{"id":35817,"date":"2021-04-23T07:12:32","date_gmt":"2021-04-23T07:12:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35817"},"modified":"2021-11-05T11:34:02","modified_gmt":"2021-11-05T11:34:02","slug":"como-dejar-de-preocuparse-por-alguien-15-sencillos-pasos-a-seguir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-de-preocuparse-por-alguien-15-sencillos-pasos-a-seguir\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo dejar de preocuparse por alguien: 20 sencillos pasos a seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Admitirse a uno mismo que la persona por la que sientes algo muy fuerte no te corresponde es devastador y dif\u00edcil de conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, lo que es a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil es intentar averiguar c\u00f3mo dejar de preocuparte por alguien a quien m\u00e1s quieres pero tambi\u00e9n saber que esa persona <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/salir-con-alguien-a-quien-no-le-importas-un-bledo\/\">doesn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Being aware that someone you\u2019d move mountains for you wouldn\u2019t lift a finger for your sake provokes a wide spectrum of emotions in a person.<\/p>\n<p>Dale un giro a tu deprimente situaci\u00f3n y haz que esta vez se obsesione contigo: <a href=\"https:\/\/380e3wdrm-9u3ye0o42qqlx985.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" rel=\"noopener\">PULSE AQU\u00cd<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019re angry, then you can\u2019t help but wonder why you aren\u2019t enough for them to love you back, then you try to fight for their love until finally, you come to terms with the harsh truth and understand that the only real option you have is to force yourself to stop caring about that person, one way or another.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter how much time you\u2019ve spent with this person \u2013 whether the two of you were ever in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/objetivos-reales-de-una-relacion\/\">una relaci\u00f3n real<\/a> or they are just someone you love from a safe distance \u2013 the bottom line is the same: <b><i>throwing out someone from your heart and kicking them out of your system is never easy and there\u2019s always pain involved.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>However, even though you probably don\u2019t believe it now, there are effective ways to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Just follow this step-by-step guide and I assure you that you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/6-senales-de-que-te-estas-desenamorando\/\">desenamorarse de esta persona<\/a> antes de lo que imaginas.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo dejar de preocuparte por alguien que te ha hecho da\u00f1o?<\/h2>\n<p><a style=\"background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/415e44gu7rjz2xcgnv51v01t88.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-115551 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Text-Chemistry-1-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Text-Chemistry-1-5.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Text-Chemistry-1-5-300x157.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Text-Chemistry-1-5-1024x536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Text-Chemistry-1-5-768x402.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Text-Chemistry-1-5-150x79.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a>The most important thing to do when you&#8217;re trying to forget or stop caring about someone who hurt you is to surround yourself with positivity. That is to surround yourself only with those people who spread <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/senales-de-baja-y-alta-vibracion-y-como-elevar-las-vibraciones-positivas\/\">vibraciones positivas y elevadas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>El siguiente paso es sentarte y tener una charla profunda y sincera contigo mismo. Recu\u00e9rdate todo el dolor que te caus\u00f3 esa persona y todo lo que tuviste que pasar por su culpa.<\/p>\n<p>You have to understand that it&#8217;s high time to start thinking about yourself and your own well-being. Your suffering is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/10-senales-de-advertencia-de-que-su-pareja-esta-arruinando-su-salud-mental\/\">da\u00f1ar su salud mental <\/a>even more than you&#8217;re aware of.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t hide your scars or pretend like they don&#8217;t exist. Instead, you should count each and every one of them and be proud of yourself because you were strong enough to endure it all and survive.<\/p>\n<p>Esas cicatrices son tus aliadas en esta lucha. Te seguir\u00e1n recordando que no tiene sentido cuidar de alguien que nunca supo corresponder a tus sentimientos y que no hizo m\u00e1s que herirte. Te motivar\u00e1n a centrarte en una de las cosas m\u00e1s significativas de la vida: el amor propio.<\/p>\n<p>I know you&#8217;re probably thinking that this is easier said than done, but trust me, with this guide it&#8217;ll be as easy to do it as it is to say that you don&#8217;t care about someone you truly loved anymore.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Aceptar la realidad<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78594 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-1.jpg\" alt=\"chica joven sentada en la barra de un caf\u00e9 y mirando la pantalla del tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re trying to unlove a person you had a labeled romantic relationship with or a person who was never truly yours, if you\u2019re wondering how and when to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/el-tiempo-deja-de-importar-a-uno-no-le-importa\/\">stop caring about someone who doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a>El primer paso es siempre mirar la verdad directamente a los ojos y hacer todo lo posible por aceptarla.