{"id":36532,"date":"2020-08-13T07:29:10","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T07:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36532"},"modified":"2022-11-20T22:07:31","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T22:07:31","slug":"las-10-reglas-de-las-citas-esporadicas-que-debes-seguir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-10-reglas-de-las-citas-esporadicas-que-debes-seguir\/","title":{"rendered":"Las 10 reglas de las citas informales que debes seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

De un tiempo a esta parte, las relaciones serias han dejado de ser la \u00fanica forma en que dos personas pueden involucrarse sentimentalmente.<\/p>\n

Among other things, casual dating is one of the options you have when you don\u2019t want to commit, but don\u2019t want to be single either.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 son las citas espor\u00e1dicas? Se trata de un acuerdo en el que obtienes todas las ventajas de una relaci\u00f3n sin ninguna de sus desventajas.<\/p>\n

You have someone to be with when you\u2019re bored and in need of affection, but without having to commit and without owing anything to them.<\/p>\n

Tienes la oportunidad de mantener abiertas todas tus opciones mientras pasas un buen rato al lado de alguien que te gusta.<\/p>\n

Looking at things from this point of view, casual dating sure looks like a perfect arrangement, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Y lo mejor es que tambi\u00e9n parece ser pan comido.<\/p>\n

Well, it really is \u2013 if you know how to play your cards right.<\/p>\n

Por eso existen una serie de reglas b\u00e1sicas para las citas espor\u00e1dicas que debes seguir si quieres que funcionen.<\/p>\n

Ambos tienen que estar en la misma p\u00e1gina<\/h2>\n

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Uno de los primeros consejos para las citas informales es ser completamente sincero contigo mismo y con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Tienes que saber lo que quieres y ambos ten\u00e9is que tenerlo claro.<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puedes hacer cuando se trata de citas casuales es enga\u00f1ar a alguien<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything but fair for one person to think that they\u2019re in a committed relationship or that there\u2019s hope of forming an emotional connection while the other isn\u2019t interested in anything else besides keeping it casual.<\/p>\n

Por eso, tanto usted como su pareja deben estar de acuerdo y perseguir exactamente lo mismo, para que esta cita casual sea un \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n

Recuerden, es la \u00fanica manera de mantener a salvo sus corazones.<\/p>\n

Establezca unas normas b\u00e1sicas y unos l\u00edmites<\/h2>\n

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After you and your casual dating partner have come to terms with what you want, it\u2019s time to set some rules and boundaries that you both should follow and respect.<\/p>\n

Cada relaci\u00f3n casual es diferente y vosotros dos sois los \u00fanicos que ten\u00e9is derecho a determinar lo que est\u00e1 permitido o no.<\/p>\n

Talk honestly to each other about the things you\u2019re comfortable with and about those you don\u2019t want to be a part of your casual dating scheme.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien que los dos os ve\u00e1is tambi\u00e9n con otras personas? \u00bfSer\u00e9is mon\u00f3gamos o ambos jugar\u00e9is al despiste?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres mantener todo esto de las citas ocasionales en secreto o es aceptable hablar de ello con tus amigos?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se comportar\u00e1n en p\u00fablico? Como una pareja o como nada m\u00e1s que amigos<\/a>?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs aceptable o no flirtear con otras personas delante de los dem\u00e1s? \u00bfSeguir\u00e1s con las citas por Internet?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEsperas seguir en contacto, aparte del sexo y las citas?<\/p>\n

Or is there nothing wrong with disappearing from each other\u2019s lives from time to time, without any explanation?<\/p>\n

Relacionado: \u00bfCon qu\u00e9 frecuencia debes enviar mensajes de texto a alguien con quien sales casualmente?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t play games<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

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Estar en una relaci\u00f3n sin ataduras significa que no hay absolutamente ninguna necesidad de jugar juegos mentales con la otra persona.<\/p>\n

Ambos sab\u00e9is lo que quer\u00e9is y es absurdo que os persig\u00e1is mutuamente.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to hazte el duro<\/a> porque tu objetivo final no es que la otra persona se enamore perdidamente de ti.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to hide your emotions because, let\u2019s face it, you don\u2019t have any in the first place.<\/p>\n

What is important is to forget about your ego and constantly remind yourself that you\u2019re in this to have a good time and not to prove a point, because this is someone who will break your heart if you don\u2019t play your cards right.<\/p>\n

So instead of beating yourself up trying to outsmart your quasi-partner, just be honest and straightforward about everything that is bothering you and you\u2019d like to change.<\/p>\n

No silent treatment, no holding grudges, and no resentment \u2013 you\u2019re not children, but two adults, and you should act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t have any expectations<\/h2>\n

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Quiz\u00e1 la regla m\u00e1s importante de las citas espor\u00e1dicas que debes seguir est\u00e1 relacionada con tus expectativas.<\/p>\n

