{"id":36296,"date":"2020-08-07T11:24:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T11:24:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36296"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:41:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:41:11","slug":"nunca-dejes-que-tu-soledad-te-haga-volver-con-tu-ex-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-dejes-que-tu-soledad-te-haga-volver-con-tu-ex-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"No dejes que tu soledad te haga volver con tu ex t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo entiendo. A veces... tu soledad saca lo mejor de ti y simplemente cedes. <\/em><\/p>\n

You do the one thing you promised yourself you\u2019d never do. You let him back in.<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re weak, alone and miserable. You need this feeling of dread to go away and you need it now.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve estar solo<\/a> anymore. You don\u2019t deserve to feel like the only person on the planet who just can\u2019t seem to get it right.<\/p>\n

Quieres tu final feliz. Sabes muy bien que te lo mereces.<\/p>\n

Y despu\u00e9s de tantas noches desesperadas y solitarias de llorar hasta quedarte dormida y ahogar tus penas en vino y chupitos, coges el tel\u00e9fono y le llamas.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s the wrong thing to do. You know he\u2019s bad news. Yet\u2026 you say, \u201c\u00a1A la mierda!<\/em>\u2019\u2019 and dial that number you sadly still know by heart.<\/p>\n

Te odias por ello, pero el da\u00f1o ya est\u00e1 hecho.<\/p>\n

He answers on the first ring, as if he somehow predicted you\u2019d call\u2026 and he\u2019s already on his way over.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a entrar en p\u00e1nico.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 co\u00f1o acabas de hacer? \u00bfC\u00f3mo es que traerlo de vuelta a tu vida va a ayudarte de alguna manera?<\/em><\/p>\n

Tard\u00e9 meses en reunir fuerzas para salir de esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Fueron necesarias muchas conversaciones dif\u00edciles con tu mejores amigos<\/a> para finalmente ayudarte a verlo como el imb\u00e9cil t\u00f3xico que es.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

And right now\u2026 you\u2019re throwing it all away over one inconsolable, weak night.<\/p>\n

\u00bfMerece la pena? \u00bfO has tocado fondo?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ambos sabemos c\u00f3mo te sentiste la ma\u00f1ana siguiente.<\/p>\n

Sentiste que te traicionaste a ti misma por una noche de sexo (probablemente) incre\u00edble con un ex que es todo tipo de cosas malas para ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like all the effort you put into finding yourself after dumping his sorry ass has been thrown into the gutter.<\/p>\n

Y ahora tienes que hacerlo todo de nuevo.<\/p>\n

This scenario is very familiar to me. I\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n

Conozco el dolor. Entiendo la agon\u00eda de dejar que el imb\u00e9cil de tu ex vuelva a tu vida despu\u00e9s de haber tardado tanto en curarte tras haberlo dejado.<\/p>\n

And I know for a fact that it\u2019s seriously not worth it.<\/em><\/p>\n

Pasar por una ruptura ya es bastante desagradable.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t just make yourself deja de quererlo<\/a> s\u00f3lo porque de repente ves que es un desperdicio t\u00f3xico de aliento.<\/p>\n

Sure, you know he\u2019s no good but damn\u2026 you still freaking love that asshole!<\/p>\n

You hate yourself for admitting it but that\u2019s just how it is. And you don\u2019t really know how to make that love stop and get over him just like that.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t happen. Maybe in the movies\u2026 but real life is a motherfucker.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to tell you I truly sympathize with you. It sucks letting your weak side get the best of you and letting the mistake of your life back into your arms.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, se siente bien por esa \u00fanica noche. Es tan reconfortante sentirlo cerca y recordar por qu\u00e9 lo dejaste pasar tanto tiempo.<\/p>\n

He knows just how to make you feel so good. He knows what you don\u2019t like. He knows how to make you smile when all you want to do is hate his guts.<\/p>\n

Pero en esos momentos, cuando quieras marcar su n\u00famero y rendirte, recu\u00e9rdate exactamente qui\u00e9n es.<\/p>\n

Es la persona que te caus\u00f3 mucho dolor. Dio por sentado tu amor e hizo lo que le dio la gana, sin importarle c\u00f3mo te hac\u00eda sentir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Te hizo sentir como una mierda cuando diste a conocer tus sentimientos. <\/em><\/p>\n

Te hizo parecer una reina del drama por querer que \u00e9l reconociera tus sentimientos de una vez.<\/em><\/p>\n

You cried so many tears over his shitty behavior. You spent countless nights crying without making a sound so that he wouldn\u2019t hear you.<\/em><\/p>\n

Claro, era simp\u00e1tico cuando quer\u00eda, pero eso era muy raro.<\/p>\n

It only ever happened when he was having a good day and couldn\u2019t help but tratarte bien<\/a> debido a su buen humor.<\/p>\n

But as soon as things would go south, he\u2019d turn into a toxic person who you didn\u2019t recognize anymore.<\/p>\n

You loved him but you couldn\u2019t even understand why.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Y eso es lo que debes recordarte la pr\u00f3xima vez que desees devolverle la llave de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Te tom\u00f3 tanto tiempo sacarlo de tu vida y de tu cabeza. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ibas a pasar por encima de eso? <\/em><\/p>\n

Resp\u00e9tate lo suficiente como para saber <\/em>te mereces algo mejor<\/em><\/a>!<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow your one lonely night to dictate how your life is going to unfold.<\/em><\/p>\n

In the morning, you\u2019re going to be full of regret and you\u2019ll hate yourself for what you did.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t! Call somebody else instead and vent. But don\u2019t call that number, no matter how much you want to.<\/p>\n

Disminuir\u00e1 todos los esfuerzos que hiciste y todo el trabajo duro que pusiste en encarrilar tu vida. <\/em><\/p>\n

Te sentir\u00e1s bien durante una noche, pero despu\u00e9s apestar\u00e1s durante muchos meses.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth it. HE\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get better but only if you stay strong and delete that number once and for all.<\/p>\n

Your loneliness will go away\u2026 but he is never going to stop being a toxic waste of your time!<\/p>\n

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I get it. Sometimes\u2026 your loneliness gets the better of you and you just cave in. You do the one thing you promised yourself you\u2019d never do. You let him back in. You\u2019re weak, alone and miserable. You need this feeling of dread to go away and you need it now. You don\u2019t deserve to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":114696,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Never-Let-Your-Loneliness-Drive-You-Back-To-Your-Toxic-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}