<\/p>\n<p><b>Whatever you had with this person has reached its end and they aren\u2019t coming back, as much as you\u2019d like them to.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So instead of trying to win them back over, instead of wasting your energy on trying to make them love you, save your dignity and force yourself to recognize the signs and accept the fact that they don\u2019t care for you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow yourself to get your hopes up or to settle for some non-existing clues of their feelings \u2013 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/no-te-quiere-2\/\">this person doesn\u2019t love you<\/a> and it\u2019s about time you stop holding a place in your heart for them.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Recon\u00f3cete a ti mismo tus sentimientos<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78608 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste recostando la cabeza en el sof\u00e1 del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-lying-her-head-on-sofa-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-tiempo-deja-de-importar-a-uno-no-le-importa\/\">deja de preocuparte<\/a> for your ex-boyfriend\/girlfriend, you\u2019ll have to be ready for a lot of introspection and self-questioning.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ante todo, admite tus sentimientos porque el autoenga\u00f1o no te llevar\u00e1 a ninguna parte.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Accept that you care for this person and that your love is unrequited. You&#8217;re a human being and that makes you an emotional creature, so you need to accept that you\u2019re suffering and don\u2019t ever be ashamed of your pain.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s easier, write your emotions down. This way, you\u2019ll visualize them better and you\u2019ll know exactly what you\u2019re fighting against.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">But don\u2019t let them overwhelm you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78599 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-young-blonde-thoughtful-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de mujer joven rubia pensativa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-young-blonde-thoughtful-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-young-blonde-thoughtful-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/side-view-of-young-blonde-thoughtful-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/el-dolor-no-define\/\">dolor para definirte<\/a> o para apoderarse de ti por completo.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you\u2019ve been going through a rough patch for some time now, but you\u2019re much more than just a heartbroken person.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t allow yourself to sink in the pain completely and for everything you\u2019re going through to be the only thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t let your <\/b><b>sentimientos negativos<\/b><b> chuparte la vida a ti y a tu <\/b><b>desamor<\/b><b> para convertirte en una persona completamente diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you\u2019re hurt, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/10-maneras-efectivas-de-dejar-ir-la-negatividad\/\">dejar que esas emociones negativas<\/a> te impiden sentirte feliz de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n<p>Aprecia esos escasos momentos de felicidad y esfu\u00e9rzate por que sean los que m\u00e1s te consuman.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Inhala positividad, exhala negatividad<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78607 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/sad-woman-looking-at-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I get that your emotions are all over the place right now. You&#8217;re riding on a real emotional rollercoaster and you probably think that your ride is never going to end.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re still in love with a girl\/guy who stabbed you in the back. It&#8217;s completely natural that it provokes so many negative feelings.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re angry at them because they&#8217;ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/traicionados-por-quien-juraron-que-nunca-lo-harian\/\">traicion\u00f3 tu amor<\/a> and your trust. And you&#8217;re even angrier, actually, you&#8217;re probably furious at yourself because you keep loving them and don&#8217;t know how to stop, or will you ever be able to stop caring for them.<\/p>\n<p><b>That&#8217;s all perfectly normal, BUT, you need to find a way to let all that negativity out. You need to focus on your emotional and <\/b><b>salud mental<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Haz ejercicio, medita o haz lo que creas que puede relajarte. Y, lo m\u00e1s importante, respira. Encuentra tu paz interior. Lib\u00e9rate de todas esas emociones que no hacen m\u00e1s que agobiarte.<\/p>\n<p><i>La conclusi\u00f3n es que hay que desprenderse de la <\/i><i>emociones negativas<\/i><i> causado por desagradables <\/i><i>experiencias pasadas<\/i><i> para crear <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/por-la-solteria-y-la-magia-de-los-nuevos-comienzos\/\"><i>nuevos comienzos positivos<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Recuerda que todo esto forma parte de la vida<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78600 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-sitting-alone-on-swing-in-front-of-sea.jpg\" alt=\"silueta de mujer sentada sola en columpio frente al mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-sitting-alone-on-swing-in-front-of-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-sitting-alone-on-swing-in-front-of-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/silhouette-of-woman-sitting-alone-on-swing-in-front-of-sea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Aunque suene duro,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/asi-es-como-me-recupere-del-desamor-que-casi-me-mata\/\"> rompecorazones <\/a>are a part of life and something we\u2019ve all been through at some point.