{"id":36000,"date":"2020-04-26T09:30:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T09:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36000"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:45:23","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:45:23","slug":"12-trucos-para-conseguir-que-un-hombre-se-case-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-trucos-para-conseguir-que-un-hombre-se-case-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"12 trucos para que un hombre se case contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s one thing to win a man over, to sweep him off his feet, but \u00bfqu\u00e9 tienes que hacer para que se comprometa?<\/a><\/p>\n

En otras palabras, c\u00f3mo conseguir un hombre que se case contigo<\/a>? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son los trucos para hacerlo posible?<\/p>\n

Normalmente, los hombres se sienten c\u00f3modos en una determinada fase de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s divertido y a la vez frustrante es que esta es la etapa de una relaci\u00f3n que resulta aburrida para una mujer.<\/p>\n

That stage is exactly what you\u2019re trying to avoid.<\/p>\n

What happens is that he gets comfortable and you\u2019re at the edge of your seat because you want things to go further and take your relationship to the next level \u2013 a more serious level.<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019re waiting for him to haz la pregunta<\/a>...pero parece estar c\u00f3modo donde est\u00e1n ustedes dos.  <\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer cuando enloquece ante la mera menci\u00f3n del matrimonio?<\/h2>\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n

What happens is that you need to play the game. You\u2019re not going to manipulate, you\u2019re not going to play dirty. You\u2019re going to play smart.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to lie, you\u2019re just going to present who you are and convince him that he needs you \u2013 actually, you\u2019re not going to convince him, you\u2019re going to show him with your behavior.<\/p>\n

Men are like that. They think they are hard to understand, but actually, they are very easy to read \u2013 and it\u2019s ugly to say manipulate \u2013 but let\u2019s say it\u2019s easy to make them think they have done something on their own, where in fact, you had a huge role in affecting their decision.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo conseguir que un hombre se case contigo?<\/h2>\n

Maybe you think you\u2019ve done everything, but I bet there are some things that you haven\u2019t tried yet, maybe even some you haven\u2019t even considered doing because they seemed too trivial.<\/p>\n

1. Qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s cheesy and ever-present, but it\u2019s only like that because it\u2019s true. If you don\u2019t love yourself, you can\u2019t love anyone else.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re unhappy with the way you look or  behave, if you\u2019re not satisfied with who you are, nothing and no one else will ever be enough.<\/p>\n

And this I\u2019m speaking from experience. Every time a problem appears in your life, start solving it by working on yourself.<\/p>\n

When you deal with all your issues and accept yourself for who you are and forgive yourself for what you resent, you\u2019ll be able to move forward.<\/p>\n

Therefore, love yourself. Analyze things you don\u2019t like and change them. You can do it if you really want to.<\/p>\n

2. Haz que salga con tus amigos casados<\/h2>\n
\"alegre<\/figure>\n

\u00bfSabes que a veces las personas que pasan mucho tiempo juntas empiezan a actuar como la otra?<\/p>\n

Empiezan a hablar de la misma manera y, en casos extremos, incluso empiezan a parecerse.<\/p>\n

Pues bien, ese fen\u00f3meno se llama r\u00e9plica<\/em>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a behavior in which one person, without being aware of it, imitates another person\u2019s speech pattern, body language, or attitude.<\/p>\n

This happens in everyday interaction and both the person who is mirroring and the person being mirrored don\u2019t pick up on the fact that it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

Why am I saying this? Well, if you get him to hang out with your married friends and he happens to like them, he\u2019ll pick up on their behavior and he\u2019ll start mirroring them, which will make the idea of marriage more appealing than ever.<\/p>\n

Tus amigos casados le ense\u00f1ar\u00e1n que el matrimonio tiene sus altibajos, pero que, al final, el amor que os profes\u00e1is siempre gana.<\/p>\n

Algunos hombres son m\u00e1s precavidos a la hora de casarse porque proceden de familias desestructuradas.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que han aprendido y o\u00eddo han sido peleas y faltas de respeto. Por lo tanto, el matrimonio tiene connotaciones negativas para ellos.<\/p>\n

Esfu\u00e9rzate por demostrarles que se equivocan. Demu\u00e9strales con tus amigos casados que las cosas no siempre van mal.<\/p>\n

3. Mantener siempre viva la comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

The moment you stop the communication, you\u2019re going to be facing real problems.<\/p>\n

Como ves, mientras hables con tu pareja, cualquier tipo de da\u00f1o causado puede deshacerse. La conversaci\u00f3n puede resolver cualquier conflicto.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t feel negative things toward your partner, you have to talk to him.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re positive, when he has done something praiseworthy, let him know he has done a good thing. Simply put, share every little thing with your partner.<\/p>\n

La comunicaci\u00f3n es vital desde el principio de la relaci\u00f3n y a lo largo de todo el matrimonio.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy to live with one person for the rest of your life, even si amas profundamente a esa persona<\/a>. Por lo tanto, nunca guardes cosas enterradas en tu interior.<\/p>\n

