{"id":35839,"date":"2019-04-23T07:58:09","date_gmt":"2019-04-23T07:58:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35839"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:30:57","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:30:57","slug":"8-senales-evidentes-de-que-no-estas-preparado-para-tener-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-evidentes-de-que-no-estas-preparado-para-tener-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales evidentes de que no est\u00e1s preparado para una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

I decided to write this article because I\u2019m urged to inform the rest of humanity about the phenomenon of not being ready for a relationship because the same thing happened to me and a few people that I know.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Despu\u00e9s de una ruptura, durante el tiempo que estuve soltera un par de meses, me sent\u00ed muy infeliz y deprimida y pens\u00e9 que la causa principal era que segu\u00eda soltera.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tontamente pens\u00e9 que si iniciado una nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/a>...me curar\u00eda m\u00e1gicamente y por fin ser\u00eda feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But it didn\u2019t work out that way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mi precipitaci\u00f3n a la hora de entablar una relaci\u00f3n acab\u00f3 muy mal y lo mismo les ocurri\u00f3 a algunos de mis amigos, que tambi\u00e9n estaban solteros en aquel momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Back then, I didn\u2019t know that relationships cannot be forced and desperately trying to enter a new one will bring you nothing but the feeling of disappointment.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Relationships happen naturally and sometimes you\u2019re just not ready to be in one and the more you (subconsciously) force it, the more you will just be unhappy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re feeling the same way or you suspect that this might be the case with you or someone you know, keep reading the following 8 signs which mean that you are not ready to be in a relationship!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Te sientes desesperado<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si, por diversas razones, te sientes desesperado en alg\u00fan momento de tu vida, nunca es buena idea entablar una relaci\u00f3n con alguien.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Being desperate means being negatively wired, which also means attracting people into your life with the same \u2018quality\u2019.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re feeling this way, you will definitely have difficulties in relationships and that is why it is wise to first collect your own thoughts and find your inner peace because nothing else will help you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si entras en una relaci\u00f3n as\u00ed, estar\u00e1 condenada al fracaso y si por casualidad encuentras a alguien, lo m\u00e1s probable es que sienta lo mismo que t\u00fa, lo cual nunca es una buena combinaci\u00f3n cuando se trata de establecer una relaci\u00f3n sana y feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Quieres cambiar para los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While it is okay to be willing to change some of your \u2018bad\u2019 habits for someone you like, it is never a good idea to be willing to change yourself completely or do whatever they ask of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si est\u00e1s listo para hacer esto, no est\u00e1s listo para estar en una relaci\u00f3n porque necesitas trabajar en ti mismo primero.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to accept yourself in the state you\u2019re currently in and understand why you\u2019re feeling the way you\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3lo entonces encontrar\u00e1s tu verdadera felicidad y s\u00f3lo entonces estar\u00e1s preparado para estar con alguien.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Quieres salvar a los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Querer desesperadamente salvar a alguien siempre es t\u00f3xico cuando se trata de relaciones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to understand that you\u2019re not responsible for other people\u2019s behavior or happiness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si sigues esforz\u00e1ndote por ayudarles y cambiarles, aunque no est\u00e9n dispuestos a cooperar o a hacerlo solos, tu relaci\u00f3n fracasar\u00e1 incluso antes de empezar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Wanting to be someone\u2019s savior at the cost of tu propia felicidad<\/a> nunca ha tra\u00eddo nada bueno a nadie.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Primero debes salvarte a ti mismo y luego pensar en salvar a los dem\u00e1s (pero s\u00f3lo si ellos tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n dispuestos a salvarse).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Crees que las relaciones lo son todo en la vida<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mucha gente piensa que las relaciones son la parte m\u00e1s importante de nuestra vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

En efecto, son importantes, pero no lo son todo en la vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you think the same thing, it is likely that you\u2019ll feel desperate about being single because you haven\u2019t achieved your goal of being happy with someone in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Debe saber que las relaciones no pueden forzarse<\/a> o con prisas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como ya se ha dicho, se dan de forma natural y todo lo dem\u00e1s es fingir y forzar, lo que al final acabar\u00e1 mal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Las relaciones son importantes, pero lo m\u00e1s importante es tu propia felicidad y bienestar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando aprendas a quererte a ti mismo como quieres querer a los dem\u00e1s, estar\u00e1s preparado para uno.<\/p>\r\n

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5. Sigues pensando en tu ex<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si sigues pensando en tu ex y crees que iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n lo borrar\u00e1 de tu mente y de tu vida, te equivocas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Seguir pensando en tu ex o en tu pasado significa que a\u00fan sientes algo por ellos, lo cual es totalmente normal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Significa que necesitas m\u00e1s tiempo para superarlos y aceptar tu ruptura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo peor que podr\u00edas hacer en este momento es perseguir nuevas relaciones o parejas potenciales.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si lo hace, s\u00f3lo prolongar\u00e1 su dolor y el proceso de curaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. You\u2019re unsure about your feelings<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re inseguro sobre sus sentimientos<\/a>, it means you don\u2019t know what you want, you don\u2019t understand your feelings and you\u2019re not ready to be in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you keep playing hot and cold with potential partners, it means you\u2019re deceiving yourself and you just need more time alone to get in touch with your inner self.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your feelings are the most complex thing in the whole world and if you yourself don\u2019t understand them, no one else will be able to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Only when you\u2019re one hundred percent sure about your feelings will you be able to share your life with another human being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Le cuesta confiar en los dem\u00e1s<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tener dificultades para confiar en los dem\u00e1s est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionado con sus experiencias pasadas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It usually means that you\u2019ve been hurt before and now you\u2019re scarred and incapable of trusting others.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re afraid that they will herirte<\/a> como alguien de tu pasado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Recuerda que nunca, nunca es buena idea decidir tener una relaci\u00f3n con alguien si tienes problemas de confianza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si decides hacerlo, lo m\u00e1s probable es que seas excesivamente celoso (incluso sin motivo), que desconf\u00edes de cada cosa trivial y que tu relaci\u00f3n termine pronto porque se basa en unos cimientos poco saludables.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Quieres un salvador<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want a savior, it probably means that you\u2019re feeling unhappy about being single and you want someone to save you from this misery and feeling of discontent. I understand you because I was in the same boat.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero cr\u00e9eme, nada ni nadie puede salvarte de ti mismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aunque conozcas a alguien que parezca ser perfecto para ti, con el tiempo volver\u00e1s a ser infeliz porque no podr\u00e1 salvarte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pueden quererte y demostrarte que se preocupan por ti, pero debes saber que nunca podr\u00e1n salvarte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

La \u00fanica persona que puede salvarte eres t\u00fa. Y lo har\u00e1s cambiando tus prioridades y convirti\u00e9ndote en una persona completa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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