{"id":35584,"date":"2020-09-17T10:56:28","date_gmt":"2020-09-17T10:56:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35584"},"modified":"2022-03-11T20:24:44","modified_gmt":"2022-03-11T20:24:44","slug":"como-ser-irresistiblemente-atractivo-13-reglas-para-dejar-boquiabierto-a-cualquier-hombre-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-ser-irresistiblemente-atractivo-13-reglas-para-dejar-boquiabierto-a-cualquier-hombre-2\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo ser irresistiblemente atractivo: 13 reglas para dejar boquiabierto a cualquier hombre"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfTe est\u00e1s preguntando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-un-chico-te-persiga-usando-la-psicologia-masculina-24-formas-de-exito\/\">c\u00f3mo ser atractivo<\/a>? \u00bfCrees que la gente te encuentra atractiva?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCrees que hay algo que deber\u00edas cambiar para tener m\u00e1s \u00e9xito con los chicos?<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, creo que hay <strong>dos enfoques de la atracci\u00f3n: El psicol\u00f3gico (la forma de sentir y actuar) y el f\u00edsico (el aspecto f\u00edsico).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pero primero, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 nos importa la atracci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n<p>So, it all depends on the desirel we have in mind\u2014the <em>motivo<\/em> queremos que se sientan atra\u00eddos por nosotros.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Tipos de<\/strong> atracci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115630\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja bebiendo cocteles y coqueteando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-drinking-coctails-and-flirting-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>La atracci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica no es el \u00fanico tipo de atracci\u00f3n que existe.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, most of us want to look like complete knockouts\u2014mostly to impress the person we are interested in\u2014but there are more reasons why we want to be attractive.<\/p>\n<p>He aqu\u00ed los principales objetivos de la atracci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Atracci\u00f3n sexual (deseo de tener s\u00f3lo relaciones sexuales)<\/li>\n<li>Atracci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica (deseo de una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica)<\/li>\n<li>Atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica (deseo de contacto no sexual)<\/li>\n<li>Atracci\u00f3n emocional (deseo de abrirse emocionalmente)<\/li>\n<li>Atracci\u00f3n est\u00e9tica (deseo de impresionar a los dem\u00e1s con su aspecto)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>OK&#8230;back to the two approaches\u2014how to achieve your desires.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata del <strong><em>enfoque psicol\u00f3gico de la atracci\u00f3n<\/em><\/strong>nos fijamos en lo que piensas y en c\u00f3mo te comportas.<\/p>\n<p>Todo lo que pasa por tu cabeza se refleja en tu relaci\u00f3n con los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been a bit under the weather, your energy will give away your secret no matter how much you try to hide it.<\/p>\n<p>If you think that you\u2019re ugly, you will radiate that mood. If you think you\u2019re fat and unattractive, your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/lenguaje-corporal-hombres\/\"> el lenguaje corporal hablar\u00e1 en tu lugar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Tus pensamientos afectar\u00e1n a la forma en que los hombres te perciben.<\/p>\n<p>No es un problema grave si reconoces que te comportas as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>If you blame others for the things you\u2019ve done, then you won\u2019t be able to solve the problem.<\/p>\n<p>If you start by looking at your own backyard and accept the mistakes you\u2019re doing, then getting rid of this barrier in your head of not being good enough won\u2019t be a hard thing to do.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata de <strong><em>el enfoque f\u00edsico de la atracci\u00f3n<\/em><\/strong>, there isn\u2019t really much you can do or influence.<\/p>\n<p>There are some rules which work, some scientifically proven stuff on getting a man\u2019s attention which will be listed below.<\/p>\n<p>As far as physical attractiveness is considered, just follow what you&#8217;ll read, and along with that red dress put on something extra\u2014confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres que la gente te entienda y te quiera, tienes que seguir las reglas de la atracci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Parte 1 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>C\u00d3MO SER ATRACTIVO: EL ENFOQUE PSICOL\u00d3GICO<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Don\u2019t talk, listen<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115631\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer sonriente escuchando hombre hablando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-listening-man-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Anima a las personas que te rodean a hablar de s\u00ed mismas. Nadie quiere estar en compa\u00f1\u00eda de una persona que solo habla de s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to tell a story or two, but don&#8217;t give yourself the starring role.