<\/p>\n<p>After all, this is not the first time you\u2019re feeling this way and, I assure you, it won\u2019t be the last either.<\/p>\n<p><b>The person you love has the right not to love you back and you can\u2019t make them feel any differently.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>At the same time, you don\u2019t have the right to be angry at someone for not giving you the emotions you expect to get from them.<\/p>\n<p>Even though everything you\u2019re going through right now might seem like the end of the world, the truth is that you will survive.<\/p>\n<p>You will make it out of this alive and you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/4-luchas-que-la-vida-acaba-haciendo-mas-fuertes\/\">fortalecerse<\/a> que nunca.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dejar de idealizar el pasado<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78609 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono en su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-her-phone-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>When we end a romantic relationship, most of us have the habit of idealizing the person we still have feelings for and the time we\u2019ve spent beside them.<\/p>\n<p>All of a sudden, our ex\u2019s flaws seem to disappear.<\/p>\n<p>Empezamos a recordarlos como nuestra pareja perfecta y a ver nuestra relaci\u00f3n como mucho mejor de lo que era en realidad.<\/p>\n<p><b>Well, if you\u2019re wondering how to stop caring about someone, one of the first things you\u2019ll have to do is stop romanticizing the past.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that you should talk trash about your ex-partner whenever you have the chance to, that you should spit on your entire relationship, or that you should force yourself to hate them, but you need to be realistic about everything that went on.<\/p>\n<p>Las cosas entre ustedes dos terminaron por una raz\u00f3n y cada vez que piensas en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/etapas-para-volver-con-un-ex-2\/\">volver con tu ex<\/a>Piensa en ese motivo en lugar de en todos los bonitos recuerdos que compartisteis porque eso es lo que te devolver\u00e1 a la realidad cada vez que pienses en acercarte a ellos o pedirles otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of keeping your head up in the clouds, think about all the times this person showed their indifference toward you and all the times you\u2019ve tried winning their love without much success.<\/p>\n<p>This way, you\u2019ll avoid nostalgia and you\u2019ll keep yourself firmly on the ground at all times.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cortar todos los lazos<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78602 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-cutting-picture-of-her-ex-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mujer cortando foto de su ex novio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-cutting-picture-of-her-ex-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-cutting-picture-of-her-ex-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-cutting-picture-of-her-ex-boyfriend-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Ya sabes lo que dicen, <i>\u201cOut of sight, out of mind\u201d,<\/i> \u00bfVerdad?<\/p>\n<p>Pues bien, el siguiente paso, y quiz\u00e1 el m\u00e1s importante, que debes dar en este proceso de olvidar a alguien querido es romper todos los lazos posibles con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you should use the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-razones-por-las-que-es-importante-respetar-la-regla-del-no-contacto\/\">ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> regla para que tu ex vuelva contigo o para que entienda lo mucho que significas para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que apartarlos de tu vida para facilitarte las cosas.<\/p>\n<p><b>This means that you must stop every possible communication with the person you\u2019re trying to get over.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Bloquea sus cuentas en las redes sociales y su n\u00famero de tel\u00e9fono, deja de acosarles, deja de preguntar por ellos a tus amigos comunes y deja de aparecer por los lugares en los que sabes que podr\u00edas encontr\u00e1rtelos.<\/p>\n<p>Todo esto puede sonar demasiado dr\u00e1stico o incluso grosero, pero cr\u00e9eme, es lo \u00fanico que ayuda y algo que tienes que hacer si realmente quieres salvarte.<\/p>\n<p>After all, how do you expect to fall out of love with someone you\u2019re in constant touch with?<\/p>\n<p>If you feel guilty for treating this way the person who didn\u2019t do you any harm except not love you back, there is no shame in explaining to them how things are.<\/p>\n<p>Just politely ask them not to be a part of your life anymore because you\u2019re trying <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/blog\/como-olvidar-a-alguien\/\">para olvidarlos<\/a> y su presencia te hace da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>If they have a good heart, they\u2019ll understand you and disappear for good.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deshacerse de los recuerdos<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78610 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-headache.