No es raro que las personas que mantienen este tipo de relaciones pierdan el norte por el camino y empiecen a ver estas citas ocasionales como mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you have to keep reminding yourself not to have any expectations of the person you\u2019re involved with and of the relationship itself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not allowed to make long term future plans or to get your hopes up. Remember, this is not a real relationship.<\/p>\n

Hay que tener los pies en el suelo y ser realista en todo momento si no se quiere sentir defraudado o decepcionado al final.<\/p>\n

Salir en citas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

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Even though the term casual dating is much different from an actual relationship, it is still a form of dating and it means it\u2019s much more than casual sex.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, el sexo puede y suele formar parte de este tipo de relaci\u00f3n, pero no es el \u00fanico aspecto.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, una de las reglas de las citas informales es tener citas de verdad.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should have romantic fancy dinners or that the two of you should go on trips together, but there are many fun activities you can participate in and that can serve as ideas para citas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, what is important is to avoid home dates. Don\u2019t cook each other dinner and don\u2019t sleep over.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de cosas est\u00e1n reservadas para una relaci\u00f3n real; permitir que ocurran en las citas ocasionales s\u00f3lo puede causar confusi\u00f3n y alboroto innecesarios.<\/p>\n

Compartir el cheque<\/h2>\n

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When it comes to \u201cregular\u201d dating, it is an unwritten rule that men are those who usually get the bill, especially when it comes to the primera cita<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todo es completamente diferente cuando se trata de citas ocasionales.<\/p>\n

This is an arrangement in which you\u2019re expected to share all the expenses of the relationship.<\/p>\n

You can share the check or you can set the rule \u201cwho invites, pays.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sea como sea, de esta forma, t\u00fa y tu pareja ocasional demostr\u00e1is igualdad en esta relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Nadie es dependiente y nadie deber\u00e1 nada a otra persona cuando todo esto termine.<\/p>\n

The same goes with gifts. It is one thing if you want to buy a little something for your almost-partner\u2019s birthday, but expensive and meaningful presents are out of the question.<\/p>\n

Respetarse mutuamente<\/h2>\n

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The truth is that you and your quasi-partner haven\u2019t made any promises to each other. No vows were made and there\u2019s no commitment.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t give you the right to treat each other however the hell you want, without taking the other person\u2019s feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

You still need to respect each other\u2019s time, energy, and feelings.<\/p>\n

That means it\u2019s absolutely not acceptable to, for example, bail on the other person, lie to their face regarding your relationship, string them along, insult them, try put them underneath you, or intentionally play with their feelings in any other way.<\/p>\n

No tienes derecho a estar celoso<\/h2>\n

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La regla de oro de las citas ocasionales es que nunca debes mostrarte posesivo ni celoso.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que los dos no sois una pareja real y que ambos ten\u00e9is derecho a hacer lo que os plazca.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not permitted to ask the other person about their romantic history, to ask them where they\u2019ve been yesterday and where they plan on going tomorrow.<\/p>\n

You are not entitled to any type of explanation because your partner\u2019s activities and the time they spend away from you are none of your business.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, olv\u00eddate de las citas espor\u00e1dicas si te consideras incapaz de ceder el control.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect the other person to listen to you or to start doing things your way.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if it happens that you start feeling jealousy that you can\u2019t ignore or get rid of, it is clear that you want more out of this relationship but you\u2019re just scared to admit it.<\/p>\n

Sea discreto<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

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Numerous men and women don\u2019t like the entire world to know their business. And the same goes for this relationship as well.<\/p>\n

No hay ninguna necesidad de que todo el mundo sepa todo lo que hay que saber sobre qui\u00e9n est\u00e1 en tu cama.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying that you should keep your almost-other-half completely hidden, but this person is not your boyfriend or girlfriend and it would be totally foolish to have them meet all of your friends and family.<\/p>\n

Besides, there is always a possibility that this person is one who doesn\u2019t want the rest of the world to know about their casual dating.<\/p>\n

Either way, don\u2019t go around blabbing about some things that shouldn\u2019t concern anyone besides the two of you and you\u2019ll be just fine.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get too attached<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

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Aunque cada una de estas reglas es crucial para el \u00e9xito de un juego de citas casuales, lo m\u00e1s importante que debes tener siempre en mente es apagar todas tus emociones porque convertirse en demasiado apegado<\/a> nunca es una buena idea.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying to act heartless or rude, but you can\u2019t expect for casual dating to work out if you get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

In this case scenario, one of the people always gets out of the relationship with their mental health and heart injured, and you need to make sure something like that doesn\u2019t happen to you.<\/p>\n

Por eso es importante reflexionar antes de actuar.<\/p>\n

Not everyone is cut out for meaningless flings and if you suspect that this is the case with you, run for your life before it\u2019s too late and you\u2019ve trapped yourself.<\/p>\n

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