{"id":3570,"date":"2019-08-16T09:43:34","date_gmt":"2019-08-16T09:43:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3570"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:02:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:02:01","slug":"13-razones-para-salir-con-una-chica-usada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-razones-para-salir-con-una-chica-usada\/","title":{"rendered":"13 razones por las que salir con una chica acostumbrada a estar sola es todo un reto"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Tiene un fuerte sentido de la identidad. <\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Sabe qui\u00e9n es y sabe lo que quiere en su pareja. Sabe perfectamente con qu\u00e9 tipo de persona podr\u00eda llevarse bien y qu\u00e9 persona le har\u00eda desear mudar de piel y quedarse para siempre en su espacio seguro.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. She has a greater purpose that must be attended to first\u2014one that love would distract her from. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

She strongly believes there are some missions in life she first needs to fulfil and that she can only meet those successfully if she is on her own. So, if she has something going on for her, you\u2019ll just end up \u2018on hold\u2019 for a while.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. No se conformar\u00e1 con nada menos que el amor del alma gemela.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

If she is choosing somebody to let in, he most certainly won\u2019t be just a fling. Adding to this, your intentions need to be sincere. <\/span><\/p>\n

Otro Ahole no es bienvenido. <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019s probably been on her own a long time because some guy out there treated her badly. Somebody out there made her feel like she\u2019s better on her own than with somebody else. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

4. No le gusta el juego.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

And she\u2019ll never be a part of one. She wants a genuine person that will have all their cards on the table with her. <\/span><\/p>\n

She needs to know you\u2019re honest and you won\u2019t play games with her because she doesn\u2019t see the purpose in it. She\u2019s a grown-ass woman and therefore, she\u2019s looking for somebody who\u2019ll treat her as such.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Su nivel de exigencia es alt\u00edsimo.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Just because she has been on her own for too long doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019ll settle for anything or just anybody. She expects a lot from herself and therefore, she expects a lot from her partner as well. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t want to put an effort and meet her expectations, don\u2019t even bother. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. She isn\u2019t sure if she can trust you.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s a result of her past and there is nothing you can do to avoid it. You\u2019re going to need to pass her test and you\u2019ll need to prove to her that you\u2019re not the one that hurt her. <\/span><\/p>\n

She looks at the world through her familiar glasses and it\u2019s been proven to her one too many times before that she can\u2019t trust people. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. She probably thinks she doesn\u2019t need you.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Puedo hacerlo solo. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

No, I don\u2019t need your help.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m fine. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll hear plenty of this. It\u2019s just that she\u2019s used to being on her own and she forgot how it feels to have somebody else next to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you\u2019ll have variations of the sentences above. It\u2019s your task to make her comfortable about relying on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Estar sola es su espacio seguro.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

She\u2019s saved herself so many times by just staying home alone, lighting the candles, and pouring herself a glass of wine, replaying the bad things that happened to her while trying to convince herself it\u2019s ok to let go of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being alone is what saves her and being alone is what makes her strong\u2014don\u2019t even bother trying to take that away from her.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

9. Es fuerte.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Because strong is the only option she has ever had. When you\u2019re on your own for that long, there is nobody else to pick up your own pieces and if you\u2019re not strong enough, then there is a  great fear you might end up miserable. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being miserable was never an option for her. That\u2019s why she\u2019s her own hero. <\/span><\/p>\n

10. You\u2019re going to struggle with her letting you in.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

To give up on her safety, to invite you to her personal space is such a step out of her comfort zone. She\u2019s one of the rare girls that has everything working on her own. <\/span><\/p>\n

The moment you get a chance, you\u2019ll know how amazing a person you are because she doesn\u2019t let anybody in just like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Puede ser rara por momentos.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

She\u2019s super funny and her friends adore her. She\u2019ll be absolutely breath-taking when she is around you as well until the moment she spots you want something more. <\/span><\/p>\n

She forgot what it is like to have a man next to her and she doesn\u2019t quite know how to behave, partly because she forgot how to function in a pair and partly because she\u2019s scared of how much she likes you. If you\u2019re not her type, you won\u2019t move her, but if she likes you, it\u2019s going to be freaking obvious. <\/span><\/p>\n

12. Podr\u00eda intentar escapar.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

She\u2019s pretty confident about herself, but she may not be confident about the two of you together. Her feelings might frighten her\u2014the possibility that you\u2019ll leave her broken-hearted scares her, and she might try to run away and shut you out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your task is not to let her do that. Your task is to prove to her that history won\u2019t repeat itself. <\/span><\/p>\n

13. Lo que tienes que ofrecer tiene que ser mejor que la vida que ella se ha creado.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

She doesn\u2019t need your money and she most certainly doesn\u2019t need anything materialistic from you. She has been on her own and she has things going for her. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t buy her. But you can make her want you with her. She will probably think she doesn\u2019t need you and in most cases that\u2019ll be the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

But when she chooses you, that\u2019ll be because she wants you. And the only way to make her want you is to make her feel special around you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Spoil her with your love, give her your time, and make an effort for the two of you and she\u2019ll pay you twice as back.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Bonus: Ella valdr\u00e1 tanto la pena.<\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Since you can\u2019t really use the normal techniques of seducing her, you won\u2019t get an ordinary girl. What you will get will be far more valuable than that. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get yourself an extraordinary girl. The one that will, once you\u2019ve knocked down all her walls, care for you, give you her time and attention, and the one that will love you unconditionally. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everything that you give to her, she\u2019ll make sure you get back\u2014just a bit more. <\/span><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t bother playing games, she won\u2019t give you jealousy scenes, and she won\u2019t ask the impossible of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get yourself a grown-ass woman and a one of a kind. She knows her worth and she knows yours as well. The catch is, you\u2019ll only get a higher value in your life having her next to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que sea un reto, pero merece la pena. <\/span><\/p>\n

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