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re giving the wrong impression.<\/p>\n<p>By talking just about yourself, you\u2019re making people think you\u2019re only focused on \u2018you\u2019, meaning you don&#8217;t care about anyone but yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Give the spotlight to people you\u2019re talking to. Give them your whole attention.<\/p>\n<p>Leave the phone, and stop looking around you. Focus on the person you\u2019re talking to.<\/p>\n<p>This will create a positive response in that person&#8217;s brain which will leave a positive impression of you.<\/p>\n<p>RELACIONADO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-maneras-de-besar-a-un-hombre-para-que-se-vuelva-loco-por-ti\/\">C\u00f3mo besar a un hombre para volverlo loco por ti<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Elija bien sus palabras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115632\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven hablando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Evita las palabras negativas y herir a la gente. Tienes que saber que a veces no todo el mundo puede soportar la verdad.<\/p>\n<p>So, when you can, keep your mouth shut. When you feel you have to say something, do it carefully with words chosen specifically not to hurt the person you\u2019re talking to.<\/p>\n<p>La gente se siente atra\u00edda por la positividad y la felicidad.<\/p>\n<p>If you always have an evil comment or a snarky remark to something, it will get old. Sometimes it\u2019s better to sit one out.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lo aburrido no es atractivo, \u00a1as\u00ed que basta!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115633\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven y guapa sonriendo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-georgeous-woman-smiling-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>I think there aren\u2019t a lot of boring people in this world, but there are a lot of those who look boring when they are actually not.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of those who are afraid to show their weird and crazy sides, so they stick to the everyday questions like: \u201cHow you\u2019ve been?\u201d, \u201cIs it going to rain?\u201d and things like that.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas parecen aburridas porque tienen miedo de mostrar qui\u00e9nes son en realidad.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen miedo de mostrar qui\u00e9nes son realmente porque temen ser juzgados.<\/p>\n<p>Well, no one is perfect. We all have our little quirks; it depends on whom you\u2019re going to run into.<\/p>\n<p>If your weirdness doesn\u2019t suit someone, then you\u2019re better off without that person.<\/p>\n<p>Si le va bien a alguien, deber\u00edas mantener a esa persona en tu vida. Eso s\u00ed, nunca, por favor, nunca seas aburrido s\u00f3lo para encajar porque lo aburrido no es atractivo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Show that you\u2019re available<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118046\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city.jpg\" alt=\"Una pareja se divierte en la ciudad\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Couple-have-fun-in-the-city-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno de los rasgos m\u00e1s atractivos que posee un ser humano es la disponibilidad.<\/p>\n<p>When someone needs you in whatever context (business, friendly, emotional&#8230;), it isn\u2019t enough to just show up.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que demostrar que est\u00e1s a disposici\u00f3n de esa persona para lo que necesite.<\/p>\n<p>Show that you\u2019re willing to sacrifice your time because you want to sincerely help someone. Show them you care, and you want to connect.<\/p>\n<p>Show them you have their backs not because you\u2019ll benefit from it but because you want to support them without any hidden agendas.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t be selfish<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115635\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente de pie al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-standing-outdoor-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>It is in every human being\u2019s nature to think about themselves. Usually, this kind of lifestyle backfires sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you\u2019re going to think about yourself, but you don\u2019t have to <em>s\u00f3lo<\/em> piensa en ti.<\/p>\n<p>Abre los ojos y observa el mundo que te rodea. Intenta darte cuenta de cu\u00e1ndo alguien tiene un mal d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe a word or two from you will make them feel better. It won\u2019t cost you a thing, but it will mean something to them. Be generous and gentle.<\/p>\n<p>Pensar s\u00f3lo en ti mismo s\u00f3lo muestra m\u00e1s tus inseguridades.