{"id":35835,"date":"2020-04-23T07:28:44","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T07:28:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35835"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:22:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:22:09","slug":"6-dobles-raseros-a-los-que-te-somete-una-pareja-emocionalmente-abusiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-dobles-raseros-a-los-que-te-somete-una-pareja-emocionalmente-abusiva\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Doble moral a la que te somete una pareja emocionalmente abusiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

La gente asocia el maltrato sobre todo con sus manifestaciones f\u00edsicas, porque los moratones son f\u00e1ciles de ver y, por tanto, no se pueden negar. <\/em><\/p>\n

Pero el maltrato en las relaciones puede ser mucho m\u00e1s que lo que ven los ojos.<\/em><\/p>\n

El maltrato, en cualquiera de sus formas, es un tipo de conducta repugnante e inaceptable. comportamiento relacional<\/a>Y quien tenga que enfrentarse a ella podr\u00e1, con suerte, encontrar la salida, sano y salvo, con la ayuda de un buen sistema de apoyo.<\/p>\n

Estar en una relaci\u00f3n con una pareja que abusa mental y emocionalmente es una tortura silenciosa.<\/p>\n

Es uno de los sentimientos m\u00e1s solitarios y desgarradores que puede soportar una persona.<\/p>\n

That form of abuse is something people cannot see, and having to explain what you are going through without actual \u2018\u2019physical proof\u2019\u2019 of abuse is absolute hell.<\/p>\n

Te degradan, te menosprecian, te hacen sentir que no vales nada a diario, y nadie lo sabe realmente.<\/p>\n

Ese sentimiento de soledad y de incapacidad para que la gente comprenda tu dolor es una batalla diaria.<\/p>\n

Te enganchas tanto a una persona y al amor que sientes por ella que decides hacer la vista gorda ante el trato malintencionado que te da.<\/p>\n

It always starts small, so you never really want to say anything. But with time, it gets worse and more hurtful, but you keep suffering in silence\u2026<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Abuso emocional<\/a> socios son maestros en su oficio.<\/p>\n

Se rebajar\u00e1n a los niveles m\u00e1s bajos para hacerte sentir como una mierda y, a menudo, actuar\u00e1n como si t\u00fa fueras el culpable de su comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Jugar\u00e1n la carta de la v\u00edctima para manipularte, jugar contigo y confundirte. <\/em><\/p>\n

Fingir\u00e1n que sus manos est\u00e1n limpias y que toda la culpa recae sobre tus hombros. <\/em><\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las veces, la mejor manera de hacerlo es mediante el doble rasero que te imponen.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you feel like your partner is being emotionally abusive towards you, don\u2019t stay silent.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accept the shit he puts you through. Decide that enough is enough!<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunos de los ejemplos m\u00e1s comunes de doble rasero que sufren las v\u00edctimas de maltrato emocional.<\/p>\n

Si te reconoces en alguno de ellos, mi consejo es que busques la salida m\u00e1s pac\u00edfica, y nunca mires atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

He will criticize you like it\u2019s his job, but when you do the same to him, he handles it extremely poorly<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have a problem blaming you for the most trivial and insignificant things.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do is under scrutiny, and he makes sure to let you know what a crappy job you\u2019ve done if he\u2019s not happy about something.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando hace algo realmente malo y quieres enfrentarte a \u00e9l como un adulto, coge una rabieta y lo lleva muy mal.<\/p>\n

You fear for your life at times, so it\u2019s easier to never criticise him at all rather than risk being yelled at so much.<\/p>\n

He demands to know your whereabouts at all times, but fails to tell you where he is and how long he\u2019s going to be<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You are required to check in with him regularly no matter where you are. If you don\u2019t let him know where you are, he\u2019s going to make a scene.<\/p>\n

But when you politely ask where he is and what time he\u2019s going to be back, he acts as if you have zero right to know such a thing.<\/p>\n

Se va y hace sus cosas con quien quiere y durante el tiempo que quiere, y t\u00fa est\u00e1s completamente a oscuras.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about how you feel at all but expects you to put his needs and emotions first<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Si te hace me siento como una mierda<\/a>, that\u2019s fine by him. If he says something hurtful to you, still fine.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando ignoras sus emociones y no est\u00e1s a su disposici\u00f3n, se desata el infierno.<\/p>\n

Hay que prestar siempre atenci\u00f3n a c\u00f3mo se siente ese d\u00eda y hacer lo que m\u00e1s le convenga.<\/p>\n

If you even try to ask him to understand that you\u2019re having a crappy day, you\u2019ll never hear the end of it.<\/p>\n

Te pide sexo y lo espera siempre que quiere, pero cuando est\u00e1s de humor, te ignora por completo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

He expects sex whenever he feels like it. You always have to be available to him\u2014or else.<\/p>\n

But when you ask for the same thing, he won\u2019t pay attention to you.<\/p>\n

Only when he\u2019s in the mood will there be any physical manifestations of love.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re feeling up for it, it is highly unlikely he\u2019ll be respectful of it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es el que manda en todo, pero cuando intentas sugerirle algo, lo ignora.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es el hombre, y se asegura de que lo sepas. \u00c9l toma todas las decisiones, por grandes o peque\u00f1as que sean, y no te deja nada en lo que participar.<\/p>\n

But when you try to offer your input or merely suggest an idea about something, he looks down on you as if it\u2019s not your place.<\/p>\n

Se espera que dejes que el hombre haga lo suyo y que seas obediente y est\u00e9s a su servicio si necesita algo de ti.<\/p>\n

Whenever he mistreats you, he puts all the blame on you, and when you screw up, it\u2019s always your fault and yours only<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He will yell at you for something that he did. He\u2019ll make you feel like a total pedazo de mierda<\/a> y echarte toda la culpa a ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always your fault when he treats you badly.<\/p>\n

Fuiste t\u00fa quien le hizo actuar as\u00ed. Tu mal humor le enfad\u00f3 y no tuvo m\u00e1s remedio que desquitarse contigo.<\/p>\n

Basically, you have to walk on eggshells around him because you know whatever you do, he\u2019s going to find a way to put all the blame of his actions on you.<\/p>\n

Y mientras le permitas salirse con la suya, el abuso emocional nunca va a terminar.<\/p>\n

Es importante que poco a poco te vayas distanciando de \u00e9l y, si lo necesitas, pidas ayuda.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t put up with what you shouldn\u2019t. This type of behaviour is toxic and hurtful, and nobody deserves it.<\/p>\n

Sal de esa relaci\u00f3n antes de que sea demasiado malsana y demasiado tarde. Te mereces algo mejor.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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