{"id":35737,"date":"2020-04-19T12:40:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-19T12:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35737"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:39:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:39:09","slug":"no-te-cases-hasta-que-sepas-estas-5-cosas-sobre-tu-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-cases-hasta-que-sepas-estas-5-cosas-sobre-tu-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a1No te cases hasta que sepas estas 5 cosas sobre tu pareja!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you deeply love someone and your love is reciprocated, there\u2019s nothing greater in the world than the feeling of becoming one and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-excusas-que-ponen-los-hombres-cuando-no-se-sienten-preparados-para-casarse\/\">casarse<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pero precipitarse en el matrimonio antes de hacerse algunas preguntas cruciales puede no resultar positivo, por mucho que se quieran.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of whether you\u2019ve been dating for quite a long time now or if you\u2019ve been together for years, there are some important questions that you need to ask yourself in order to be ready to tie the knot!<\/p>\n<p>You see, making a vow is a great responsibility toward yourself and your partner and in order for your marriage to blossom and to reach the ultimate happiness, you need to ask yourself if you\u2019re both ready to sacrifice, fight the tough moments and never give up, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>To be one hundred percent sure that you\u2019re both ready to tie the knot, here is a list of 5 things that you need to know about your partner before deciding to get married!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Su opini\u00f3n sobre tener hijos (y cu\u00e1ntos)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93456\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz acurrucada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-couple-cuddling-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Having children is no longer a \u2018prerequisite\u2019 like it was in olden times but many people do not foresee the fact that not everyone is interested in having children after getting married.<\/p>\n<p>Se olvidan de preguntar a su pareja sobre su opini\u00f3n respecto a tener hijos porque ya dan por hecho que probablemente est\u00e9 interesada en hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Or they talk to their partner about it but forget to ask about the number of children, which again might result in disagreeing (when it\u2019s kind of too late).<\/p>\n<p>Para evitar cualquier tipo de decepci\u00f3n en el futuro, siempre es una buena idea hablar abiertamente de estas cosas con tu pareja y pedirle que te lo confirme una vez m\u00e1s si es necesario.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not on the same page regarding having children, you might break your vows sooner than you thought because your marriage won\u2019t be as you\u2019ve imagined it, so never forget to discuss this with your partner!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Su situaci\u00f3n financiera<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja joven tomando caf\u00e9 y charlando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Piensa en todas esas escenas de las pel\u00edculas en las que las parejas de reci\u00e9n casados se pelean y discuten por dinero.<\/p>\n<p>En efecto, se trata de una dura realidad.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not familiar with how your partner behaves regarding their finances, your marriage could easily turn into a nightmare.<\/p>\n<p>Necesita saber si su pareja es razonable con el dinero y si tiene alguna deuda que pueda afectar mucho a su matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>And even if you know that your partner is financially secure and can afford to spend lots of money (on unnecessary things), you should never come to the conclusion that you\u2019re pretty much safe with them.<\/p>\n<p>Su situaci\u00f3n financiera podr\u00eda ir cuesta abajo en un mes y todos los sue\u00f1os de su brillante <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-reveladoras-de-que-ve-un-futuro-contigo\/\">futuro juntos<\/a> con \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n<p>Piensa siempre de forma racional cuando se trate de finanzas.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca prestes atenci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo a la cantidad de dinero que tienen, sino a c\u00f3mo lo manejan, \u00a1porque esto te ahorrar\u00e1 mucho dolor en tu vida en com\u00fan!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C\u00f3mo tratan a los dem\u00e1s (familia, extra\u00f1os, ex)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dos amigos sentados en el banco y hablando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/two-friends-sitting-on-the-bench-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do they hold grudges with a particular family member or their ex? Are they rude to strangers, bartenders and others that they don\u2019t know?<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3mo tratan a los dem\u00e1s es una de las cosas m\u00e1s importantes a las que sin duda querr\u00e1s prestar atenci\u00f3n porque su comportamiento se reflejar\u00e1 tambi\u00e9n en vuestra futura vida en com\u00fan.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to how they interact with their family, so that you\u2019re familiar with any potential drama.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, debes observar su comportamiento cuando hablan de sus ex.<\/p>\n<p>Si tratan a todas sus ex con respeto, tambi\u00e9n te tratar\u00e1n a ti de la misma manera.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si constantemente balbucean cosas malas sobre ellos, significa que son emocionalmente inmaduros y que a\u00fan necesitan tiempo para entrar en contacto con sus sentimientos y su yo interior.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sus preferencias en cuanto a la intimidad f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93459\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja bes\u00e1ndose en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-couple-kissing-in-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La verdadera intimidad f\u00edsica con tu pareja es como la chispa de tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras os toqu\u00e9is y os apreci\u00e9is mental y f\u00edsicamente, vuestro matrimonio ser\u00e1 la encarnaci\u00f3n de la felicidad.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t get me wrong. This is not only concerned with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/13-signs-you-are-not-just-having-sex-you-are-making-love\/\">hacer el amor con su pareja<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Engloba todas esas peque\u00f1as cosas que hac\u00e9is y gestos que os hac\u00e9is el uno al otro, como cogeros de la mano, abrazaros por la espalda, besaros antes de separaros, tocaros los dedos de los pies cuando est\u00e1is en la cama y cosas similares.<\/p>\n<p>Debes saber qu\u00e9 tipo de contacto f\u00edsico hace feliz a tu pareja y esperar que \u00e9l sepa lo mismo y act\u00fae en consecuencia.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage requires hard work and you need to make sure that your partner is willing to \u2018cooperate\u2019 and make an effort to please you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C\u00f3mo manejan las situaciones dif\u00edciles<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio abrazando a mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-hugging-woman-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos nos enfrentamos a momentos dif\u00edciles en alg\u00fan momento y todos los afrontamos de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>But when you\u2019re married to someone, there is no room for acting irresponsibly or childishly in difficult situations.<\/p>\n<p>So, you need to pay attention to how your partner is behaving when he\u2019s in trouble or in a stressful situation with his job, personal life, family or similar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSe aparta e ignora el problema o lo afronta con valent\u00eda y empieza inmediatamente a buscarle soluciones?<\/p>\n<p>If he seems to \u2018shit his pants\u2019 when he has to make a difficult decision or deal with something stressful, this is neither a good sign nor a desirable quality when it comes to marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que estar cien por cien segura de que tu pareja est\u00e1 emocional y f\u00edsicamente preparada para enfrentarse a las m\u00faltiples barreras que os pod\u00e9is encontrar en vuestra vida en com\u00fan y de que siempre puedes contar con \u00e9l, \u00a1porque \u00e9se es el \u00fanico camino hacia un matrimonio sano y exitoso, lleno de bendiciones!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"\u00a1No te cases hasta que sepas estas 5 cosas sobre tu pareja!\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00a1No te cases hasta que sepas estas 5 cosas sobre tu pareja!\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you deeply love someone and your love is reciprocated, there\u2019s nothing greater in the world than the feeling of becoming one and getting married. But rushing into marriage before asking yourself some crucial questions might not result positively, no matter how much you love each other. Regardless of whether you\u2019ve been dating for quite&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":93461,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35737","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Dont-Get-Married-Until-You-Know-These-5-Things-About-Your-Partner.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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