{"id":36021,"date":"2019-04-26T09:46:28","date_gmt":"2019-04-26T09:46:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36021"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:44:49","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:44:49","slug":"7-tragicas-senales-de-que-tu-relacion-se-esta-quemando-poco-a-poco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-tragicas-senales-de-que-tu-relacion-se-esta-quemando-poco-a-poco\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales tr\u00e1gicas de que tu relaci\u00f3n se est\u00e1 consumiendo lentamente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siempre es importante ser honesto y franco con uno mismo, por dura que sea la realidad a la que te enfrentas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, you stay in a relationship that you know has run its course, simply because it\u2019s familiar and comforting.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s nice having someone there, even if the thing that kept you together has started fizzling out\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s a hard pill to swallow, admitting to yourself that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-major-red-flags-show-relationship\/\">tu relaci\u00f3n ha terminado<\/a>, because your pride is making you give it another try, even though you know there\u2019s really no point.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prolongar lo inevitable s\u00f3lo te hace sufrir innecesariamente y ni t\u00fa ni tu pareja os sent\u00eds felices y realizados. Entonces, \u00bfqui\u00e9n gana aqu\u00ed?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s better to just rip off the band aid and face the facts, because that is the only healthy way to cope with a relationship that is no longer thriving.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quedarse por las razones equivocadas no es raz\u00f3n para quedarse.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you feel like your relationship is heading towards its demise, it\u2019s likely that your gut is trying to tell you something, so you should pay close attention and listen to it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Aqu\u00ed tienes 7 se\u00f1ales que indican que tu relaci\u00f3n se est\u00e1 consumiendo poco a poco y que ya no hay raz\u00f3n para seguir con ella.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. No tienes problema en imaginarte con otra persona<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If the thought of being intimate with another person doesn\u2019t repulse you at all, and actually makes you feel positive and excited, that\u2019s the first sign that you are already halfway out the door.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you are happy and fulfilled in a relationship, you can\u2019t really imagine being with another person.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pensar en eso ser\u00eda imposible, ya que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/7-tristes-senales-de-que-has-perdido-el-interes-por-tu-pareja\/\">tu pareja<\/a> es todo lo que podr\u00edas desear.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But when you\u2019re already seeing yourself with another man (regardless of who it is), it\u2019s a true sign that it really is over, at least on your part. You just need to embrace it and accept it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Your goals and dreams are completely different and you can\u2019t find middle ground<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuando dos personas se aman, se dejan la piel para alinear sus dos mundos lo mejor posible, por todos los medios.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El compromiso es la clave para dos parejas con estilos de vida diferentes que realmente quieren que funcione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pero cuando t\u00fa y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-senales-de-que-tu-y-tu-hombre-sois-una-pareja-poderosa\/\">tu hombre<\/a> can\u2019t seem to find middle ground on anything, that\u2019s a huge problem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That is something that is likely going to cause more and more friction in your future and it\u2019s only going to get messier.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuando quieres a una persona, haces todo lo posible para que funcione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But when you don\u2019t want to give up on any of your ideas and dreams, it signifies that your love is not that strong after all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. You wouldn\u2019t trust him with your life<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the biggest red flag there is. If this person you\u2019re with is not somebody you would trust with your life, then what are you even still doing there?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se supone que tu pareja es la \u00fanica persona que tiene toda tu confianza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But if you find yourself unsure and uneasy about trusting him with serious things, you\u2019re truly done with this relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sea lo que sea lo que caus\u00f3 esta falta de confianza en tu pareja, est\u00e1 claro que ha hecho da\u00f1o, y ahora s\u00f3lo tienes que encontrar la manera de afrontarlo lo mejor que puedas, y decidir c\u00f3mo seguir adelante.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Sigues teniendo los mismos argumentos una y otra vez<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is a big problem. If you can\u2019t put any of your arguments behind you, it\u2019s a sign of a much bigger issue.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sure, everybody fights sooner or later, and there\u2019s no way around it. But eventually, they also find a way to work it out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, when you just can\u2019t find a solution that benefits you both, at least in part, you two really can\u2019t seem to find your way back to how it was, or you simply don\u2019t want to. It\u2019s up to you to recognize which one it is.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Las personas que se preocupan por los dem\u00e1s acaban encontrando puntos en com\u00fan, porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-things-mean-youre-serious-relationship-love-like-crazy\/\">amaos los unos a los otros<\/a> demasiado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you can\u2019t seem to do that, it\u2019s probably for the best that you end it before it gets too messy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. You don\u2019t really care how he feels anymore<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You just aren\u2019t as bothered about hurting his feelings as you used to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You definitely don\u2019t mean him any harm, it\u2019s just that his pain no longer affects you that much. Not the way it used to, anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This doesn\u2019t make you a bad person, it just means you have probably fallen out of love with him, and you\u2019re no longer part of this relationship in your head.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si as\u00ed fuera, sus sentimientos ser\u00edan mucho m\u00e1s importantes para ti y su estado de \u00e1nimo afectar\u00eda literalmente al tuyo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Las cosas m\u00e1s peque\u00f1as sobre \u00e9l te molestan much\u00edsimo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The little quirks about him used to be so cute and endearing to you, but now, you can\u2019t stand them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se ha vuelto tan molesto que quieres gritarle que deje de hacer eso que antes te parec\u00eda tan mono, pero de alguna manera te recompones y mantienes la calma.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este es un claro indicio de una relaci\u00f3n que se est\u00e1 quemando.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuando las cosas que antes os parec\u00edan bonitas del otro os irritan m\u00e1s de la cuenta, es evidente que ya no hay amor rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te preocupas por \u00e9l como persona, seguro, pero definitivamente no como novio. Ya no.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ser-astuto-en-una-relacion\/\">7 consecuencias de ser furtivo en una relaci\u00f3n (+ c\u00f3mo afrontarlas)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Pas\u00e1is mucho tiempo lejos el uno del otro y ambos lo llev\u00e1is bien.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cero necesidad de gastar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-formas-en-las-que-pasar-demasiado-tiempo-juntos-arruinara-tu-relacion\/\">tiempo juntos<\/a> es una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s claras de que tu relaci\u00f3n se ha esfumado de verdad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t have to be attached at the hip, but you do need to want to spend time with each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When that feeling is gone and you\u2019re perfectly fine spending lots of time apart, there is really nothing left to be said there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps it\u2019s best you two just have a heart to heart in order to realize when it all started going downhill and simply try to end things on a good note.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just because you\u2019re no longer crazy in love with each other, doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t care about each other as individuals.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take this as an opportunity to have one of those amicable breakups where you both leave with zero resentment towards each other, and take pride in that because that\u2019s the adult way to break up!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-36023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 se\u00f1ales tr\u00e1gicas de que tu relaci\u00f3n se est\u00e1 consumiendo lentamente\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s always important to be honest and upfront with yourself, no matter how hard the reality you\u2019re facing may be. Sometimes, you stay in a relationship that you know has run its course, simply because it\u2019s familiar and comforting. It\u2019s nice having someone there, even if the thing that kept you together has started fizzling&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":36022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/shutterstock_767180629.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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