{"id":3556,"date":"2020-08-16T08:36:19","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T08:36:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3556"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:10:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:10:09","slug":"signos-de-que-no-eres-uno-no-culpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-de-que-no-eres-uno-no-culpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se\u00f1ales de que no eres \"la indicada\" para \u00e9l (y no es culpa tuya)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A veces, dos personas se juntan y son perfectas la una para la otra. Son como dos piezas de un rompecabezas.<\/p>\n<p>But, sometimes, no matter how well two people click, they\u2019re just not for each other. Maybe, in theory, your relationship is perfect, but it\u2019s a whole different story in practice.<\/p>\n<p>I know that sometimes, despite the fact you\u2019re aware that your relationship isn\u2019t going anywhere, you trick yourself into believing there\u2019s still hope\u2014when there\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>This sucks so badly, but the truth is that two amazing people don\u2019t have to hit it off.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you\u2019re just not right for each other, and sometimes you\u2019re just paranoid and you\u2019ve made yourself believe you don\u2019t belong by his side.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure which of these two scenarios is yours, check out the signs that will make you see if you\u2019re not \u2018The One\u2019 for him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">No hay confianza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste sentada en el sof\u00e1 sola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-alone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><br \/>\nHe doesn\u2019t trust you and trust is the most important thing in every relationship\u2014it\u2019s the foundation.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t have trust, you can be positive that your relationship will crack sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Fighting for a relationship without trust is just avoiding the inevitable\u2014avoiding the crash.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 en nuestra naturaleza humana tener a alguien a nuestro lado para sentirnos estables y protegidos.<\/p>\n<p>We know we have someone who will comfort us when we\u2019re sad and someone who will enjoy our happiness with us.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why we need to develop that bond of trust with that special someone we chose.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why YOU need to realize you\u2019re not the one for him if there is no trust in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-tempranas-de-que-el-novio-no-esta-bien\/\">5 se\u00f1ales tempranas de que tu novio NO es el adecuado para ti<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se guarda sus problemas para s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110498\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia triste y solitaria\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-lonely-blond-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><br \/>\nThere\u2019s no communication between the two of you. Whenever there\u2019s a problem, he quiets down and pulls back.<\/p>\n<p>You were probably in situations like this, begging him to tell you what\u2019s wrong, but he continuously refused to, numerous times.<\/p>\n<p>He tried to convince you everything is peachy, although you know it\u2019s not. If he avoids talking about his problems with you, he doesn\u2019t feel your support.<\/p>\n<p>El apoyo es una de las principales razones por las que nos esforzamos por encontrar a alguien con quien estar. Se necesita tiempo para desarrollar un sistema de apoyo en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>But, in your case, if you\u2019ve been in a long-term relationship and still, there\u2019s no feeling of support, something is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Hasta ahora deber\u00edais haber desarrollado un v\u00ednculo profundo, y ese v\u00ednculo incluye apoyaros mutuamente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sientes que falta algo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>You feel that you\u2019re not loved as you deserve to be.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe this seems like it\u2019s your problem but, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aha-now.com\/understanding-true-love-between-two-people\/\" rel=\"noopener\">cuando las dos personas se aman<\/a>Si no lo hacen, necesitan (y suelen hacerlo) encontrar la manera de amarse de la forma en que necesitan ser amados.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo general, a dos personas les lleva tiempo descubrir la forma de quererse, pero si tienes la sensaci\u00f3n de que tu pareja ni siquiera intenta descifrar el c\u00f3digo de c\u00f3mo quererte, ten por seguro que no eres la adecuada para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que entender que las relaciones nunca pueden ser perfectas.<\/p>\n<p>But there is something more you have to know\u2014putting a constant effort in your relationship is the key to its success.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hay mucha o poca pasi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110501\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria con gafas tumbada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/lonely-woman-lying-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Passion is that essential key for every relationship. It\u2019s the first thing the two of you will feel\u2014it\u2019s the reason why you are together.<\/p>\n<p>Passion is that feeling when the two of you touch and something deep inside you burns and it\u2019s good\u2014it\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n<p>No relationship can survive if there\u2019s no passion.<\/p>\n<p>But also, a lot of passion can be destructive because passion goes along with\u2014jealousy, fear, or sadness which show their faces when there\u2019s too much passion involved.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You don\u2019t have a feeling of security<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa joven triste sentada en el sof\u00e1 pensando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/beautiful-young-woman-sitting-on-couch-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>You have to ask yourself: \u201cDoes he make me safe?\u201d, \u201cDo I feel like home everywhere I go with him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Estas son las cosas m\u00e1s importantes porque, al fin y al cabo, todos buscamos seguridad. Todos queremos a alguien a nuestro lado que nos cuide y que nos levante cuando nos caemos.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, las relaciones carecen de ese importante segmento.<\/p>\n<p>But, when you think about it, no matter if the two of you are the best couple there can be, if you don\u2019t feel safe in each other\u2019s arms, you\u2019re not going to last.<\/p>\n<p>And that is completely fine\u2014that is not your fault. That is just how things are and probably should be for some reason.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t force love to happen because you\u2019re maybe forcing \u2018The wrong love\u2019 which could make you miss \u2018The Right One\u2019.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/relacion-correcta-se-sentiran-toxicos\/\">As\u00ed es como se sentir\u00e1 la relaci\u00f3n \"correcta\" despu\u00e9s de todas esas relaciones t\u00f3xicas<\/a><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110686\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se\u00f1ales de que no eres &quot;la indicada&quot; para \u00e9l (y no es culpa tuya)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, two people get together and they are perfect for each other. They are like two pieces of a puzzle. But, sometimes, no matter how well two people click, they\u2019re just not for each other. Maybe, in theory, your relationship is perfect, but it\u2019s a whole different story in practice. I know that sometimes, despite&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":110495,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/Signs-Youre-Not-The-One-For-Him-And-Its-Not-Your-Fault-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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