{"id":35733,"date":"2020-04-19T12:28:37","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:28:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35733"},"modified":"2021-12-06T16:09:47","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T16:09:47","slug":"9-razones-por-las-que-una-relacion-no-funcionara-aunque-tus-sentimientos-sean-reales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-razones-por-las-que-una-relacion-no-funcionara-aunque-tus-sentimientos-sean-reales\/","title":{"rendered":"9 razones por las que una relaci\u00f3n no funcionar\u00e1, aunque tus sentimientos sean reales"},"content":{"rendered":"

Odiamos o\u00edrlo, odiamos admitirlo ante nosotros mismos, pero lamentablemente a veces el amor no es suficiente para que una relaci\u00f3n dure.<\/p>\n

Sure, it\u2019s essential, but it\u2019s just a part of the puzzle. There are other crucial puzzle pieces that have to fit together to form the bigger picture.<\/p>\n

What we usually forget is the most obvious thing there is that love takes two \u2013 two people making efforts, investing equally, and meeting each other halfway.<\/p>\n

Fracasamos en nuestras relaciones cada vez que empezamos a pensar que amamos tan profundamente que ser\u00e1 suficiente para dos.<\/p>\n

It never is. It\u2019s always missing something.<\/p>\n

Take a look at the 9 most common reasons your relationship won\u2019t work, even if your feelings are real:<\/p>\n

Sus planes de futuro no son los mismos<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t see himself getting married. You can\u2019t imagine yourself living in the countryside.<\/p>\n

One of you doesn\u2019t want to have children and other can\u2019t imagine a future without them.  <\/p>\n

And no matter how strongly you feel for each other, you will at one point have to face the fact that you will be miserable if you sign up for a life you don\u2019t really want.<\/p>\n

There are trust issues that can\u2019t be solved<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Todos sabemos que las relaciones son insostenibles si hay ninguna confianza<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Yet sometimes we try and do our best to restore that trust, to make things work, because we care so much and don\u2019t want to let go.<\/p>\n

If someone betrayed us or in any way made us doubt them, that seed of doubt will be implanted permanently and you won\u2019t be able to get rid of it.<\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano, ver\u00e1s que no hay otra opci\u00f3n que romper.<\/p>\n

His family doesn\u2019t accept you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is a really difficult pill to swallow because it actually doesn\u2019t have anything to do with the two of you or your love, but it\u2019s ruining your relationship anyway.<\/p>\n

Hay algunas madres, por ejemplo, que piensan que nadie es lo bastante bueno para sus hijos.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n hay situaciones en las que algunos miembros de la familia quieren hacerte parecer una mala persona y ejemplos similares de intromisi\u00f3n familiar innecesaria.<\/p>\n

If he is close and attached to his family and he can\u2019t stand up to them when they mistreat you or silence them when they start filling his head with nonsense, it\u2019s only a matter of time before they manage to drive the two of you apart.<\/p>\n

Cada d\u00eda es m\u00e1s dram\u00e1tico que el anterior<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Rezas por una relaci\u00f3n sin dramas, pero parece imposible.<\/p>\n

You and your partner are on each other\u2019s case 24\/7 and you always find new things to argue about or at least discuss at great length.<\/p>\n

You can’t remember the last time you had a whole week of peace and harmony.  <\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de uno o dos d\u00edas tranquilos, irrumpen las tormentas y en general est\u00e1s m\u00e1s triste que feliz.<\/p>\n

A pesar de todo el amor y la innegable atracci\u00f3n que probablemente compart\u00eds, simplemente no sois compatibles.<\/p>\n

No sois capaces de poneros de acuerdo y probablemente no haya ninguna posibilidad de que lo hag\u00e1is nunca.<\/p>\n

\u201cIs he really my forever person?\u201d is echoing in your head<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There are some things that aren\u2019t working in your relationship, no matter how hard you try or how much you invest.<\/p>\n

Sientes que todo viene de tu lado y que la otra persona no participa activamente.<\/p>\n

You love, but you don\u2019t know if you are loved back the same way and it\u2019s killing you bit by bit.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you find yourself unable to shake off the feeling that something better might be out there.<\/p>\n

Trust your gut. The thing with a forever person is that you don\u2019t have to wonder, you know.<\/p>\n

No todo tiene que ser perfecto, pero lo que marca la diferencia son dos personas que quieren permanecer juntas y se aman sin cesar.<\/p>\n

Eres incapaz de salvar la distancia f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las relaciones pueden ser duras. Relaciones a distancia<\/a> puede ser a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s extremely difficult to maintain a relationship when you are not living in the same city, state, or even continent.<\/p>\n

Si no est\u00e1is haciendo planes para vivir en el mismo sitio alg\u00fan d\u00eda, si ninguno de vosotros est\u00e1 preparado para mudarse, entonces s\u00f3lo est\u00e1is retrasando lo inevitable.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t be a long distance couple forever, now can you?<\/p>\n

La lujuria es un concepto desconocido en tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En alg\u00fan momento, tensiones sexuales<\/a> ceased to exist and now you are nothing more than two friends sharing the apartment or keeping each other from singledom. That’s just not the real deal.<\/p>\n

El otro escenario posible es que entablaras una relaci\u00f3n porque desarrollaste fuertes sentimientos de amistad hacia cierta persona y pensaste que esa chispa se encender\u00eda m\u00e1s adelante.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sorry to break it to you, but it never will.<\/p>\n

La qu\u00edmica, la lujuria, la atracci\u00f3n y el sexo son lo que separa una relaci\u00f3n de una amistad y, aunque no son los componentes m\u00e1s importantes, desempe\u00f1an un gran papel.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 celoso<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I believe that there is a healthy dose of jealousy in every relationship and that\u2019s more than okay.<\/p>\n

A veces puede ser incluso halagador. Pero una vez que se cruza ese l\u00edmite saludable, una relaci\u00f3n puede parecerse mucho al infierno.<\/p>\n

If your partner wants to know your every move, gets angry every time you speak with someone of the opposite sex, accuses you of cheating for no good reason, it\u2019s safe to say that he is overly jealous and that he will mentally suffocate you.  <\/p>\n

Es abusivo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No hace falta decir que se trata de una relaci\u00f3n malsana y que deber\u00edas salir de ella cuanto antes si alguna vez te encuentras en algo que sea de alg\u00fan modo abusivo.<\/p>\n

O\u00edmos a muchas mujeres decir que aman a su agresor a pesar de todo el da\u00f1o mental o f\u00edsico que les inflige.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s really hard to romper ese v\u00ednculo malsano <\/a>sienten, pero cuanto antes mejor.<\/p>\n

El amor verdadero nunca te har\u00e1 da\u00f1o de ninguna manera; todo lo dem\u00e1s es mentira.<\/p>\n

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