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con dolor de cabeza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-headache.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-headache-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-headache-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Cutting all ties goes hand in hand with getting rid of everything that reminds you of the person you\u2019re trying <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-superar-un-enamoramiento\/\">superar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that when you grow older, you\u2019ll probably want to have a small something connected with someone you used to love, but at this point, you\u2019re looking at your old photos together, and your room is filled with their stuff.<\/p>\n<p><b>Es exactamente por eso que tienes que alejarte de todas estas cosas materiales de la misma manera que tienes que alejarte de la persona que te est\u00e1 haciendo da\u00f1o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to stop listening to \u201cyour song\u201d and stop going to the places that the two of you used to visit together.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evitar pensar en lo que deber\u00eda y podr\u00eda haber sido<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78603 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-holding-shopping-bag-1.jpg\" alt=\"bella mujer sonriente con gafas de sol y bolsa de la compra en la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-holding-shopping-bag-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-holding-shopping-bag-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/beautiful-smiling-woman-wearing-sunglasses-and-holding-shopping-bag-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>One of the biggest mistakes most people who\u2019re trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-superar-a-un-ex\/\">superar a alguien<\/a> do is allowing all the \u201ccould\u2019ve beens\u201d and \u201cshould\u2019ve beens\u201d to consume them completely.<\/p>\n<p>This especially happens when you\u2019re trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/usted-encontrara-la-fuerza-alejarse-relacion-toxica-2\/\">superar una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a> que nunca fue realmente bueno para ti.<\/p>\n<p><b>You can\u2019t help but wonder what would have happened between you and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-eso-es-mas-dificil-superar-a-un-casi-que-a-un-ex\/\"><b>tu casi ex<\/b><\/a><b> si te hubieran dado la oportunidad.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo habr\u00edan ido las cosas si tu pareja al menos hubiera intentado corresponderte?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you\u2019re wondering how to stop caring for someone, these thoughts have to leave your mind as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Accept that things turned out the way they did for a reason and you can\u2019t change the past, so what\u2019s the point in cracking your brains open about it?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Haz algunos cambios en tu vida<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78611 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-girl-typing-her-phone-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"chica sonriente tecleando su tel\u00e9fono en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-girl-typing-her-phone-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-girl-typing-her-phone-at-home-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/smiling-girl-typing-her-phone-at-home-768x520.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Ya sabes que algunas chicas se cortan o se ti\u00f1en el pelo y que los chicos van al gimnasio en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/errores-post-ruptura-que-empeoran-las-cosas\/\">el periodo posterior a la ruptura<\/a>? Bueno, sucede por una raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to stop caring about someone, one of the crucial steps you simply have to follow is to make some important changes in your life.<\/p>\n<p><b>Salga de su <\/b><b>zona de confort<\/b><b> and try something completely new. It doesn\u2019t matter if you change your hairstyle, buy some new clothes, find a <\/b><b>nueva afici\u00f3n<\/b><b>conocer gente nueva y <\/b><b>nuevos amigos<\/b><b> or change your surroundings and environment \u2013 the bottom line is the same&#8230;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cada una de estas cosas te dar\u00e1 la ilusi\u00f3n de un nuevo comienzo y te ayudar\u00e1 a alejarte de todo lo relacionado con la persona que te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, introducir nuevos h\u00e1bitos y personas en tu vida ser\u00e1 bastante beneficioso para tu salud mental, y es una de las formas m\u00e1s r\u00e1pidas de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/afirmaciones-de-amor-propio\/\">mejore su confianza<\/a> y hacerte sentir mejor.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mantente ocupado<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78601 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-pillow-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa abrazando una almohada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-pillow-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-pillow-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-pillow-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Another important thing to do when you\u2019re learning how to stop caring about someone is making sure your schedule is as tight as possible.