{"id":35864,"date":"2020-07-23T13:31:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T13:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35864"},"modified":"2022-03-22T01:17:11","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T01:17:11","slug":"5-senales-innegables-de-que-estas-tratando-con-un-chico-que-tuvo-una-ex-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-innegables-de-que-estas-tratando-con-un-chico-que-tuvo-una-ex-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales innegables de que est\u00e1s tratando con un t\u00edo que tuvo una ex t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deshacerse de una pareja t\u00f3xica no acaba con la miseria de su v\u00edctima.<\/p>\r\n

Instead, the emotional baggage and the damage such a person leaves behind impacts on their victim\u2019s life and new relationships long after their departure.<\/p>\r\n

If you suspect that the guy you\u2019re involved with went through some serious emotional trauma in his past relationship, here are 5 sure-fire signs that you\u2019re right and that he really did have a toxic ex who damaged him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

1. Es demasiado inseguro<\/h2>\r\n

\"Joven<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Cuando conoces a un chico t\u00edmido<\/a>, you don\u2019t immediately connect his toxic behavior with his past relationship traumas.<\/p>\r\n

No obstante, que tu novio sea demasiado inseguro<\/a> es una de las primeras se\u00f1ales de que ten\u00eda una ex t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\r\n

Of course, many men aren\u2019t confident in the beginning but it\u2019s different with this guy.<\/p>\r\n

Act\u00faa como si tuviera miedo constante de perderte y siempre teme tus reacciones ante cualquier cosa que diga o haga.<\/p>\r\n

If your boyfriend thinks he isn\u2019t enough and that he doesn\u2019t deserve you or anyone else treating him kindly, one thing is clear\u2014his ex made him believe that he wasn\u2019t meant to be loved and with time, he started believing her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

2.<\/strong> No est\u00e1 disponible emocionalmente<\/h2>\r\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Even though things don\u2019t look like this, the truth is that men aren\u2019t actually much different from us women.<\/p>\r\n

When they\u2019ve been hurt, they also put up a guard and become extra careful when it comes to love and romance.<\/p>\r\n

Another clue that you\u2019re dealing with a guy who\u2019s had a toxic ex in his past is his emotional unavailability.<\/p>\r\n

The truth is that many dudes think they\u2019ll be bigger men if they hide their emotions but the guy we\u2019re talking about isn\u2019t trying to be tough; he is sincerely scared of opening up to you or anyone else in his life.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s like he has this barrier inside of him and he only lets you in up to a certain point.<\/p>\r\n

What you need to understand is that this man\u2019s heart is severely broken and that it will take time and patience for it to properly heal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

3.<\/strong> Siempre se disculpa<\/h2>\r\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Si tu novio ten\u00eda una ex t\u00f3xica, probablemente esta chica le culpaba de todo lo malo que pasaba entre los dos.<\/p>\r\n

Con el tiempo, empez\u00f3 a creerle que todo era siempre culpa suya y que \u00e9l era el \u00fanico responsable del declive de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Precisamente por eso le aterroriza repetir los mismos errores, ya que cree que podr\u00eda alejarte<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

He is extra careful around you and makes sure he doesn\u2019t do the slightest thing that might upset you.<\/p>\r\n

Not only that\u2014he also constantly apologizes for the things he doesn\u2019t have anything to do with because he can\u2019t help but feel guilty all the time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

4. Le sorprenden algunas cosas que deber\u00edan ser normales en una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\r\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\r\n\r\n

La se\u00f1al m\u00e1s evidente de que tu novio tuvo una relaci\u00f3n enfermiza es el hecho de que se sorprenda y emocione con algunas de las cosas que se espera que ocurran en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

He literally can\u2019t be thankful enough for the things you do for him and for being such an amazing girlfriend.<\/p>\r\n

This guy can\u2019t believe that you take his needs into consideration, that you put him first or that you remember some seemingly small details about him.<\/p>\r\n

Le sorprende que nunca te eches atr\u00e1s y que siempre intentes resolver tus problemas de forma productiva.<\/p>\r\n

Even though you see this type of behavior as normal and the only acceptable way to handle a relationship, it is obvious that he\u2019s used to different treatment.<\/p>\r\n

Y esto es algo nuevo y refrescante para \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

5.<\/strong> Tiene problemas de confianza<\/h2>\r\n

\"pareja<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Todas las personas que tuvieron una ex pareja t\u00f3xica tienen graves problemas de confianza<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Estas personas fueron abandonadas y traicionadas por alguien en quien pensaban que pod\u00edan confiar, por lo que es natural que sean excesivamente cautelosas a la hora de confiar en alguien nuevo. Y tu ex no es una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Este hombre fue herido en el pasado y piensa que cada mujer que encuentre ser\u00e1 como su ex.<\/p>\r\n

Le aterroriza mostrarte sus debilidades porque est\u00e1 convencido de que no le ves m\u00e1s que como una presa de la que quieres aprovecharte.<\/p>\r\n

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Getting rid of a toxic partner doesn\u2019t end their victim\u2019s misery. Instead, the emotional baggage and the damage such a person leaves behind impacts on their victim\u2019s life and new relationships long after their departure. If you suspect that the guy you\u2019re involved with went through some serious emotional trauma in his past relationship, here…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":116298,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Undeniable-Signs-Youre-Dealing-With-A-Guy-Who-Had-A-Toxic-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35864"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35864\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116298"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}