{"id":36371,"date":"2019-05-08T12:52:05","date_gmt":"2019-05-08T12:52:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36371"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:50:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:50:09","slug":"que-hacer-si-usted-y-su-pareja-no-hablan-el-mismo-idioma-del-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-hacer-si-usted-y-su-pareja-no-hablan-el-mismo-idioma-del-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 hacer si tu pareja y t\u00fa no habl\u00e1is el mismo idioma del amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque los investigadores han demostrado que es falsa la vieja estad\u00edstica de que la mitad de los matrimonios acaban en divorcio, lo cierto es que muchas personas se sienten insatisfechas en sus relaciones sentimentales. A veces surgen diferencias irreconciliables, pero otras, los conflictos amorosos se derivan de la falta de comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Gary Chapman, autor de Los cinco lenguajes del amor: El secreto del amor duradero<\/em>, asserts that feeling unloved occurs when romantic partners speak different love languages. By learning about their partner’s style, people can find greater satisfaction in their relationships. What happens when partners speak completely different languages \u2014 is their relationship doomed or can they overcome getting lost in translation?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

T\u00f3mate tu tiempo para aprender los lenguajes del amor<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Qu\u00e9<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The first step to improving the communication between partners involves discovering what love languages they speak. Those wishing to learn which love languages they prefer using can find a bounty of free online tests available \u2014 they\u2019re actually pretty fun!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

El cuestionario pondera por orden de importancia las distintas formas en que las personas demuestran que se preocupan por ellas. Una vez que una persona descubre qu\u00e9 tipo de acciones la hacen sentir m\u00e1s querida, puede comunic\u00e1rselo a su boo.
Los cinco lenguajes del amor son:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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  1. Tiempo de calidad.<\/b> Las personas que m\u00e1s valoran esta lengua aprecian pasar tiempo con su pareja. Adoran cosas como los picnics en el parque, donde pasan tiempo ininterrumpido con la persona a la que aman. Dar prioridad al trabajo y a salir con los amigos frente a pasar tiempo juntos les hace sentirse poco queridos.<\/li>\r\n
  2. Actos de servicio.<\/b> A las personas que punt\u00faan alto en este lenguaje les encanta que su pareja les eche una mano. Se vuelven locos cuando su pareja se encarga de una tarea que ellos desprecian especialmente, como lavar la ropa. Para ellos, la pereza es sin\u00f3nimo de ego\u00edsmo. Tumbarse en el sof\u00e1 todo el rato mientras pasan la aspiradora es una buena forma de volver a hacer swipe en Tinder.<\/li>\r\n
  3. Palabras de afirmaci\u00f3n. <\/b>Stevie Wonder sang about those who appreciate this language in “I Just Called to Say I Love You.” People who value words of affirmation live for praise, compliments or simple reassurances they are loved. Keeping mum and refusing to discuss emotions makes these folks feel neglected.<\/li>\r\n
  4. Tacto f\u00edsico. <\/b>Peeps who favor physical contact make the perfect mates to curl up with and cuddle. They adore it when their partner holds their hand in public, and greetings that don’t include a big hug baffle them. The touch need not necessarily involve sex, but relationships with those who shun physical demonstrations of emotion leave them hollow.<\/li>\r\n
  5. Recibir regalos.<\/b> OK, for real, who doesn’t like getting presents? Folks who value receiving gifts may not expect to find a ribbon-wrapped Beemer in the driveway on Christmas morning, but sending flowers to their office for no reason lights up their smile. Tokens of affection need not cost a dime, but still, the \u2018Scroogier\u2019 partners of the world may struggle when their partner speaks this language.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    De coraz\u00f3n a coraz\u00f3n<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
    \"Qu\u00e9<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Knowledge is half the battle, but it won’t win the war unless someone communicates what they’ve learned with the one they love. Pick a time to talk when both parties are relaxed and unhurried, maybe during dinner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Try not to make the convo sound dire \u2014 the words “we need to talk” cause cold sweats and stomach butterflies. Frame the discussion in a positive way. After all, this chat is taking place because people want their relationship to work. Let them know this!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Comparta lo aprendido sobre su lenguaje amoroso. Incluso pueden hacer el test juntos y comparar los resultados. Esto ayuda a mantener el ambiente alegre y animado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    A continuaci\u00f3n, comparta algunas cosas concretas que su pareja puede hacer para invocar el amor. Los que valoran los actos de servicio, por ejemplo, podr\u00edan apreciar la forma en que su pareja lleva el reciclaje al centro de clasificaci\u00f3n. Los que reaccionan mejor ante el tiempo de calidad pueden apreciar su cita permanente con el cine los viernes por la noche.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Mantener el impulso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
    \"Qu\u00e9<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Sharing what makes someone tick romantically can make a relationship stronger, but making it last requires more commitment. When a person grows resentful or feels their partner doesn’t care, they should ask themselves if perhaps they’re showing affection in different ways.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Everyone has their own love language, which means that maybe they don’t say “I love you” out loud very often, but they make sure to change the oil in their loved one\u2019s car every three months. When someone does something that’s intended to make another feel loved, show them some appreciation! Agrad\u00e9zcales<\/a> y aseg\u00farate de corresponderles haciendo algo que les haga sentirse apreciados.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Comunicaci\u00f3n sana, relaciones sanas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Everyone knows one couple that\u2019s so different in nearly every way; people wonder how they clicked. Communication is the key \u2014 those who speak openly with their loved ones about their needs enjoy higher levels of satisfaction in their relationships. Find out how your partner says they care, and share with them the way they can make you feel special.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    por Kate Harveston <\/b><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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