<\/p>\n<p>A veces, el aburrimiento y el exceso de tiempo libre nos dan pie a pensar m\u00e1s y, en consecuencia, a sufrir m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>It doesn\u2019t mean that burying yourself in work is the only way <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/mantenerse-ocupado-durante-una-pandemia\/\"><b>para mantenerse ocupado<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This can also be an opportunity for you to do all the things you\u2019ve always wanted to do \u2013 binge watch your favorite series, go to the movies, enjoy a wellness spa day, listen to relaxing music, or just nap whenever you feel like it.<\/p>\n<p>Lo importante es hacer las cosas que te llenan y te hacen feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Haz todo lo posible por mantenerte alejado de cualquier estr\u00e9s adicional, porque ya tienes bastante en la cabeza.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pero date tiempo para llorar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78612 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-blonde-girl-typing-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"joven rubia escribiendo en el dormitorio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-blonde-girl-typing-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-blonde-girl-typing-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-blonde-girl-typing-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Nevertheless, keeping yourself busy can\u2019t be an excuse to bury your negative emotions under the carpet.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de permitir que tu dolor sea lo \u00fanico en lo que te concentres, determina una cierta cantidad de tiempo en cada d\u00eda que est\u00e9 reservado para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/el-proceso-de-duelo-es-diferente\/\">en duelo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Durante este tiempo, llora, grita y haz lo que te apetezca.<\/p>\n<p><b>Sin embargo, cuando pase este tiempo, vuelve a tus obligaciones y a vivir tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa importante es no forzarse demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this grieving has to come to an end and even though you can\u2019t allow for it to go on forever, remember that we all heal at a different pace.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de centrarse en la duraci\u00f3n de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/recuperacion-tras-una-ruptura-7-formas-prometedoras-de-volver-a-la-normalidad\/\">tu recuperaci\u00f3n emocional<\/a>En el futuro, la Comisi\u00f3n Europea se centrar\u00e1 en su calidad y en que tenga el mayor \u00e9xito posible.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ponte <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/antes-de-volver-a-la-piscina-de-las-citas-hazte-estas-5-preguntas\/\">de nuevo en la piscina de citas<\/a><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78596 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea.jpg\" alt=\"chicas disfrutando en casa y tomando un t\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/girls-enjoying-at-home-and-drinking-a-tea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Cuando preguntas a otros c\u00f3mo dejar de cuidar a alguien, la mayor\u00eda de la gente te aconsejar\u00e1 que encuentres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cuanto-duran-las-relaciones-de-rebote\/\">una relaci\u00f3n de rebote<\/a> lo antes posible porque llenar el vac\u00edo de tu coraz\u00f3n con alguien nuevo es la mejor manera de arreglarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, carrying a lot of emotional baggage and holding on to your past isn\u2019t how <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/principales-normas-de-relacion\/\">se establecen relaciones sanas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>However, what you should do is keep your options open. Just because one person from your past didn\u2019t give you the love you needed, doesn\u2019t mean everyone else will be the same.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor para ti es volver a la piscina de las citas sin expectativas. Para empezar, puedes cambiar tu estado sentimental en las redes sociales a soltero y abrirte a conocer gente nueva.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying jump from one person to the next \u2013 just give yourself a chance to meet someone new without being burdened with the outcome.<\/p>\n<p>De este modo, podr\u00e1 seguir disfrutando de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/cansado-de-estar-soltero-consejos-para-disfrutar-de-la-solteria\/\">los beneficios de la solter\u00eda<\/a> mientras te mantienes entretenido y ocupado.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo ten cuidado de no ahuyentar a alguien que te gusta debido a tus traumas pasados.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pasar tiempo con los amigos<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78606 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-women-lying-on-her-bed-thinking-and-resting.jpg\" alt=\"joven tumbada en su cama pensando y descansando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-women-lying-on-her-bed-thinking-and-resting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-women-lying-on-her-bed-thinking-and-resting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-women-lying-on-her-bed-thinking-and-resting-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>La mejor medicina para los corazones rotos es estar cerca de las personas que queremos y que nos quieren, pase lo que pase. Su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/the-best-of\/5-signos-del-zodiaco-que-se-hacen-mejores-amigos\/\">mejores amigos<\/a> son realmente las mejores endorfinas.<\/p>\n<p>Near the people you can be your true self next to, without any false pretenses; those who won\u2019t use your vulnerabilities against you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Precisamente por eso <\/b><b>pasar el tiempo<\/b><b> con su <\/b><b>mejores amigos<\/b><b> y <\/b><b>familiares<\/b><b> te ayudar\u00e1 a aprender c\u00f3mo dejar de preocuparte por alguien.