{"id":35410,"date":"2020-04-12T07:46:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T07:46:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35410"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:06:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:06:21","slug":"una-vez-que-vuelva-no-olvides-como-se-fue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-vez-que-vuelva-no-olvides-como-se-fue\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando vuelva, no olvides c\u00f3mo se fue"},"content":{"rendered":"

Puede que ahora no lo veas, pero la gente siempre vuelve.<\/strong> No de inmediato; no cuando usted quiere y espera que lo hagan, pero tarde o temprano, lo hacen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Al fin y al cabo, todo asesino acaba volviendo a la escena del crimen, \u00bfno?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly the way people come back to the ones they\u2019ve damaged; to the ones they\u2019ve hurt and to the ones they should have appreciated more.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes they do it to try to repair what they broke. Sometimes they return just to make sure they\u2019ve managed to kill you spiritually.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A veces lo hacen para alimentar su ego y demostrarse a s\u00ed mismos que pueden tenerte cuando les apetezca. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y a veces lo hacen para intentar obtener tu perd\u00f3n y limpiar su conciencia de culpabilidad.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Personas come back when you\u2019ve almost forgetten all about them<\/a>, as if they sense that you\u2019ve moved on and that they\u2019re slowly losing a place in your heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vuelven una vez que realmente empiezan a sentir tu ausencia, una vez que por fin ven tu val\u00eda, y una vez que understand what they\u2019ve lost<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The same thing will happen with your ex\u2014the one who broke you to pieces, the one who made you question yourself, and the one who convinced you that you aren\u2019t meant to be loved.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Con el que aplast\u00f3 tu mundo y te cambi\u00f3 para siempre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You might not see it now, but eventually, he\u2019ll come back to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Un d\u00eda, cuando \u00e9l ya no sea el primero y el \u00faltimo pensamiento que pase por tu mente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One day, when you start to live again and when you convince yourself that you\u2019ve finally gotten over everything he\u2019s done to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just like that, he\u2019ll show up out of nowhere to ask for your forgiveness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019ll come crawling back, telling you that he realized what he\u2019s done, and he\u2019ll beg you for another chance.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ver\u00e1s, este chico est\u00e1 acostumbrado a que le perdones. Est\u00e1 acostumbrado a que seas su red de seguridad y a que siempre le aceptes, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

En consecuencia, esperar\u00e1 que vuelva a hacerse un hueco en su vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will expect you to tell him that you\u2019ve spent all of this time patiently waiting for him and that you\u2019ve never dej\u00f3 de quererle<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly why he\u2019ll come to you once he loses everything and once everyone else turns their backs on him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Una vez que lo intente con todas las dem\u00e1s mujeres con las que tuvo la oportunidad de estar, y una vez que vea que nadie podr\u00eda amarlo como t\u00fa lo hiciste.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he reaches rock bottom, he\u2019ll remember you as his last resort, and he\u2019ll want you to save him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando esto ocurra, todos los recuerdos que ten\u00edas con \u00e9l pasar\u00e1n por delante de tus ojos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And for a moment, you\u2019ll really wish to continue where you guys left off\u2014you\u2019ll wish to give your love another opportunity.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sin embargo, this is when you\u2019ll have to be strong enough not to allow nostalgia affect your decisions. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019ll have to look at things realistically and remember everything this man has done to you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he comes back, you\u2019ll have to be strong enough not to forget about the way he left.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Not to forget how he abandoned you when you needed him the most and how he didn\u2019t give a damn how his departure might affect you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll need to remember how he betrayed your trust and how he left you hanging.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

C\u00f3mo nunca pens\u00f3 en c\u00f3mo te sent\u00edas y en lo que te estaba haciendo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll need to remember all the tears you cried for him, all the sleepless nights you spent wondering <\/strong>why weren\u2019t you enough<\/strong><\/a> y qu\u00e9 podr\u00edas haber hecho de otra manera para conservarlo. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todos los traumas y cicatrices que dej\u00f3 atr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he comes back, you\u2019ll have to be selfish enough not to care about his well-being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Selfish enough not to think about what he needs and feels, and for once, you\u2019ll have to put yourself first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When this happens, you\u2019ll have to treat this guy the same way he treated you when he walked away<\/strong>\u2014con el coraz\u00f3n fr\u00edo. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll have to slam the door straight in his face, and turn your back on him once and for all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00ed, al principio puede que te sientas culpable por hacer algo as\u00ed. Puede que incluso te preguntes si has hecho lo correcto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sin embargo, antes de que te des cuenta, te golpear\u00e1...era lo \u00fanico que se merec\u00eda. Y lo m\u00e1s importante: era algo que se deb\u00eda a s\u00ed mismo.  <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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You might not see it now, but people always come back. Not right away; not when you want and expect them to, but sooner or later, they do. After all, every murderer eventually returns to the crime scene, right? That is exactly the way people come back to the ones they\u2019ve damaged; to the ones…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":35411,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/StockSnap_925WECNCZH-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","parent":29627,"count":51,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29629,"category_count":51,"category_description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","cat_name":"getting him back","category_nicename":"getting-him-back","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35410"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35410\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}