Cuando te conviertas en una persona centrada en la comunicaci\u00f3n, sin duda se casar\u00e1 contigo.<\/p>\n

4. Haz que te necesite<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

If you want to have him forever, you\u2019ll have to become everything to him.<\/p>\n

When he needs a friend, you\u2019ll have to be one, when he needs someone to watch the game with, you\u2019ll have to do it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to be a lover, friend, support, and hobby partner \u2013 all in one.<\/p>\n

As you\u2019ll see, it isn\u2019t that hard to do. Maybe it sounds like a lot of work, but when you love someone, you already are all of those things to that person.<\/p>\n

Convi\u00e9rtete en el paquete completo si quieres tenerlo en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Make him need you by making his time with you priceless. When you\u2019re together, you\u2019ll laugh and make beautiful memories.<\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t want to walk away from that. Tone down the drama to a minimum and enjoy life with the person you love.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, otra cosa crucial que apreciar\u00e1 m\u00e1s que todo es dedicarle algo de tiempo a solas.<\/p>\n

Todos los hombres lo necesitan y, para ser sincera, t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n. Tienes que darle espacio, tiempo para pensar y ocuparse de sus cosas por s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what he does when he\u2019s alone. One thing matters only \u2013 that he respects the fact you\u2019re letting him breathe.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo le demuestra que tienes la confianza suficiente para dejarle marchar. Le demuestra que conf\u00edas en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He will realize that being with you doesn\u2019t mean his freedom will vanish.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll realize nothing will change, except the fact he\u2019ll have constant support by his side.<\/p>\n

5. Mantente natural<\/h2>\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n

You don\u2019t need fake boobs or lips to be attractive.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica no es el \u00fanico tipo de atracci\u00f3n<\/a> y con el tiempo se desvanece, que es la raz\u00f3n por la que la mayor\u00eda de las relaciones fracasan.<\/p>\n

La atracci\u00f3n viene de dentro, de tu propia esencia, y no hay cirug\u00eda pl\u00e1stica que pueda superarla.<\/p>\n

You have to show your partner the real you. When you get up in the morning, you won\u2019t be wearing any makeup.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be covering your natural face when you sleep beside the man you love.<\/p>\n

And he doesn\u2019t want you to do that. He doesn’t want you to hide the real you.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, te garantizo que le gustar\u00e1s m\u00e1s sin maquillaje que llevando toda la fachada.<\/p>\n

Ning\u00fan hombre quiere que su pareja oculte qui\u00e9n es realmente durante el resto de su vida.<\/p>\n

6. Romper la rutina<\/h2>\n
\"tres<\/figure>\n

Los hombres se acomodan f\u00e1cilmente y cuando llegan a ese estado, se convierte en una rutina de la que es muy dif\u00edcil escapar.<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, tu chico se ha acostumbrado a que est\u00e9s en casa cada vez que llega del trabajo, o a que te quedes en casa el viernes por la noche para ver Netflix los dos.<\/p>\n

Siempre ha sido as\u00ed. Est\u00e1 acostumbrado a que siempre est\u00e9s ah\u00ed. Pues s\u00e9 listo y cambia un poco las cosas.<\/p>\n

When he comes from work, don\u2019t be at home. Go out with your friends on a Friday night. Do something he doesn\u2019t expect you to do.<\/p>\n

In a way, you\u2019re letting him know that you too have a life of your own and it doesn\u2019t have to revolve around his.<\/p>\n

Break your routine and shake him up a bit. He\u2019ll realize you won\u2019t wait for him forever.<\/p>\n

7. Mant\u00e9n el sexy<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

We\u2019ve already covered the whole physical attraction aspect. We\u2019ve agreed on the fact that it doesn\u2019t matter that much in the long run.<\/p>\n

This is still true, but it doesn\u2019t mean you should stop being sexy, that you should stop trying.<\/p>\n

Hay mujeres que se dejan llevar por completo cuando mantienen una relaci\u00f3n larga y seria.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why that happens, but I can guess \u2013 they get too comfortable; they are sure their partner is there for them and he isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Well, that lack of effort is the number one relationship killer. You\u2019re stuck in a rut of which you can\u2019t get out.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n se vuelve m\u00e1s aburrida cada d\u00eda que pasa y te sientes miserable en una relaci\u00f3n que sol\u00eda funcionar.<\/p>\n

Keep sexy alive and don\u2019t become boring and unpredictable. After all, he is not only marrying a friend but a lover, too.<\/p>\n

8. Darle pistas para que se vaya<\/h2>\n
\"vista<\/figure>\n

Puedes hacerlo si todo lo dem\u00e1s falla.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve tried to play this smart and fair but it didn\u2019t work, then it\u2019s time to bring out the big guns and play the game, badass style.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for a little bit of manipulation.<\/p>\n