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Tus amigos est\u00e1n ah\u00ed para escucharte, ayudarte a superar esta crisis y alegrarte los d\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Just make sure not to follow everyone\u2019s advice and suggestions blindly because nobody can know exactly what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">T\u00f3matelo como una lecci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78605 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-putting-makeup-in-front-of-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"mujer maquillandose frente al espejo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-putting-makeup-in-front-of-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-putting-makeup-in-front-of-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-putting-makeup-in-front-of-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>En lugar de lamentarse por alguien que obviamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-le-importas\/\">doesn\u2019t care about you<\/a> y tomar esta angustia como el fin del mundo, intenta aprender de ella.<\/p>\n<p>Consid\u00e9ralo una prueba de tu fuerza y poder interior, y nada m\u00e1s que un reto vital que superar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Besides, everything you\u2019re going through can teach you that whoever doesn\u2019t love you, doesn\u2019t deserve you caring for them either.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-important-lessons-last-break-taught\/\">Tu desamor<\/a> te mostrar\u00e1 qui\u00e9nes son tus verdaderos amigos y qui\u00e9nes son los que deber\u00edas eliminar.<\/p>\n<p>Te mostrar\u00e1 lo que es realmente importante en el amor y te har\u00e1 comprender que puedes sobrevivir incluso sin aquella persona sin la que pensabas que nunca podr\u00edas vivir.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Focus on yourself&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128818 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer est\u00e1 tumbada y el sol est\u00e1 en la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-woman-is-lying-and-the-sun-is-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Si quiere aprender a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/la-fea-verdad-de-amar-a-alguien-que-nunca-te-correspondera\/\">dejar de preocuparse por alguien<\/a>El siguiente paso que tienes que dar es redirigir hacia ti toda la energ\u00eda que desperdiciabas con esa persona.<\/p>\n<p>Now that you\u2019ve gotten rid of anyone who doesn\u2019t deserve you, it\u2019s time for you to start making yourself happy, without expecting anyone else to do it. It&#8217;s time to focus on improving your mental health and well-being in general.<\/p>\n<p><b>T\u00f3mate un descanso<\/b><b> from the rest of the world. It&#8217;s time to work on improving yourself and on putting yourself first. Focus on boosting your <\/b><b>autoestima<\/b><b> y<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/consejos-de-autocuidado\/\"><b> mejorar <\/b><b>autocuidado<\/b><\/a><b> porque esas son realmente las \u00fanicas cosas que pueden ayudarte a sanar y seguir adelante.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, now that you\u2019ve stopped <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-amaras-tanto-a-la-persona-equivocada-imagina-cuanto-amarias-a-la-correcta\/\">amar a la persona equivocada<\/a>, it\u2019s time to start loving yourself even more.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">&#8230; On your dreams and goals<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128819 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o con un sombrero en la cabeza pone el campo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Just because you&#8217;re currently <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/dios-te-hace-pasar-por-momentos-dificiles-para-empujarte-a-convertirte-en-la-mujer-que-necesitas-ser\/\">pasando por un mal momento<\/a> in your life, that doesn&#8217;t mean that you should forget all that you&#8217;ve planned for your future. Don&#8217;t allow your pain to define your life and don&#8217;t ever allow it to mess with your future.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tienes que volver a ponerte a ti mismo en lo m\u00e1s alto de tu lista de prioridades. Tienes que entender que tu futuro es mucho m\u00e1s importante que tu pasado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que te pasaron tantas cosas malas y que todo te afect\u00f3 mucho, pero necesitas encontrar un cierre de una vez por todas y dejar todas esas cosas que te pesan en el pasado.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Olvida lo que sientes y recuerda lo que mereces<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-128820\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo corto y rubio se para en el puente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-short-blonde-hair-stands-on-the-bridge-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That person was probably a big and important part of your life for too long and it&#8217;s perfectly normal that your feelings for them won&#8217;t disappear overnight.<\/p>\n<p><b>However, just because you love someone it doesn&#8217;t mean you should be with them at any cost. Sometimes, love truly isn&#8217;t enough.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;ll get it one day, trust me. You&#8217;ll get that you can&#8217;t continue loving someone who doesn&#8217;t treat you well and who keeps hurting you.