{"id":36765,"date":"2019-05-17T09:05:08","date_gmt":"2019-05-17T09:05:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36765"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:50:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:50:24","slug":"los-7-peores-mensajes-de-texto-para-enviarle-durante-una-pelea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-7-peores-mensajes-de-texto-para-enviarle-durante-una-pelea\/","title":{"rendered":"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque se desprecien, las peleas forman parte inevitable de toda relaci\u00f3n y la \u00fanica diferencia est\u00e1 en la forma de afrontarlas o, mejor dicho, de afrontarlo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pero, antes de entrar en materia, lo m\u00e1s importante es comprender que las peleas en una relaci\u00f3n son totalmente naturales. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Algunos expertos dicen que en realidad son deseables porque te ayudan a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-amazing-ways-make-deeper-emotional-bond-partner\/\">refuerce su v\u00ednculo<\/a>.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ahora bien, lo segundo m\u00e1s importante es aprender a reaccionar durante las peleas, o mejor dicho, aprender a <em>no<\/em> to react \u2013 you don\u2019t want to add more fuel to the fire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One badly sent text message can prolong the \u201cfighting period\u201d and cause more damage to your relationship than anything else.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Para ayudarte a lidiar con tu pr\u00f3xima pelea y minimizar las consecuencias, \u00a1aqu\u00ed tienes la lista de los peores mensajes de texto que podr\u00edas enviarle durante una pelea!<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Mensajes sarc\u00e1sticos<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/coffee-contact-email-4831.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/coffee-contact-email-4831.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/coffee-contact-email-4831-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/coffee-contact-email-4831-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Aunque est\u00e1 totalmente bien enviar mensajes de texto sarc\u00e1sticos regularmente en broma, est\u00e1 totalmente mal enviarlos durante una pelea con tu pareja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you do this, it certainly won\u2019t be funny and you will just make things even worse than they actually are.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enviar mensajes sarc\u00e1sticos significa provocar y burlarse de ellos y de la situaci\u00f3n, lo que nunca ha beneficiado a nadie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por eso, siempre es mejor guardarse esos pensamientos sarc\u00e1sticos para uno mismo y no enviar algo de lo que a la larga pueda arrepentirse.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Maldiciones e insultos<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/auto-automotive-blur-1842623-2.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/auto-automotive-blur-1842623-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/auto-automotive-blur-1842623-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/auto-automotive-blur-1842623-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Entiendo que las peleas est\u00e1n estrechamente relacionadas con el enfado y las ganas de herir verbalmente (y a veces incluso f\u00edsicamente) a tu pareja, pero una de las peores cosas que puedes hacer en estas situaciones es enviar palabrotas e insultos por SMS (y tambi\u00e9n en persona).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you do this, it will just display immaturity and lack of reason, and you certainly don\u2019t want that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por lo tanto, si evitas enviar todo tipo de insultos y palabrotas durante las peleas, \u00e9stas ser\u00e1n m\u00e1s sanas y cortas de lo habitual (por extra\u00f1o que suene).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Mensajes desesperados<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-blond-caucasian-1061580.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36770\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-blond-caucasian-1061580.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-blond-caucasian-1061580-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-blond-caucasian-1061580-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Otra mala clase de mensajes de texto son los relacionados con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-maneras-de-recuperarle-sin-parecer-desesperada\/\">estar desesperado<\/a>. Ahora bien, \u00bfqu\u00e9 significa estar desesperado? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Significa rogar, suplicar, hacerse la v\u00edctima y sentir una l\u00e1stima absoluta por uno mismo.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por lo tanto, si le env\u00edas mensajes desesperados como algunos de los anteriores, no conseguir\u00e1s nada con ello. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the contrary, he will only think that you have no idea what you\u2019re going on about or you\u2019re thinking only about yourself.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Amenazas<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/cell-phone-connection-contact-6111-1.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36771\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/cell-phone-connection-contact-6111-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/cell-phone-connection-contact-6111-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/cell-phone-connection-contact-6111-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It is understandable that when you\u2019re in a fight, you are desperate to find solutions to it and perhaps convince your partner to change his mind regarding some things. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Given that it is really hard to influence someone\u2019s mindset that easily, sometimes we decide to use threats (as a last resort).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you tell your partner that you will leave him if he doesn\u2019t change his mind regarding some things, it is considered a threat and it is definitely the last thing you would want to say to him (believe me).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. \u201cMaking him jealous\u201d messages<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beverage-blur-cellphone-1803912.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36772\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beverage-blur-cellphone-1803912.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beverage-blur-cellphone-1803912-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beverage-blur-cellphone-1803912-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Hay millones de maneras de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/maneras-efectivas-de-dar-celos\/\">poner celoso a un chico<\/a>...y las mujeres son, por naturaleza, bastante buenas en eso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While making him jealous is actually good from time to time (a healthy dose of jealousy, of course), doing it during a fight it\u2019s a big no-no.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Avoid doing things like sending him pictures with other guys, saying that you\u2019re about to go for a drink with someone, or that other guys are courting you and you\u2019re seriously thinking about their propositions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evita ponerle celoso; si lo haces, s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1s ser m\u00e1s vulnerable y estar m\u00e1s descontenta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Un mill\u00f3n de mensajes<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-architecture-casual-264637.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36773\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-architecture-casual-264637.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-architecture-casual-264637-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-architecture-casual-264637-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m pretty sure that the biggest nightmare of every guy is receiving an endless stream of messages by a woman (regardless if she\u2019s his girlfriend, sister, or someone else). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De hecho, enviarle un mensaje tras otro s\u00f3lo le demostrar\u00e1 lo furiosa que est\u00e1s y no te dar\u00e1 ning\u00fan resultado positivo.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It will only bombard him and his mobile phone, and when he sees that, he will think that he certainly doesn\u2019t have time to answer any of it because there is no end to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In turn, he will get mad and then you will get mad because he\u2019s mad and \u2013 you see where I\u2019m going with this. So, do yourself a favor and just don\u2019t do it.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. No enviar nada<br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/blur-blurry-curly-hair-404973-1.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36774\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/blur-blurry-curly-hair-404973-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/blur-blurry-curly-hair-404973-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/blur-blurry-curly-hair-404973-1-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Aunque no es buena idea enviar toneladas de mensajes, tampoco es recomendable no enviar nada, es decir, ignorar sus mensajes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, there\u2019s only one reason why you would ignore his messages and that is because you\u2019re not interested in what he has to say and that you don\u2019t care about your relationship.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It will look like you don\u2019t have any desire to make things better and you\u2019re not eager to listen to his side of the story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ignoring someone\u2019s texts translates to being passive aggressive, which is the main killer of almost every relationship.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-17T110459.524-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 peores mensajes de texto para enviarle durante una pelea\" class=\"wp-image-36779\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-17T110459.524-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-17T110459.524-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-17T110459.524.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though despised, fights are an inevitable part of every relationship and the only difference is in the way of dealing with it, or, rather, dealing with him. 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