{"id":35497,"date":"2020-05-16T09:21:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T09:21:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35497"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:44:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:44:18","slug":"5-razones-para-dejar-ir-a-un-chico-que-no-esta-seguro-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-para-dejar-ir-a-un-chico-que-no-esta-seguro-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones para dejar ir a un chico que no est\u00e1 seguro de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque sea el t\u00edo m\u00e1s bueno que hayas visto nunca, no dejes que ni \u00e9l ni nadie te d\u00e9 por sentada.<\/p>\n

La vida es muy corta y pasarla con alguien que tiene que pens\u00e1rselo dos veces para estar contigo es sencillamente una locura.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t think of it that way, maybe you think he\u2019ll change in time, that he just needs time to set his priorities and get his life in order but what you don\u2019t take into account is that time flies by much faster than you think and with just the snap of your fingers, you\u2019ll find yourself crying over a life wasted on a man who never gave all of him.<\/p>\n

Desp\u00eddete de los sentimientos encontrados en tu relaci\u00f3n simplemente porque t\u00fa, querida, te mereces mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/p>\n

I know that getting rid of a person who meant something to you is not an easy thing to do but when you look at everything you might miss out on because you\u2019re wasting time with a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/a>, it’s better to end it now.<\/p>\n

Estas son las razones por las que tienes que dejarle ir porque se siente un poco inseguro contigo: <\/strong><\/p>\n

He wants to break up but doesn\u2019t have the courage<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Tienes que hacerle el trabajo sucio.<\/p>\n

You have no other choice if you want to get out of that relationship while you\u2019re still pretty normal and pretty sane.<\/p>\n

His feelings for you have probably changed but he doesn\u2019t have the courage to admit it, so he strings you along.<\/p>\n

Or the other possible reason why he hasn\u2019t broken up with you is that he needs you.<\/p>\n

Todos tenemos momentos en los que nos sentimos vulnerables, necesitados y solos.<\/p>\n

En esos momentos, buscamos compa\u00f1\u00eda o lo m\u00e1s parecido al amor para consolarnos.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he does. He chooses to go to you because he doesn\u2019t want to be alone.<\/p>\n

In those moments, you\u2019re more than enough for what he needs. He goes back to you, you take him in and you connect.<\/p>\n

But what happens when he\u2019s in a period of feeling strong and secure? In those moments, he becomes unsure about you once again.<\/p>\n

Se pregunta si eres la persona adecuada para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

This is why you should walk away from that relationship. If you stay, you\u2019ll continue living through periods of happiness followed by periods of pain.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad quieres que tu felicidad dependa del estado emocional en que se encuentre \u00e9l?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa cuando se anima?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It\u2019s simple.<\/p>\n

You get your heart broken and he walks away from your relationship without a single worry on his mind because he\u2019s been feeling like doing this for a long time and now he has finally done it.<\/p>\n

If only you were quicker\u2026 it wouldn\u2019t cost you the tears and the broken heart. Think about it.<\/p>\n

Why would you wait to get dumped in the vain hope of him coming around? You\u2019re risking your life from that point on.<\/p>\n

The fact of who dumped who has everything to do with this case. Don\u2019t be stupid by taking the bullet which you weren\u2019t supposed to take.<\/p>\n

Hay otros hombres ah\u00ed fuera<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Why waste your life on someone who sometimes loves you and sometimes doesn\u2019t?<\/p>\n

By staying with a man who is unsure about you, you\u2019re unconsciously depriving yourself of meeting a man who\u2019ll be all in when it comes to you.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have moments of doubt, he\u2019ll never question your love for him or his love for you.   <\/p>\n

Even when he\u2019s with you, you\u2019re not getting all of his attention<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Un hombre que no est\u00e1 seguro de ti no est\u00e1 en la relaci\u00f3n hasta el final.<\/p>\n

Nunca est\u00e1 plenamente presente, ni invierte ninguna capacidad en construir lo que tienes para ser mejor y m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n

There are things that people do for each other because of love, things that they don\u2019t feel like doing but they do anyway just to make that person happy.<\/p>\n

The man you\u2019re dating won\u2019t sacrifice his time, nor will he put more effort into doing something he doesn\u2019t feel like doing, even if it means you\u2019re going to enjoy his gesture.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care enough for you to go the extra mile.<\/p>\n

A man who isn\u2019t sure about you will always keep you at arm\u2019s length. He will hold back his feelings and he will never fully open up to you.<\/p>\n

Lo peor es que crees que todo va bien.<\/p>\n

Crees que as\u00ed es como debe ser una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you\u2019re used to getting so little because no one showed you how much you\u2019re supposed to get.<\/p>\n

When you think about this situation from an objective point of view, you\u2019ll realize that his behavior is not fair.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s taking advantage of you<\/a>tu tiempo y tu amor.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones ya son bastante dif\u00edciles incluso con la persona adecuada<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque encuentres a la persona adecuada, esa relaci\u00f3n tambi\u00e9n necesita trabajo.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not so easy to include someone in your life even if they are the person you\u2019ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n

Se necesitan muchos compromisos y esfuerzos para que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n

The harder you try, the happier you\u2019ll be.<\/p>\n

Relationships are pointless if you\u2019re not trying to be everything your person needs. Being just enough won\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

Trying hard and becoming just enough will drain you and you\u2019ll get to the point where you won\u2019t be able to keep up anymore.<\/p>\n

Mira, siempre habr\u00e1 un momento en que tu hombre va a estar en un lugar extra\u00f1o en su vida.<\/p>\n

He will always be unsure about something because he isn\u2019t in the right place or he is dealing with something that is too much to handle.<\/p>\n

But you know what? Those are his problems and if he\u2019s the one who has to deal with them, it\u2019s only fair for him to let you go.<\/p>\n

You are not put on this earth to entertain someone. You won\u2019t give your love and your energy to someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate either and uses you instead.<\/p>\n

The time has come for you to ask yourself: \u201cAnd what about me?\u201d<\/p>\n

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