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll also understand that you should<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/13-formas-de-quererse-a-uno-mismo-tras-liberarse-de-una-relacion-toxica\/\"> qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo <\/a>first and above everyone and everything else. You&#8217;ll realize that you should never accept any less than you deserve ever again. From that moment on, you&#8217;ll demand all or nothing, true love or nothing at all.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aprender el arte de dejarse llevar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128821 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o con un vestido blanco camina por la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-white-dress-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Tienes que aceptar el hecho de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-senales-de-que-eres-demasiado-buena-para-el-y-no-te-merece\/\">person doesn&#8217;t deserve you<\/a>. It&#8217;s life&#8230; Some people are only meant to stay in your life for some time and there are those who are meant to stay there forever.<\/p>\n<p><b>God sends some people in your life just to teach you a lesson. A lesson that you should never give all of you to someone who doesn&#8217;t deserve you at all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Accept that loving someone doesn&#8217;t make them deserve you. And don&#8217;t ever start thinking how life isn&#8217;t fair&#8230; Sometimes it doesn&#8217;t give you what you want only because you deserve so much more and life has it all prepared for you in the near future.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/superar\/\">Dejar ir<\/a> is difficult, it&#8217;s even heartbreaking but there is so much hidden beauty in it. It&#8217;s high time to stop holding on to someone who let you go a long time ago.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00f3lo recuerda, el tiempo siempre cura<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128823 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer con un sombrero en la cabeza pone la playa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-a-hat-on-her-head-sets-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/>Si quieres aprender a dejar de preocuparte por alguien, el \u00faltimo paso, pero no por ello menos importante, es recordarte a ti mismo que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/el-tiempo-cura-todas-las-heridas-o-realmente\/\">el tiempo lo cura todo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>El tiempo curar\u00e1 todas tus heridas y te dejar\u00e1 hermosas cicatrices. Cicatrices que siempre estar\u00e1n pegadas a tu alma y servir\u00e1n como un gran recordatorio de lo fuerte y valiente que fuiste.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ah, y por supuesto, un recordatorio de que nunca debes dar 110% de ti a otra persona o relaci\u00f3n nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><i>You&#8217;ll probably need a <\/i><i>mucho tiempo<\/i> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/necesita-curarse-pero-no-sabe-como\/\"><i>sanar completamente<\/i><\/a><i> but once you do, you&#8217;ll be able to move on as if nothing happened. As if your heart was never broken and shattered into million pieces.<\/i><b><i><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>En pocas palabras<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128824 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o con un vestido se para en la escalinata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-in-a-dress-stands-on-the-steps-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta gu\u00eda sobre c\u00f3mo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-maneras-de-dejar-de-querer-a-alguien\/\">dejar de preocuparse por alguien<\/a> will remind you that you should always be on the top of your priority list in life and it&#8217;ll also teach you the art of letting go.<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, it&#8217;s never easy to stop caring about someone who was an important part of your life for so long. It&#8217;s a hell of a journey but you must trust me with this, you&#8217;ll see that it was worth it all in the end.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you just have to give up on certain people. The truth is that you&#8217;ll never be able to find the right person as long as you&#8217;re holding on to the wrong one&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Cheers to &#8216;letting go&#8217; and wonderful new beginnings.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-128825 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo dejar de preocuparse por alguien: 20 sencillos pasos a seguir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-320x480.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-20-Easy-Steps-To-Take-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Admitting to yourself that the person you have strong feelings for doesn\u2019t love you back is devastating and difficult to achieve. However, what is even harder is trying to figure out how to stop caring about someone you love the most but also know that person doesn\u2019t give a damn about you. Being aware that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":78590,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35817","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/How-To-Stop-Caring-About-Someone-15-Easy-Steps-To-Take.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35817","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35817"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35817\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78590"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35817"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35817"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35817"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}