{"id":35796,"date":"2020-05-22T10:13:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-22T10:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35796"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:49:50","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:49:50","slug":"7-tipos-de-mensajes-que-enviar-a-tu-ex-para-recuperarlo-con-ejemplos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-tipos-de-mensajes-que-enviar-a-tu-ex-para-recuperarlo-con-ejemplos\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tipos de mensajes para recuperar a tu ex (con ejemplos)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfAlguna vez te has preguntado c\u00f3mo recuperar a tu ex utilizando el poder de los mensajes de texto?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it is possible but only if you do it right (don\u2019t worry; the most difficult part will be covered by me!).<\/p>\n<p><strong>The reason why text messages are the best \u2018weapon\u2019 when it comes to getting your ex back is that they have the perfect amount of ambiguity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, if you call your ex all of a sudden, he might think that you need something (which doesn\u2019t have anything to do with you wanting him back) or if you send him an email it will probably end up without any chance of developing a meaningful conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si le env\u00edas mensajes de texto espec\u00edficamente dise\u00f1ados para intrigarle pero que no confirmen tus verdaderas intenciones, conseguir\u00e1s captar su atenci\u00f3n y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/los-hombres-se-vuelven-locos-por-las-mujeres-que-hacen-estas-5-pequenas-cosas\/\">hacer que vuelva a sentirse atra\u00eddo por ti<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>El acento se pone en <strong>\u2018specifically-designed text messages\u2019<\/strong> porque si le env\u00edas a tu ex cualquier cosa, no obtendr\u00e1s los mismos resultados (probablemente fracasar\u00e1s en tu intento de recuperarle).<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-ex-quiere-volver-desesperadamente\/\">10 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que tu ex quiere volver contigo (pero no lo admite)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84273\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sosteniendo su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si env\u00edas mensajes necesitados como, <em>\u201cHey, I still have feelings for you. Please come back to me!\u201d<\/em> s\u00f3lo lo apagar\u00e1 y no estar\u00e1 interesado en devolverte el mensaje.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que nunca debes enviar nada que est\u00e9 estrechamente relacionado con estar necesitado, enfadado, juzgar o desesperado.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9jate de todo tipo de textos negativos y c\u00e9ntrate s\u00f3lo en los siguientes.<\/p>\n<p>Qui\u00e9n sabe, tal vez <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-evidentes-de-que-tu-ex-finge-haberte-olvidado\/\">tu ex finge que te ha superado<\/a> the same way you&#8217;re pretending to be over him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7 TIPOS DE MENSAJES PARA ENVIAR A TU EX <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/15-poderosas-maneras-de-hacer-que-te-quiera-de-nuevo-en-poco-tiempo\/\">PARA RECUPERARLO<\/a> (CON EJEMPLOS)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Como puede ver, los siguientes tipos de mensajes de texto se dividen en 7 categor\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>The first four are like \u2018ice-breakers\u2019 if you have had no contact with your ex since when you separated.<\/p>\n<p>Y los tres \u00faltimos son para crear atracci\u00f3n y profundizar en tus conversaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Puede saltarse estas categor\u00edas en funci\u00f3n de su situaci\u00f3n actual.<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/signos-ex-quiere-volver-desesperadamente\/\">10 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que tu ex quiere volver contigo (pero no lo admite)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El texto de la memoria<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84275\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"una joven feliz tecleando en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Como su nombre indica, los mensajes de texto de recuerdo consisten en hacer saber a tu ex que algo te ha recordado a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Puede ser una serie de televisi\u00f3n, una situaci\u00f3n de la vida real o cualquier otra cosa que se te ocurra.<\/p>\n<p>La clave es no darle la impresi\u00f3n de que le necesitas desesperadamente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo: &nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, I was just walking down the (St. Johns) street and came across a new (Chinese) restaurant. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>It instantly reminded me of you when you told me how much you liked their (specific food). Anyways, how have you been?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El texto del consejo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84274\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer mira hacia abajo y teclea en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-looks-down-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La forma m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil de iniciar el contacto con tu ex es pedirle consejo y ayuda con algo.<\/p>\n<p>Regarding this, you need to find something that he is really good at so that he doesn\u2019t realize that you\u2019re just fooling around with him.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que encontrar algo que le interese y le har\u00e1s sentirse como un superh\u00e9roe, lo que le acercar\u00e1 instant\u00e1neamente a ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, my nephew has difficulty with this weird math problem and none of us could solve it. Can I ask you about it?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If he says yes (and he most definitely will), always remember to thank him after he finishes it and you may as well add again that famous question, \u201c<em>How have you been?\u201d<\/em> para iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n significativa con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/texto-de-12-palabras-para-recuperarlo\/\">Texto de 12 palabras para reconquistarle: 10 maneras de usarlo + ejemplos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El texto del elefante en la habitaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84276\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con chaqueta y bufanda marr\u00f3n escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-wearing-jacket-and-brown-scarf-typing-on-her-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si terminasteis vuestra relaci\u00f3n en malos t\u00e9rminos, es decir, si t\u00fa o tu ex enga\u00f1asteis al otro, si actuasteis de forma necesitada o cometisteis muchos errores que os impidieron terminar las cosas pac\u00edficamente, entonces tienes que reconocer el elefante en la habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Resumiendo, tienes que hacer borr\u00f3n y cuenta nueva y puedes hacerlo de la siguiente manera.