{"id":36131,"date":"2020-04-30T09:36:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T09:36:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36131"},"modified":"2021-08-11T19:43:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T19:43:13","slug":"5-cicatrices-invisibles-que-las-mujeres-emocionalmente-desatendidas-arrastran-en-sus-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cicatrices-invisibles-que-las-mujeres-emocionalmente-desatendidas-arrastran-en-sus-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cicatrices invisibles que las mujeres con problemas emocionales arrastran en sus relaciones"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las personas con las que pasamos la mayor parte de nuestro tiempo son las que acaban molde\u00e1ndonos para convertirnos en lo que finalmente somos.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no denying that.<\/p>\n

Los que te rodean son los que m\u00e1s influyen en lo que eres como persona.<\/p>\n

And our romantic partners are those we spend majority of our time with, so it\u2019s no surprise they have the biggest hold on us.<\/p>\n

Women who spend time in relationships where their needs aren\u2019t fulfilled and where they are left feeling alone and neglected have a tendency to silently carry emotional scars into their future relationships.<\/p>\n

Cuando una mujer pasa la mayor parte del tiempo en compa\u00f1\u00eda de un hombre que la desatiende emocionalmente, eso deja una huella importante en ella.<\/p>\n

No es una marca que pueda verse con los ojos, sino algo que mantiene bien oculto, pero que siente profundamente.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por insalubridad, relaciones t\u00f3xicas<\/a>Las mujeres desarrollan una imagen muy distorsionada de s\u00ed mismas que no tiene nada que ver con la realidad, y todo que ver con los hombres que hacen todo lo posible para hacerlas sentir peque\u00f1as y sin valor.<\/p>\n

Y una vez que una mujer encuentra por fin la fuerza interior para salir de ese horrible entorno, ya no es la misma de antes.<\/p>\n

Las duras palabras que estaba tan acostumbrada a o\u00edr nunca abandonan su mente y siguen resonando en su cabeza.<\/em><\/p>\n

El car\u00e1cter controlador de su pareja la deja intranquila y asustada ante la posibilidad de ser libre por fin.<\/em><\/p>\n

La retorcida imagen de s\u00ed misma no siendo <\/em>suficientemente bueno<\/em><\/a> haunts her so much that she can\u2019t look in the mirror without seeing failure anymore.<\/em><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s only scratching the surface.<\/p>\n

Los efectos de una relaci\u00f3n emocionalmente insatisfactoria y t\u00f3xica son realmente graves, y cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo est\u00e9s expuesto a ella, m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil te resultar\u00e1 volver a sentirte t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n

Ser abandonada emocionalmente deja estas 5 cicatrices invisibles en una mujer, y esas cicatrices permanecen con ella durante mucho tiempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

Desarrolla problemas de apego y miedo al rechazo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando una mujer est\u00e1 rodeada de cero amor, apoyo y estabilidad emocional, se le ense\u00f1a que eso es lo que se merece.<\/p>\n

Having a partner that is unavailable, unloving, and inconsistent teaches her not to open up to people. And with time, that\u2019s exactly what happens.<\/p>\n

When you spend enough time in that environment, you begin believing this is all that you\u2019re ever going to get, so you adapt and learn to expect nothing but rejection.<\/p>\n

Esperar que la gente te quiero<\/a> and stick by your side becomes but a fairy-tale, and you don\u2019t dare ask anything of anyone because you are so used to rejection, why would it be any different now?<\/p>\n

Siempre espera decepciones y es incapaz de confiar en nadie.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Having a partner who is emotionally absent and keeps pushing you away, teaches you that you can\u2019t really trust him or anyone after him.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que te acercas a alguien, sigues esperando que te decepcione.<\/p>\n

Aunque tengan buenas intenciones, no te f\u00edas porque la experiencia te ha ense\u00f1ado a ser siempre prudente y a no bajar la guardia.<\/p>\n

Te ense\u00f1an que nadie est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para protegerte<\/a> y mantenerte a salvo, para que aprendas a manejar todo por ti mismo, sin importar lo desesperadamente que necesites que alguien te ayude.<\/p>\n

You stop feeling safe in relationships, so you choose to be alone, as you\u2019re the only one you know you can truly trust.<\/p>\n

Se pone a s\u00ed misma y a sus propias necesidades en \u00faltimo lugar<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando uno est\u00e1 desatendido emocionalmente, no est\u00e1 acostumbrado a que se escuchen sus necesidades, y mucho menos a que se satisfagan.<\/p>\n

Te ense\u00f1an que lo que quieres es irrelevante y, por tanto, a no atreverte a pedir nada.<\/p>\n

You are never given the time of day, and even when you do get some attention, you feel so grateful for it that you couldn\u2019t imagine asking for more.<\/p>\n

You are sad, borderline depressed, and completely unfulfilled, but doing something to change that feels selfish as you\u2019re simply not used to putting yourself first.<\/p>\n

Your needs have never been something of importance and it\u2019s going to take a while before you learn to stick up for what you want and need.<\/p>\n

Se deja llevar por el miedo al fracaso<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Nunca le dijeron que nada de lo que hac\u00eda era suficientemente bueno. Nunca ha o\u00eddo una palabra amable, ni siquiera por el esfuerzo que siempre hace.<\/p>\n

Fracaso es la \u00fanica palabra que conoce.<\/p>\n

Y tristemente, eso es lo que la lleva por la vida.<\/p>\n

Whatever she does, she feels and fears she is going to fail. She has never been told that it\u2019s okay not always being successful at everything.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t know that she\u2019s still doing great, even if occasionally she hits a bump.<\/p>\n

El fracaso siempre est\u00e1 en su mente, y tiene su emocionalmente abusivo<\/a> \u00a1ex para agradec\u00e9rselo!<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t feel worthy of love and attention<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is the biggest emotional scar she is left with. She is taught that she\u2019s worthless. She doesn\u2019t deserve love and she has zero right asking for it.<\/p>\n

Es ego\u00edsta pedir atenci\u00f3n y cualquier migaja de afecto que reciba, tiene que estar agradecida.<\/p>\n

Nunca la han colmado de amor ni le han dicho lo incre\u00edble y resistente que es.<\/p>\n

La cubr\u00eda una oscura nube de dudas sobre s\u00ed misma y nunca pod\u00eda escapar de ella.<\/p>\n

Now, even if she meets someone nice and with genuine intentions, it\u2019s going to take a long time before she can believe that she is worthy of his affection.<\/p>\n

She hasn\u2019t had a loving journey so far… and that has left her wounded.<\/p>\n

But she hasn\u2019t given up on herself, and she never will!<\/p>\n

Haber sido abandonada emocionalmente puede haberla roto, pero no irreparablemente.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesita algo de tiempo y apoyo, y volver\u00e1 a prosperar. Obs\u00e9rvala.<\/p>\n

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