00eda y antes de empezar a hablar de eso con un chico, tienes que ser realista sobre c\u00f3mo est\u00e1n las cosas entre vosotros dos en este momento.<\/p>\n

Si es alguien con quien todav\u00eda no tienes una conexi\u00f3n real, empieza por pedirle una cita<\/a> e intenta acercarte a \u00e9l de diferentes maneras antes de pedirle de sopet\u00f3n que sea tu novio.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, \u00bfestamos hablando de un chico cualquiera con el que idealizas y fantaseas o es un chico con el que sueles pasar tiempo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs alguien que te gusta sin tener ni idea de sus sentimientos o alguien a quien le gustas hasta el punto de que podr\u00eda aceptar ser tu novio?<\/p>\n

What is also important is to be realistic about this man\u2019s characteristics, about all of his flaws and qualities.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, nadie espera que sea perfecto, pero tienes que ser honesta contigo misma sobre si este chico es material para novio o no.<\/p>\n

Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, \u00bftiene lo que hay que tener para ser tu novio? \u00bfSois compatibles y os llevar\u00edais bien?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTen\u00e9is algo m\u00e1s en com\u00fan aparte de la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica mutua?<\/p>\n

Prep\u00e1rese para el rechazo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in the process of figuring out how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, staying optimistic and keeping a positive outlook will help you get most of the job done.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably thought all of your options through before taking this step and decided this is the thing you should do.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, let\u2019s face it\u2014there always exists the possibility of him rejecting you and this is something you need to prepare yourself for.<\/p>\n

It is important for you not to fall into despair if this happens and not to consider yourself as less worthy or not enough just because some dude doesn\u2019t want to be your boyfriend. Of course, you\u2019re entitled to ask for an explanation.<\/p>\n

You have the right to know what the things are he didn\u2019t like about you but that isn\u2019t something that should define you or make you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

Lo fundamental es que aceptes su respuesta negativa con dignidad y sin tener ning\u00fan juego en mente.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que todo el mundo tiene derecho a rechazarte en cualquier momento sin que t\u00fa tengas derecho a enfadarte por ello.<\/p>\n

Agradece que haya sido honesto desde el principio en lugar de gui\u00e1ndote<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Before blaming yourself for his rejection, remember that there could exist a million reasons why he doesn\u2019t want a relationship with you right now.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, puede que no te vea como su novia potencial y eso no es nada por lo que debas ofenderte.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, intentarlo siempre es mejor que preguntarse qu\u00e9 puede pasar.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de ver este rechazo como el fin del mundo, si\u00e9ntete orgulloso de ti mismo por ser lo suficientemente valiente como para dar este paso en primer lugar.<\/p>\n

Determinar el momento adecuado<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has o\u00eddo que el momento oportuno lo es todo? Pues lo mismo puede decirse de su situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t ask the guy you like if he wants to be your boyfriend when the two of you have just finished arguing or when you know that he is tired or in a bad mood.<\/p>\n

Also, picking a date such as your birthday or Valentine\u2019s Day is a horrible idea because that way you\u2019ll never know whether his answer was positive because he also wants a relationship or because he didn\u2019t want to ruin your big day.<\/p>\n

Algunos te aconsejar\u00e1n que se lo preguntes justo despu\u00e9s o incluso durante el sexo<\/a> pero eso es algo que debes evitar hacer a toda costa.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, he might not take you seriously, considering that you\u2019re talking nonsense because you are vulnerable after you guys have been intimate.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, podr\u00eda darte una respuesta positiva s\u00f3lo porque a\u00fan est\u00e1 profundamente influenciado por vuestros momentos bajo las s\u00e1banas.<\/p>\n

Determinar el lugar adecuado<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in doubt about how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, another thing you should pay attention to is the right place to do that.<\/p>\n

Probablemente lo primero que se te pase por la cabeza sea el lugar donde compartisteis alg\u00fan momento especial, como vuestro primer beso o algo similar.<\/p>\n