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando la gente ve tus defectos y lo mucho que intentas ocultarlos, esto puede alejarlos.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, transparency and honesty about who you are can only draw more kind people closer to you\u2014people who want to help you and in the end, people who will be attracted by you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Elige ser feliz<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115636\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz de pie al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-woman-standing-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todas las personas tienen esa vocecita en la cabeza que no para de decirles que no son lo bastante buenas.<\/p>\n<p>That voice can really be a bitch sometimes. It can convince you that you\u2019re ugly, fat, and stupid if you take it seriously.<\/p>\n<p>Tu felicidad depende de controlar esa voz.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re going to let that voice be the thing that leads you in life and tells you what you can and cannot do, it will destroy you.<\/p>\n<p>Your confidence will go down the drain, and there won\u2019t be a way out.<\/p>\n<p>If you choose to shut that voice up, you\u2019re choosing to be happy.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying you should be delusional, and ignore the things you have to work on.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just saying you should choose the brighter side of the road to walk on.<\/p>\n<p>Tu estado interno se ver\u00e1 desde fuera.<\/p>\n<p>If the optimistic side of you wins, then you\u2019re going to radiate positivity, and you\u2019ll be more attractive.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s the other way around, you still won\u2019t have any luck with winning someone over.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Parte 2<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>C\u00d3MO SER ATRACTIVO: EL ENFOQUE F\u00cdSICO<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115637\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atractiva posando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-posing-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>El lenguaje que habla tu cuerpo puede ser m\u00e1s atractivo que cualquier cosa que lleves puesta. Lo digo en serio.<\/p>\n<p>You can be dressed in a potato sack, but if you have the right moves, believe me, you\u2019re going to be irresistible.<\/p>\n<p>If you use your body language right, you can increase the level of attraction. Here\u2019s how:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>a) Mantener el torso abierto<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s once again about availability\u2014not the psychological one but the physical one.<\/p>\n<p>Keep your torso open because in that way, you\u2019re inviting people in rather than scaring them off.<\/p>\n<p>Cada vez que pienso en este movimiento de lenguaje corporal, pienso en Sheldon y Penny de la serie <em>Big Bang Theory<\/em> y la escena en la que Penny, que toma clases de interpretaci\u00f3n, intenta explicarle a Sheldon c\u00f3mo actuar con m\u00e1s naturalidad ante la c\u00e1mara.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cInvite them in Sheldon; open your body, and invite your audience in!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then he practices inviting the audience in by opening his arms and spreading his legs which looks hilarious, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>If you hold onto your handbag, keep your arms crossed or hold a drink right in front of you, you\u2019re sending the wrong message.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re telling everyone that you\u2019re unavailable.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>b) Mostrar las manos<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is considered to be rude if you\u2019re talking to someone, and you keep your hands in your pockets.<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, hay una raz\u00f3n para ello, y tiene mucho sentido.<\/p>\n<p>Seg\u00fan numerosas investigaciones sobre psicolog\u00eda del comportamiento, esconder las manos es un signo de indisponibilidad.<\/p>\n<p>By showing your hands, you\u2019re proving to people that you\u2019re willing to connect with them and let them reach you.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca escondas las manos en los bolsillos, debajo del escritorio o a la espalda. Da malas vibraciones y te hace poco atractivo.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>c) Sigue sonriendo<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Confidence\u2014along with a big smile\u2014are the best things a person can wear. Your smile fits you the best, and what\u2019s even better, everyone\u2019s got one.<\/p>\n<p>Cada sonrisa es \u00fanica a su manera. Prueba a sonre\u00edr a alguien y seguro que te devuelve la sonrisa.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>d) Mantener el contacto visual<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The expression \u2018The eyes are the windows to the soul\u2019 is true.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes verlo todo cuando miras a alguien a los ojos. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/que-dice-el-contacto-visual-prolongado-sobre-sus-sentimientos-hacia-ti\/\">El contacto visual prolongado puede decir mucho sobre tus sentimientos<\/a> hacia alguien.<\/p>\n<p>An honest and sincere look can show how much you care about someone. You don\u2019t even have to say a word. Your eyes will speak for you.<\/p>\n<p>Avoid looking down because it will look like you\u2019re ashamed of something or you\u2019re uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Also, while you\u2019re looking at someone, be careful not to look for too long because it will look like you\u2019re staring. Then, you\u2019ll be the weird one.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>e) Mantenerse erguido<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para parecer confiado tienes que sentirte confiado. Necesito decirte algo.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t count the number of times I\u2019ve walked past a group of people, and I was for some reason uncomfortable, probably because I knew they were looking at me.<\/p>\n<p>Ese malestar dentro de m\u00ed se ve\u00eda desde fuera.<\/p>\n<p>Mi postura era horrible. Estaba encorvado, y mis ojos miraban directamente delante de mis pies en el suelo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de mensaje estaba enviando?<\/p>\n<p>Estaba demostrando que me sent\u00eda inc\u00f3moda, que ten\u00eda cero amor propio y que mi confianza no aparec\u00eda por ninguna parte.<\/p>\n<p>Mantente erguido mientras caminas y demuestra que te sientes bien contigo mismo. No tienes nada de lo que avergonzarte.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9n la mirada al frente y la cabeza alta. Es la forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de tener confianza.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El rojo est\u00e1 de moda. V\u00edstete de rojo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115638\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atractiva con vestido rojo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-red-dress-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>V\u00edstete de rojo si de verdad quieres que alguien se fije en ti.<\/p>\n<p>Hay una escena en <em>Matriz<\/em> cuando Neo est\u00e1 siguiendo y hablando con un tipo entre la multitud de gente con trajes negros.<\/p>\n<p>Todos parecen iguales, y hay un mont\u00f3n de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>El tipo le est\u00e1 explicando a Neo c\u00f3mo la percepci\u00f3n del mundo exterior puede enga\u00f1arte y que tienes que ser precavido en todo momento.<\/p>\n<p>While he\u2019s telling him that, Neo notices a woman in a red dress in the crowd of men in black suits.<\/p>\n<p>That woman is gorgeous, and he can\u2019t take his eyes off of her. The next moment he is held at gunpoint.<\/p>\n<p>Do you see? Red is powerful and captivating. Red has a sexual appeal to it no matter who wears it &#8211; size 2 or size 8: it looks sexy all the same.<\/p>\n<p>En realidad, hubo un estudio global con participantes de diferentes culturas. El estudio trataba sobre hombres que llevaban camisas rojas o de distintos colores.<\/p>\n<p>Se pidi\u00f3 a las mujeres que eligieran al hombre m\u00e1s atractivo de la foto.<\/p>\n<p>Las fotos se tomaron en blanco y negro y, en algunas de ellas, el fondo o la camiseta se cambiaron a rojo.<\/p>\n<p>Ganaron las fotos con el color rojo.<\/p>\n<p>Las mujeres dijeron que los hombres m\u00e1s atractivos eran los que ten\u00edan el color rojo como fondo o como camisa.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed es como el color rojo es realmente poderoso.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t buy knock offs<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115639\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con estilo posando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-posing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>By wearing fakes, you\u2019re leaving a bad impression of yourself. You\u2019re actually showing everyone how lame you are.<\/p>\n<p>If you believe in yourself and you\u2019re proud to be what you are, you don\u2019t need to pretend to be someone else.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t have enough money to buy a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.suitewatches.com\/\" rel=\"noopener\">R\u00e9plica Rolex<\/a> or Gucci bag, don&#8217;t buy a copy of it.<\/p>\n<p>People don\u2019t care what you wear\u2014at least normal people don\u2019t care if you wear branded clothes or not.<\/p>\n<p>It all comes down to how you feel in your own skin. You can wear thousands of Gucci\u2019s, but it won\u2019t make you feel or look better. That\u2019s the whole point.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La voz aguda es atractiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer elegante hablando por tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/stylish-woman-talking-on-the-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno de los t\u00edpicos rasgos femeninos que excitan a un hombre es su voz aguda.<\/p>\n<p>Otra investigaci\u00f3n demostr\u00f3 que los hombres asocian una voz aguda con una criatura f\u00edsicamente m\u00e1s peque\u00f1a que ellos.