Si ves que tu relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 estancada, simplemente tienes que hacer algo para poner las cosas en marcha y despertar a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Casually mention that you\u2019re really thinking about moving to another city because you have a job opportunity or just let him know that you\u2019re bored with the place you\u2019re in right now and you want something new and exciting.<\/p>\n

But never leave things just at words. Make plans like you\u2019re really going to do it. Make your plan believable and real.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t have any plans, make him believe that you do.<\/p>\n

Haz absolutamente todo lo necesario para sacudirle un poco y que se d\u00e9 cuenta de que te necesita y quiere pasar su vida contigo.<\/p>\n

A veces los hombres necesitan ese empujoncito.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Cu\u00e1nto tiempo salir con alguien antes de comprometerte a los 30: 10 cosas que debes saber<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

9. Ser emocionalmente estable<\/h2>\n
\"joven<\/figure>\n

Nadie quiere a su lado a una reina del drama. Demasiada pasi\u00f3n y demasiado de todo no es bueno.<\/p>\n

You need to be balanced \u2013 not too cold and not too emotional.<\/p>\n

Men like stable women who don\u2019t lose their minds at every trifle and don\u2019t make a fuss about something that is not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, why wouldn\u2019t they want a nice and stable woman by their side?<\/p>\n

T\u00fa como mujer tambi\u00e9n buscas un hombre estable que sea tu apoyo para el resto de tu vida, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Mantener la calma y la compostura no es f\u00e1cil, porque la vida es agitada y todo tipo de cosas suceden constantemente.<\/p>\n

La vida nos depara retos y problemas a cada paso, y no todo el mundo puede afrontarlos y mantener la cabeza despejada al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n

If you notice that you\u2019ve been dramatizing about things that are not important, or they are important to you but others don\u2019t see it that way, you should probably seek help.<\/p>\n

Habla con un profesional que te ayude a afrontar la vida sin armar jaleo.<\/p>\n

10. Keep dating fun as it\u2019s supposed to be<\/h2>\n
\"pareja<\/figure>\n

Don\u2019t mention things before it\u2019s time to mention them. You\u2019ll ruin everything.<\/p>\n

The most important thing you have to do if you want a man to marry you is to never pressure him. Don\u2019t even joke about getting married.<\/p>\n

Men take commitment very seriously and they won\u2019t do it if they aren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re pressuring them, it will only make them back off and completely walk away.<\/p>\n

You have to let things go their natural course. While you\u2019re dating, you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

Cuando te vea como alguien con quien podr\u00eda pasar su vida, se comprometer\u00e1 contigo.<\/p>\n

When he commits to you, then you can start talking about the future, although he will probably do it first. Slowly, you\u2019ll realize he\u2019s showing signs he\u2019s about to pop the question<\/a>.  <\/p>\n

11. El romance es una calle de doble sentido<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

You can\u2019t expect him to be the romantic one. You have to put in some effort, too.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it nice when your loved one surprises you with a romantic dinner or a nice present for no apparent reason other than pure love?<\/p>\n

Bueno, adivina qu\u00e9, ser\u00eda bueno para \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n. No es de piedra, tambi\u00e9n tiene sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Si quieres que te trate como a un igual, debes demostrarle que te preocupas por \u00e9l y que tambi\u00e9n puedes ser rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n

Give him a reason to stay in this relationship. Don\u2019t expect him to give all the time while you just take and never give anything back.<\/p>\n

Si sigues insistiendo en ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n, nunca se casar\u00e1 contigo.<\/p>\n

12. Think about how you\u2019re going to do the talk<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

If you have a feeling that you\u2019re not on the same page relationship-wise, think about your approach to him because what you\u2019re feeling isn\u2019t necessarily what he\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n

En lugar de dirigirte a \u00e9l con un tono serio, intenta que sea ligero y positivo.<\/p>\n

Hazte ver como que quieres solucionar las cosas y no romper definitivamente.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even have to say anything; your body language is talking for you.<\/p>\n

Be light-hearted and think optimistically. That\u2019s the vibe you\u2019re going to pass onto him.<\/p>\n

Dile que piensas casarte en el futuro y que quieres estar con una persona que tenga los mismos valores que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Luego, preg\u00fantale si siente lo mismo y si se ve tal vez alg\u00fan d\u00eda a tu lado.<\/p>\n

La sinceridad es siempre la clave. Pero el truco est\u00e1 en c\u00f3mo dices lo que piensas.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re going to say something, but you already have a bad feeling and you think it\u2019s not going to end well, you\u2019re letting that vibe spread to people around you.<\/p>\n

Pero si te diriges a tu persona de forma alegre y positiva, esa misma conversaci\u00f3n puede tomar un rumbo completamente distinto.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m saying you should play this smart.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 la mujer que eres y lleva este juego a otro nivel, al que s\u00f3lo t\u00fa sabes jugar.<\/p>\n

Pres\u00e9ntate como eres y \u00e9l entender\u00e1 lo que tiene que hacer, lo que ser\u00eda mejor para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

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