Even though this is not a bad idea, have in mind that you don\u2019t have to make a big deal out of this by preparing some huge gestos rom\u00e1nticos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just important for the two of you to be somewhere private, so you can talk things through without loud music or someone constantly interrupting you.<\/p>\n

Puedes preguntarle si quiere ser tu novio en una cafeter\u00eda tranquila o durante un paseo por la naturaleza.<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t do it while you\u2019re out of town or anywhere where you need to travel back from together because that would be quite awkward in the case of a rejection.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1galo en persona<\/h2>\n

\"pareja   <\/p>\n

When you\u2019re wondering how to ask a guy to be your boyfriend, it is perfectly natural for you to be nervous, especially if this is something you have never done in the past.<\/p>\n

En consecuencia, puedes pensar en preguntarlo a trav\u00e9s de un mensaje de texto o mediante una llamada telef\u00f3nica para evitar la incomodidad.<\/p>\n

Pues d\u00e9jame decirte que esto es algo que debes evitar hacer a toda costa.<\/p>\n

You want this man to take you seriously and to see that you\u2019re brave and lo suficientemente fuerte como para decir<\/a> sus deseos.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, la \u00fanica forma madura de pedirle a alguien que sea tu pareja es hacerlo en persona.<\/p>\n

Besides helping you see this guy\u2019s reaction, this approach will also give you a chance to use your se\u00f1ales del lenguaje corporal<\/a> para declarar sus intenciones.<\/p>\n

Sea sincero sobre sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve chosen the timing and a place to ask the big question, the next thing you ought to do is decide to be completely honest with your potential partner.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you have to declare your love for him in a romantic or even cheesy way but being sincere about your feelings and expectations is always desirable.<\/p>\n

No es el momento de hacerte el dif\u00edcil ni de ocultar tus verdaderos sentimientos. En lugar de eso, dile exactamente c\u00f3mo te sientes.<\/p>\n

Tell him that he is someone you could see yourself next to and straightforwardly ask him if he\u2019s ready to be your boyfriend.<\/p>\n

D\u00edgale cu\u00e1les son sus expectativas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Otro paso importante en el proceso de pedirle a un chico que sea tu novio es decirle lo que esperas encontrar en este romance potencial.<\/p>\n

Be aware that different people perceive relationships in different ways so it\u2019s important to set some ground rules right from the start.<\/p>\n

The fact that you\u2019re the one who made the first step toward commitment doesn\u2019t put you beneath him in any way and it doesn\u2019t take away your right to talk about your expectations.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, los dos construir\u00e9is vuestra relaci\u00f3n con el tiempo si \u00e9l acepta etiquetarlo<\/a> but it\u2019d be honest of you to talk to him about some of your deal-breakers and standards your boyfriend should meet.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll give both of you a chance to see if you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n

Do you want the same things and can you meet each other\u2019s needs and reach a compromise?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared that this guy will think of you as some lunatic for talking about these things right from the start.<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll just see that you know what you want and he\u2019ll appreciate that.<\/p>\n

Dale tiempo para pensarlo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A nadie le gusta sentirse presionado y tu posible novio no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que quieres es asfixiarle o hacerle sentir atrapado, porque eso s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00eda ahuyentarle.<\/p>\n

Por eso no hay nada malo en que le des a este chico algo de tiempo para pensar su decisi\u00f3n antes de tomar una definitiva.<\/p>\n

Antes de nada, hay que tener en cuenta algunas cosas.<\/p>\n

Maybe this is something he hadn’t expected to hear from you or he might need some time to clear his head.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if he can\u2019t make up his mind right away, set a certain date a few days from now for when he\u2019ll give you an answer.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t allow him to use this as an excuse to lead you on for as long as he wants.<\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want him to think that he can go to you whenever he feels like it while you sit and patiently wait for him to find the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

If it happens that this guy doesn\u2019t call you on the arranged day to give you his answer, don\u2019t push things too hard because you\u2019ll just come across as demasiado pegajoso<\/a> y desesperada.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why, in this scenario, you need to do your best to let him go as soon as possible and show him that you can make it without him.
\n\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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