<\/p>\n<p>En otras palabras, lo asocian con las mujeres, y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/17-signos-evidentes-atraccion-fisica-dos-personas\/\">inmediatamente, sienten atracci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the same way for women. Women prefer a lower and smokier voice in a man.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Arr\u00e9glate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atractiva con vestido negro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/attractive-woman-wearing-black-dress-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n\n<p>It\u2019s natural to look for a partner who looks healthy and strong.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why we are subconsciously looking for someone who takes care of their body and their looks.<\/p>\n<p>Todos buscamos a una persona que est\u00e9 bien arreglada, huela bien y est\u00e9 limpia y bien vestida.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t fall for a slob who doesn\u2019t take care of their body, right?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Luce tus curvas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mujer guapa caminando por la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/handsome-woman-walking-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Biol\u00f3gicamente hablando, cuando los hombres buscan a una persona con la que estar, est\u00e1n buscando sin saberlo a una posible pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Los humanos estamos programados as\u00ed. Nuestro principal prop\u00f3sito es crear descendencia.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why thin figures are not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-seducir-a-un-hombre\/\">lo que atrae a los hombres<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres quieren una mujer con curvas a su lado porque una figura con curvas es prueba de una buena maternidad.<\/p>\n<p>This might sound strange, but scientifically speaking, it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n se ha demostrado que las mujeres con caderas m\u00e1s curvadas son menos propensas a padecer enfermedades cardiovasculares y diabetes.<\/p>\n<p>En otras palabras, de nuevo cient\u00edficamente hablando, est\u00e1 demostrado que las mujeres con m\u00e1s curvas son m\u00e1s sanas. Adem\u00e1s, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-razones-por-las-que-a-los-chicos-les-gustan-los-culos-grandes\/\">mujeres con culos grandes<\/a> son m\u00e1s sanos e inteligentes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t wear too much makeup<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer joven caminando al aire libre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-young-woman-walking-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Las mujeres viven en la ilusi\u00f3n de que a los hombres les gusta cuando est\u00e1n completamente maquilladas.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true that red lips create sensual attraction, but too much makeup can create the opposite effect.<\/p>\n<p>Se dice que los rostros con menos maquillaje parecen m\u00e1s dignos de confianza que los rostros cubiertos de mucho maquillaje.<\/p>\n<p>This actually makes a lot of sense. By revealing your face, you\u2019re revealing your shortcomings\u2014things which you\u2019re not satisfied with.<\/p>\n<p>This only shows that you\u2019re not afraid to be who you are, and you\u2019re not ashamed of how you look.<\/p>\n<p>Think of it as completely opening yourself to the world. You\u2019re bare naked, stripped of everything. You are who you are, and it\u2019s a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you\u2019ve learned what you have to do and how you have to behave to be irresistibly attractive.<\/p>\n<p>En realidad, de lo que se trata es de ser uno mismo y no avergonzarse de ello.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115628\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-To-Be-Irresistibly-Attractive-13-Rules-To-Knock-Any-Man-Out-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo ser irresistiblemente atractivo 13 reglas para dejar boquiabierto a cualquier hombre\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-To-Be-Irresistibly-Attractive-13-Rules-To-Knock-Any-Man-Out-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-To-Be-Irresistibly-Attractive-13-Rules-To-Knock-Any-Man-Out-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-To-Be-Irresistibly-Attractive-13-Rules-To-Knock-Any-Man-Out-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you asking yourself how to be attractive? Do you think people find you attractive? Do you think there is something you should change in order to be more successful with the guys? Well, I think there are two approaches to attraction: The psychological one (the way you feel and act) and the physical one&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":115644,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35584","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-To-Be-Irresistibly-Attractive-13-Rules-To-Knock-Any-Man-Out-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. 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