{"id":35996,"date":"2020-04-26T07:33:41","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T07:33:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=35996"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:39:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:39:40","slug":"si-el-juega-a-estos-7-juegos-de-relaciones-inmaduras-te-esta-haciendo-perder-el-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-el-juega-a-estos-7-juegos-de-relaciones-inmaduras-te-esta-haciendo-perder-el-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Si juega a estos 7 juegos inmaduros, te est\u00e1 haciendo perder el tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>El amor no es un juego, punto.<\/p>\n<p>Cualquiera que lo trate como tal es un individuo inmaduro que, sencillamente, no est\u00e1 preparado para el compromiso que implica una relaci\u00f3n real y adulta.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/los-juegos-terminaron-jugando\/\">jugar a juegos<\/a> en tu relaci\u00f3n hace que sea mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para ti salir de all\u00ed antes de que te involucres demasiado y te vayas en tus propios t\u00e9rminos.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres que entablan relaciones simplemente con el prop\u00f3sito de no estar solos, hasta que llegue alguien mejor, no son m\u00e1s que mocosos malcriados e inmaduros que no tienen nada que hacer jugando as\u00ed con tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You would devote every fiber of your being to this guy and keep your relationship sacred and close to your heart, while he\u2019s out there low-key exploring the field and contemplating his options!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82031\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him. React in time.<\/p>\n<p>Recon\u00f3cete a ti misma cuando tu chico est\u00e1 siendo sospechoso y no est\u00e1 totalmente involucrado y ah\u00f3rrate la verg\u00fcenza de ser enga\u00f1ada por un imb\u00e9cil inmaduro.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, losing that kind of guy won\u2019t be a loss at all.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, you\u2019ll be the one who wins, because losing someone who added nothing to your life is only going to better your chances of finding <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/quedate-soltero-hasta-que-encuentres-a-alguien-a-quien-realmente-le-importes\/\">alguien a quien realmente le importe<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><em>Estas son las 7 se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s comunes de que tu hombre est\u00e1 jugando a est\u00fapidos juegos de pareja y haci\u00e9ndote perder el tiempo por completo (\u00a1pero no por mucho tiempo!).<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He wants to keep the relationship on the down-low and doesn\u2019t let you talk about it to your friends much<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82032\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast.jpg\" alt=\"pareja seria desayunando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-couple-having-breakfast-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t go out to places where many people could see you and he doesn\u2019t hold your hand in public (only during rare moments when there are no people around).<\/p>\n<p>You feel like he really goes to extreme lengths to keep your relationship a secret and it\u2019s all under false pretenses that it\u2019s better if it\u2019s just between you two, like it\u2019s somehow more meaningful.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t like this at all but you go along with it, hoping it would change with time.<\/p>\n<p>But things haven\u2019t improved one bit; he\u2019s still <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/quedate-soltero-hasta-que-encuentres-a-alguien-a-quien-realmente-le-importes\/\">mantenerte en secreto<\/a>, you\u2019re not really sure why and you\u2019re totally annoyed by it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c9l muestra cero consistencia en la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82033\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz sentada en el suelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Relationships require effort and consistency in order to thrive but so far, he hasn\u2019t demonstrated either of the two.<\/p>\n<p>When it suits him, he\u2019s being all nice and considerate toward you but he can switch it off just like that and become a total prick.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t really rely on him to be a certain way for a long period of time, because he\u2019s so flaky. And he doesn\u2019t seem to want to change that at all.<\/p>\n<p>He is simply not consistent with showing you any type of affection and you oftentimes consider breaking it off but those rare moments when he does behave nicely reassure you (even though they shouldn\u2019t).<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Finge inter\u00e9s en las cosas que te gustan por sus propios intereses.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82034\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"hombre serio escuchando hablar a una mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/serious-man-listening-to-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you talk about something you\u2019re passionate about and really hold dear to your heart, you feel like he only agrees with you for the sake of agreeing.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t any genuine curiosity on his part in any aspect of your life or your passions, only feigned interest when he wants to gain something from you (<em>sexo, tu atenci\u00f3n o necesita ayuda con algo<\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>He is being fake and dishonest and deep down you know those aren\u2019t the qualities of a boyfriend who truly cares about you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-realmente-te-amara-se-aseguraria-de-que-lo-supieras\/\">Si realmente te amara<\/a>...estar\u00eda interesado en todas tus partes.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se desvive por hacerte sentir celoso...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous.jpg\" alt=\"hombre hablando por telefono mientras la mujer esta celosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-talking-on-phone-while-woman-is-jealous-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It makes him feel good about himself when you act out in jealousy and he doesn\u2019t really seem to mind. It boosts his ego and feeds his immature soul.<\/p>\n<p>He constantly puts you in a position to question his loyalty, even with the littlest things, and you\u2019re getting <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-razones-de-ruptura-que-todas-las-chicas-estan-hartas-de-oir-y-lo-que-significan\/\">enfermo y cansado<\/a> of it but you simply don\u2019t want to admit that he\u2019s doing it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>En resumidas cuentas, un hombre que te quiere nunca te har\u00eda dudar de sus intenciones.<\/p>\n<p>Only immature boys play games like that and that\u2019s because they still have a lot of growing up to do.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te hace esperar horas por un simple mensaje, sin importar lo importante que sea.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82037\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to seem too eager, so he takes his time getting back to you.<\/p>\n<p>He rarely texts back within a reasonable amount of time and even when it\u2019s just a simple question, he\u2019s going to make you wait for it.<\/p>\n<p>Es completamente desconsiderado y no aprecia tu tiempo ni tus sentimientos, y s\u00f3lo lo hace para sentirse importante, como una especie de macho, cuando en realidad no es m\u00e1s que un mocoso ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Todav\u00eda hay aplicaciones de citas en su tel\u00e9fono (\u00a1la mayor se\u00f1al de alarma!)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82038\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando el tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a guy you\u2019re supposed to be in a relationship with still keeps dating apps on his phone, there really isn\u2019t much to say to back it up, other than he\u2019s clearly still browsing his options!<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste your time, because if he can\u2019t even bother to hide it and leaves it right there for you to see, he is clearly not interested in anything serious with you and he doesn\u2019t even care how this makes you feel.<\/p>\n<p>One word\u2014run!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He refuses to put a label on your relationship and you don\u2019t even know where you stand<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82039\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried.jpg\" alt=\"joven preocupada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/young-woman-standing-worried-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to have the conversation to discuss where you two are and what exactly you are in the first place and when you suggest defining your relationship, he is against it.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t like putting labels on things, it makes him feel pressured, so he just keeps things up in the air, giving you zero reassurance he\u2019s in it one hundred percent.<\/p>\n<p>Deja que las cosas fluyan y ante la sola menci\u00f3n del compromiso, se estremece.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo claramente tiene cero inter\u00e9s en estar en una relaci\u00f3n adulta y te sugiero encarecidamente que dejes su culo inmaduro y vayas a buscar a alguien que realmente pueda actuar como de su edad.<\/p>\n<p>He is only wasting your precious time and those types of guys don\u2019t really change.<\/p>\n<p>Do yourself a favor and leave. It\u2019s the only right decision in this situation and it\u2019s going to make you feel liberated AF!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si juega a estos 7 juegos inmaduros, te est\u00e1 haciendo perder el tiempo\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love isn\u2019t a game, period. Anyone who treats it as such is an immature individual who is simply not ready for a commitment that a real, grown-up relationship entails. And that\u2019s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely playing games in your relationship makes it that much easier for you to get out of there&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-He-Plays-These-7-Immature-Relationship-Games-He\u2019s-Wasting-Your-Time.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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