<\/p>\n<p>First, you have to apologize for whatever happened during the break-up, acknowledge that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-senales-de-que-aun-no-has-aceptado-tu-ruptura\/\">acept\u00f3 la ruptura<\/a> (that you\u2019re over it) and you need to reassure him that you\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI\u2019m so sorry that we needed to end things like that. I wanted you to know that I\u2019ve accepted things as they are and I\u2019m over everything bad that happened. I\u2019ve realized that I was needy and I started working on myself.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Un texto de cumplea\u00f1os<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84277\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"chica feliz mirando su tel\u00e9fono en el caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/happy-girl-looking-at-her-phone-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata de enviar un mensaje de texto a tu ex en su cumplea\u00f1os, siempre es mejor que sea corto, directo y sin palabras innecesarias que puedan darle una impresi\u00f3n equivocada. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante que debes recordar es que nunca debes utilizar un mensaje de cumplea\u00f1os para expresar tus emociones o hablar de tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>It should only include parts that are relevant to the occasion, which is enough to let your ex know that you think of him but you\u2019re not desperate or needy for him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHey, happy birthday! I hope you have a great year ahead.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Texto de atracci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84278\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente con camisa de cuadros y apoyada en el suelo de madera y tecleando en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-woman-wearing-plaid-shirt-and-leaning-on-wooden-floor-and-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve initiated a conversation for the first time, you have to then work on rebuilding the attraction using text messages.<\/p>\n<p>Para ello, hay que prestar atenci\u00f3n a sus preferencias, su personalidad y lo que realmente le interesa.<\/p>\n<p>Desea concebir el mensaje de texto perfecto que contenga todos los elementos cruciales para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-ways-to-make-him-stick-to-you-like-glue\/\">despertando su inter\u00e9s por ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ejemplos: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si es m\u00e1s introvertido, env\u00edale un mensaje como \u00e9ste:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI went to my aunt\u2019s place yesterday. I played with her birds, we played hide and seek in the forest (along with my little nephew) and later she read us some amazing horror stories. It was perfect and I wish you had been there.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, si es m\u00e1s bien extrovertido, le convendr\u00eda enviar algo m\u00e1s parecido a esto:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cI just went to this crazy party last night with my friends and it was totally amazing! I wish you had been there with me\/us!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Texto de conexi\u00f3n y confianza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84281\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"joven escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-typing-on-her-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lleva mucho tiempo reconstruir la conexi\u00f3n y la confianza con tu ex y envi\u00e1ndole mensajes de texto que le aseguren tus puras intenciones tendr\u00e1s la mitad del trabajo hecho.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 sincera con \u00e9l y dile c\u00f3mo son las cosas realmente, \u00a1porque es la \u00fanica forma de recuperarle!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHonestly, a part of me still wants you back but I\u2019m okay with whatever happens. I understand why we broke up and I\u2019ve learned so much from it. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I\u2019ve realized that it is kind of good that it happened because now I am able to see things differently. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I feel good right now and I\u2019m texting you just because I miss being in touch with you. I\u2019m just interested in seeing what happens.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pedirle salir texto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84280\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con smartphone y vaso de zumo sentada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-glass-of-juice-while-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve gone through all of the previous steps and types of text messages and now you\u2019re texting or speaking to him regularly, it is finally time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-pedirle-a-un-chico-que-sea-tu-novio-10-maneras-de-hacerlo\/\">invita a salir a tu ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But remember to proceed with this type of text message only if you\u2019ve received all positive answers to your previous ones.<\/p>\n<p>La mejor manera de invitar a salir a tu ex es, de nuevo, ir al grano.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to make a big deal out of it and you don\u2019t want to pressure him.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here is the perfect way to ask him out: \u201c<em>Hey, I\u2019ll be in (area near your ex\u2019s place or office) tomorrow, you wanna catch up for coffee?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Si parece indeciso, vuelve a tranquilizarle dici\u00e9ndole que es s\u00f3lo un caf\u00e9 y un simple encuentro (no tiene nada que ver con una cita de verdad).<\/p>\n<p>And when he realizes how much he enjoys your company, he might as well ask you out next time\u2014on a real, official date!<\/p>\n<p>Relacionado: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-vengarse-de-su-ex-12-maneras-probadas-de-hacerlo\/\">C\u00f3mo vengarte de tu ex: 12 maneras probadas de hacerlo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84271\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 tipos de mensajes para recuperar a tu ex (con ejemplos)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever wondered how to get your ex back by using the power of text messages? Well, it is possible but only if you do it right (don\u2019t worry; the most difficult part will be covered by me!). The reason why text messages are the best \u2018weapon\u2019 when it comes to getting your ex back is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":84272,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/7-Types-Of-Texts-To-Send-Your-Ex-To-Get-Him-Back-With-Examples.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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