{"id":35625,"date":"2020-10-17T13:26:12","date_gmt":"2020-10-17T13:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35625"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:01:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:01:34","slug":"7-cosas-inteligentes-que-hacer-despues-de-ser-victima-de-un-fantasma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-inteligentes-que-hacer-despues-de-ser-victima-de-un-fantasma\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas inteligentes que hacer despu\u00e9s de ser v\u00edctima de un fantasma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando empiezas cualquier tipo de relaci\u00f3n, especialmente una \u00edntima, esperas que ser fantasma<\/a> es lo \u00faltimo que te pasar\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Pero, por desgracia, hoy en d\u00eda ocurre muy a menudo.<\/p>\n

And the worst thing is that ghosted people often feel confused and disappointed because they don\u2019t know why it happened to them.<\/p>\n

They always think that they are the guilty ones, while, in most cases, the real guilty ones don\u2019t even think about it.<\/p>\n

Pasar por algo as\u00ed puede ser muy inc\u00f3modo, pero si sabes qu\u00e9 hacer, puede ser menos doloroso.<\/p>\n

Por eso, aqu\u00ed tienes algunos consejos que pueden ayudarte despu\u00e9s de haber sido \"ghosted\".<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think you are the guilty one<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de la gente empezar\u00e1 a pensar inmediatamente que ellos son los culpables, pero eso no es cierto.<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1s siendo v\u00edctima de un fantasma, debes saber que t\u00fa eres la v\u00edctima en todo el proceso.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t freak out and don\u2019t think that something is wrong with you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have anything to do with it. You just had bad luck to bump into someone who didn\u2019t appreciate you and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que deja de darle vueltas y sigue adelante. Cr\u00e9eme, cuanto menos pienses en ello, m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil te resultar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t change yourself<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You know that saying, \u201cOne man\u2019s trash is another man\u2019s treasure\u201d?<\/p>\n

If you weren\u2019t enough for one man and he ghosted you, it doesn\u2019t mean that something is wrong with you and that you should change.<\/p>\n

If one man doesn\u2019t like you just the way you are, it doesn\u2019t mean that another man will think the same.<\/p>\n

Hay alguien que se enamorar\u00e1 perdidamente de ti, con todas tus locuras, tus necesidades y tu sarc\u00e1stico sentido del humor.<\/p>\n

There is a man who won\u2019t try to change even a bit about you because he will love you madly.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t change yourself for a man who doesn\u2019t deserve you. Stay faithful to yourself no matter what others think.<\/p>\n

Si no est\u00e1s preparado para un cambio y \u00e9ste se produce, te echar\u00e1s much\u00edsimo de menos.<\/p>\n

Exprese sus sentimientos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando descubras que est\u00e1s siendo v\u00edctima de un fantasma, debes hablar de ello.<\/p>\n

Necesitas expresar tus sentimientos y dejar que tus mejores amigos<\/a> saber qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 pasando en tu vida.<\/p>\n

If you keep it to yourself, you will just overthink and you won\u2019t figure out why that happened to you in the end.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando lo hables con alguien cercano, ser\u00e1 mejor.<\/p>\n

You will realize that you are not the guilty one and that you shouldn\u2019t feel bad about it.<\/p>\n

Also, your friends will show you how to move on and how to get over someone who didn\u2019t even want to give himself time to get to know you better.<\/p>\n

Porque si lo hubiera hecho, nunca se habr\u00eda ido.<\/p>\n

Quemar los puentes entre los dos<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you were being ghosted and if you don\u2019t know why, the best thing you can do is to cut all ties with him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t seek any explanations because that won\u2019t make you feel better.<\/p>\n

It will just make the whole situation worse and you won\u2019t get the answers you want.<\/p>\n

Si de verdad quieres superar a alguien, deber\u00edas intentar olvidarle por completo.<\/p>\n

If he didn\u2019t want to make some effort to get to know you, then you shouldn\u2019t be desperate and chase him.<\/p>\n

No es el hombre que te merece y nunca ser\u00edas verdaderamente feliz con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, d\u00e9jalo ir antes de que te hagan m\u00e1s da\u00f1o. Cr\u00e9eme, es lo mejor que puedes hacer por ti.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9grate porque se fue<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Maybe you felt it from the first contact, but you didn\u2019t want to believe it.<\/p>\n

Maybe you felt he was never as into you as you him, but you didn\u2019t pay attention to that.<\/p>\n

Pero ahora, despu\u00e9s de que todo encajara, todo tiene sentido.<\/p>\n

Todo est\u00e1 muy claro y est\u00e1s enfadada contigo misma por no haberlo sacado de tu vida antes.<\/p>\n

But you shouldn\u2019t worry about that because it is never too late for the good things. If he left you, don\u2019t cry.Instead, be happy.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9grate porque te has salvado del dolor y la agon\u00eda. Ahora que vuelves a ser libre, disfruta de tu vida y cuida tu mente y tu cuerpo.<\/p>\n

Haz todo lo que te ayude a sentirte mejor y vive cada d\u00eda como si fuera el \u00faltimo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t overthink why it happened<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando pierdes a alguien o algo de forma inesperada, es probable que te entren ganas de pensar demasiado en por qu\u00e9 ha ocurrido.<\/p>\n

You will try to find reasons, but you won\u2019t be able to do a whole lot about it. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t ruminate on it at all because it will be only worse.<\/p>\n

If someone left you without any explanation, you shouldn\u2019t be the one to chase after him and ask why he did it.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puedes hacer en una situaci\u00f3n as\u00ed es dejarlo todo.<\/p>\n

If it mattered to them, they would stick, but obviously, they don\u2019t see themselves with you to stay and fight for what you have.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, cuando aceptes lo que pas\u00f3 y lo dejes pasar, encontrar\u00e1s por fin la paz que te mereces.<\/p>\n

Seguir adelante<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Pasar p\u00e1gina puede ser muy dif\u00edcil, pero es lo que tienes que hacer si quieres volver a ser feliz.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo porque un hombre se rindi\u00f3 contigo,<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean that you are not good enough.<\/p>\n

It just means that he was the wrong one and you should try to find someone who will look at you like you\u2019re the apple of his eye.<\/p>\n

When you finally move on, you will realize that you were holding onto something that wasn\u2019t real for so long, and because of that, you couldn\u2019t find the right one for yourself.<\/p>\n

It will be hard in the beginning, but once you experience real happiness, you will understand that good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

Una vez que dejes atr\u00e1s lo que te imped\u00eda ser feliz, te har\u00e1s el mejor regalo a ti mismo.<\/p>\n

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