{"id":36147,"date":"2020-06-30T10:11:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T10:11:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36147"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:19:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:19:51","slug":"6-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-esta-tomando-el-pelo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-esta-tomando-el-pelo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cosas que hacer cuando te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/cuando-amas-a-alguien-haces-todo-lo-posible-para-que-las-cosas-funcionen\/\">Cuando amas a alguien<\/a>nunca piensas en dejarte enga\u00f1ar por ellos.<\/p>\r\n<p>Si tienes un problema, crees que es algo a lo que se enfrentan todas las parejas y que pasar\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n<p>But there are problems that can\u2019t be ignored and the sooner you accept that they are happening, the easier it will be for you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Una de ellas es cuando alguien que es todo tu mundo te sigue la corriente.<\/p>\r\n<p>Cuando eso ocurre, dejas de creer en el amor y pierdes la esperanza de que alguien te quiera como te mereces.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero es en ese momento cuando hay que actuar y no compadecerse de uno mismo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Vamos, no vas a dejar que un hombre te trate como una mierda y se salga con la suya.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quiz\u00e1 algunas de las siguientes cosas puedan ayudarte a volver a ponerte en pie y a recuperar tu fe en el amor.<\/p>\r\n<h2>1. Corta todo contacto con \u00e9l<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada con el tel\u00e9fono en la mano y mirando al exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Si ha ocurrido algo inc\u00f3modo como esto, lo primero que tienes que hacer es cortar todo contacto posible con \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n<p>Eso significa nada de mensajes en las redes sociales o mensajes de texto, nada de llamadas telef\u00f3nicas y nada de comunicaci\u00f3n si le ves en persona.<\/p>\r\n<p>Deber\u00edas alejarte de \u00e9l todo lo posible porque acercarte a \u00e9l s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1 las cosas.<\/p>\r\n<p>Si contestas a sus llamadas o mensajes, empezar\u00e1 a pensar que puede conquistarte de nuevo e intentar\u00e1 hacerlo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero una vez que dejes de comunicarte con \u00e9l, ver\u00e1 que no eres tan f\u00e1cil como pensaba.<\/p>\r\n<p>Trust me, your indifference will hurt him more than any curse, so play it smart and don\u2019t be available to him.<\/p>\r\n<h2>2. Don\u2019t blame yourself<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89647\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mujer morena sentada en casa parece pensativa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Lo peor que te puede pasar es que empieces a culparte y le perdones todo lo que te ha hecho.<\/p>\r\n<p>\u00a1Que le jodan! \u00c9l es el culpable y deber\u00eda tener el rabo entre las piernas y desaparecer de tu vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you should move on as though he didn\u2019t exist. Do you know why? Because a douchebag like him doesn\u2019t deserve one tear from your eye.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/i-gave-you-more-chances-than-you-deserved-its-time-for-me-to-walk-away\/\">Nunca te mereci\u00f3<\/a>, but you were blinded by love and couldn\u2019t see his real face.<\/p>\r\n<p>But now you know what he is like, so you should steer clear of him. Don\u2019t think you were the guilty one.<\/p>\r\n<p>Si le demuestras que sientes haberle dejado marchar, aprovechar\u00e1 esa oportunidad e intentar\u00e1 colarse de nuevo en tu vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ten confianza en ti mismo y sabe lo que quieres. Solo as\u00ed podr\u00e1s llegar a donde quieres.<\/p>\r\n<h2>3. Don\u2019t change yourself<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyada en un sof\u00e1 dentro de casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Just because one man wasn\u2019t good for you, doesn\u2019t mean that someone else won\u2019t be your perfect match.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, whatever you do, don\u2019t change who you really are. If you are playful and easy-going, stay true to yourself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t become small just so a man in your life can look big.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t burn just to bring light to someone else\u2019s life. Instead, after something like this happens to you, get out of this situation stronger than ever.<\/p>\r\n<p>Show him that you can do way better than him and that his mind games didn\u2019t destroy you, they just made you stronger.<\/p>\r\n<h2>4. Encontrar a otra persona &nbsp;<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada junto al lago y hablando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I am not saying you need to jump into someone\u2019s bed the day after you break up with him, but after you feel that you are ready, open your heart to someone new.<\/p>\r\n<p>But this time be smarter and more curious. Give yourself more time to get to know him and don\u2019t let him know that you are always available for him.<\/p>\r\n<p>Demu\u00e9strale que tiene que hacer un esfuerzo adicional para conquistarte porque eres una mujer de gran valor.<\/p>\r\n<p>Si te respetas lo suficiente, \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n te respetar\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n<p>Be with someone who you feel comfortable with and never do things you don\u2019t like, just to make him feel better about himself.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo as\u00ed encontrar\u00e1s la verdadera felicidad y podr\u00e1s ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo en una relaci\u00f3n amorosa.<\/p>\r\n<h2>5. Seguir adelante &nbsp;<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town.jpg\" alt=\"chica rubia paseando por el casco antiguo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>One clever thing you can do after you find out that he has been stringing you along is to simply move on. Okay, it didn\u2019t work out with him. So what?<\/p>\r\n<p>Is he the only man in the world? Of course he isn\u2019t, so why would you sweat the small stuff?<\/p>\r\n<p>Deber\u00edas pasar p\u00e1gina de la relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica en la que te metiste y ahorrarte el tiempo.<\/p>\r\n<p>I know it will be hard in the beginning because you\u2019ll think about him a lot, but after some time, it will fall into place like a missing puzzle piece.<\/p>\r\n<p>Te arrepentir\u00e1s de no haberle dejado antes porque te sientes tan poderosa y estupenda en tu piel ahora que \u00e9l ya no forma parte de tu vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero nunca es tarde para lo bueno, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\r\n<p>As\u00ed que adelante, empieza un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de tu vida, pero esta vez con alguien que te merezca de verdad.<\/p>\r\n<h2>6. Olv\u00eddate de \u00e9l<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer sentada en un sill\u00f3n marr\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I know it won\u2019t be easy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/he-will-come-back-when-you-forget-all-about-him\/\">olv\u00eddate de \u00e9l<\/a> una vez que romp\u00e1is, pero al final lo conseguir\u00e9is.<\/p>\r\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante es que no lo menciones a tus amigos y familiares.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you don\u2019t talk about someone, you tend to start forgetting him step by step.<\/p>\r\n<p>In love relationships, it is a slightly longer process because certain feelings are involved, but if you follow the no contact rule and if you don\u2019t talk about him, you will succeed in it.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you feel he will always be on your mind, God will send you someone who will take up all your attention and you won\u2019t think about your ex at all.<\/p>\r\n<p>Each one of us gets what we deserve, but good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tendr\u00e1s que esperar a la persona adecuada un poco m\u00e1s, pero al final, el que te quiera m\u00e1s que a s\u00ed mismo te abrazar\u00e1 por la ma\u00f1ana, dici\u00e9ndote que tiene mucha suerte de tenerte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-89655 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 cosas que hacer cuando te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you love someone, you never think of being strung along by them. If you have a problem, you believe it is something every couple faces and will pass. But there are problems that can\u2019t be ignored and the sooner you accept that they are happening, the easier it will be for you. 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