{"id":36521,"date":"2019-05-13T07:09:17","date_gmt":"2019-05-13T07:09:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36521"},"modified":"2021-12-20T16:08:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:08:12","slug":"7-reglas-para-enviar-mensajes-de-texto-durante-una-cita-que-facilitaran-tu-vida-amorosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-reglas-para-enviar-mensajes-de-texto-durante-una-cita-que-facilitaran-tu-vida-amorosa\/","title":{"rendered":"7 reglas para enviar mensajes de texto durante una cita que facilitar\u00e1n tu vida amorosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

La forma en que env\u00edas los mensajes de texto y la forma en que interpretas los suyos en las fases iniciales de la cita pueden hacer o deshacer vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It seems like the dating world of today is unimaginable without texting and it seems to me it\u2019s a lot harder for us women than for men.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I think that\u2019s because whether we like to admit it or not, men made the rules of texting in their mind and it\u2019s no wonder we get lost in them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u2018When to text, when not to text?\u2019 , \u2018When is texting perceived as clingy and when as uninterested?\u2019 , \u2018Why hasn’t he texted back, it\u2019s already been half a day since I texted him?\u2019…. It\u2019s exhausting and it\u2019s taking up way too much of our time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s time we make our own rules and stick to them. I believe we all have had enough of playing by male rules; to be more precise, we have had enough of games altogether.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sigue estas 7 reglas para enviar mensajes de texto durante una cita y ver\u00e1s c\u00f3mo tu vida amorosa mejora y se hace m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Always text \u2018NO\u2019 to his last-minute plans <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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No sirve de nada quejarse a tus amigos de sus mensajes nocturnos y de sus planes para salir a \u00faltima hora.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That won\u2019t change a thing if you meet with him anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si quieres que piense en el futuro y haga planes para salir, ens\u00e9\u00f1ale el camino.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Every time he has a sudden desire to see you, tell him something along the lines of, \u201cSorry, I can\u2019t right now, I am somewhere\/have other plans.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Wish you had told me about it sooner.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s a nice and polite way to tell him that you won\u2019t be at his beck and call and that you want to be treated as a priority, not an option.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Desechar todas las teor\u00edas sobre los mensajes de texto frente a las llamadas. <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Most women would argue that if he only texts and never calls then he simply isn\u2019t interested enough. This couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s time to look at texting from a male point of view: it\u2019s easier and more efficient, they are usually better at expressing themselves in writing than through speech, algunos son t\u00edmidos <\/a>por tanto, m\u00e1s confianza al enviar mensajes de texto, algunos creen que hay menos posibilidades de meter la pata al enviar mensajes de texto, etc.<\/p>\r\n

Sin embargo, when he doesn’t text back<\/a> for days, you shouldn’t try to find excuses for such behavior. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Also, one more major thing to consider here is whether you\u2019ve been dating for a while or just had a few dates. You can\u2019t expect a man you\u2019ve been on three dates with to call you and talk to you for an hour, as he wouldn\u2019t know where to begin or what to say.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Insert an, \u201cI\u2019ll call you later,\u201d game changer<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Si realmente no le gustan los mensajes de texto y prefiere una llamada normal o incluso una videollamada, introduzca esa noci\u00f3n sutilmente en sus conversaciones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dile que se te da mucho mejor hablar que mandar mensajes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Or when you sense that the moment is right, just text \u2018Sorry I\u2019m busy right now but I\u2019ll call you later and tell you all about it\u2019.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

De este modo, t\u00fa dar\u00e1s el primer paso en cuanto a llamadas y ver\u00e1s si \u00e9l sigue tu ejemplo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s important you make some compromise here and meet each other halfway as it will be easier for other aspects of your relationship too.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t send sexts if you want more than sex <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Don\u2019t give him any boyfriend benefits until he is actually your boyfriend. Don\u2019t send sexts in the early phases of a relationship either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t have to be a prude but you can postpone sexting<\/a> hasta que se convierta en alguien a quien realmente conozcas y en quien conf\u00edes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If sexting begins too soon, he will assume that you are in it just for sex or that you are easy to get into bed and after he gets what he wants, he will be on his way. So, don\u2019t rush it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

On the other hand, if he insists on sexting or sends you texts that are full of sexual implications, you will know exactly where you stand with him; he is not interested in your heart\u2014just your body.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If that\u2019s not something you are into, wave him goodbye and send him packing, as he is not worth your time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Evitar caer en la trampa de las (malas) interpretaciones<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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What\u2019s taking him so long to respond? What is the meaning of his \u2018OK\u2019 text, is he mad at me?  <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ayer estuvimos mand\u00e1ndonos mensajes todo el d\u00eda, as\u00ed que hoy \u00bfha perdido el inter\u00e9s o est\u00e1 jugando? etc. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Most women love to interpret texts and unread texts, I know I was one of them until the simple truth slapped me in the face: The male brain is completely opposite to the female brain; we don\u2019t look at things the same way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Try to relax and not give it too much thought. In the early stages of dating, you don\u2019t need to be so strict as you are just getting to know each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He doesn\u2019t have to set a schedule of when to text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo importante es que veas que est\u00e1 interesado, que est\u00e1 haciendo todo lo posible por mantenerse en contacto y conocerte un poco mejor a trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto y, lo m\u00e1s importante, que est\u00e1 haciendo planes para verte en persona.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Nunca env\u00edes un SMS de seguimiento o un SMS de m\u00e1s<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cada vez que sientas el impulso de enviar un mensaje de seguimiento, res\u00edstete todo lo que puedas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si hubiera querido responder, ya lo habr\u00eda hecho, o puede que no haya visto tu mensaje, y si le das seguimiento parecer\u00e1 que est\u00e1s necesitada y desesperada por llamar su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he isn\u2019t sending a text back there is nothing you can do about it. Let him be. Not getting a text back is a strong message in itself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t make things worse on yourself by sending a follow-up text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t send him tons of texts either, as even if he responds to all of them it\u2019s the quickest way to suffocate your potential relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Be more concerned with quality and not quantity; it\u2019s more about what you text about than texting all the time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Saber d\u00f3nde ha estado todo el d\u00eda o qu\u00e9 ha desayunado b\u00e1sicamente no vale nada, pero un mensaje en el que diga que ha pensado en ti todo el d\u00eda es oro puro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. D\u00e9jale ser un hombre y tomar la iniciativa de vez en cuando <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Creo que muchos de ustedes estar\u00e1n de acuerdo conmigo cuando digo que las mujeres de hoy necesitan sentirse m\u00e1s mujeres.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Queremos a alguien que nos corteje y nos haga sentir especiales o, en otras palabras, necesitamos a un hombre que env\u00ede ese maldito primer mensaje de vez en cuando.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be a rule, it doesn\u2019t have to be always but it would be great if men would initiate a conversation more times than a woman does.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This doesn\u2019t mean developing tactics or playing games, it\u2019s a simple fact that men lose interest in things they get served on a silver platter, so if you are the one texting all the time, there is no need for him to make any efforts.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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