{"id":36892,"date":"2019-05-20T13:44:20","date_gmt":"2019-05-20T13:44:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36892"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:09","slug":"5-maneras-probadas-de-evitar-una-relacion-condenada-al-fracaso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-probadas-de-evitar-una-relacion-condenada-al-fracaso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras de evitar una relaci\u00f3n condenada al fracaso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ser\u00eda estupendo que existiera una forma de huir de esas personas que no est\u00e1n destinadas a serlo desde el principio. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That there would exist a possibility of us knowing when things won\u2019t work out antes de<\/em> nos enamoramos de la otra persona de todo coraz\u00f3n y antes de<\/em> es demasiado tarde.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, even though nobody can give you a recipe which guarantees that you\u2019ll never have your heart broken or that you\u2019ll never make the wrong choice, there are some ways that can help you avoid getting into a relationship without a future.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Deja de esperar que los dem\u00e1s cambien por ti<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The first thing you need to admit to yourself if you want to save yourself from a lot of unnecessary relationship headaches is that you won\u2019t like everything about the guy you\u2019re into. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Siempre tendr\u00e1 defectos que tendr\u00e1s que aceptar como parte de \u00e9l.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Actually, to be more precise\u2014when you first meet a guy, you have to be honest with yourself: can you accept the real him or are you hoping to modify the parts you don\u2019t like? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Recuerda que, aunque tu pareja y t\u00fa llegu\u00e9is a un acuerdo sobre muchas cosas, la esencia de su personalidad seguir\u00e1 siendo la misma.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As\u00ed que si esperas que tu amor puede cambiar a un hombre<\/a> who doesn\u2019t want to do it himself, think again because that can never work.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Y dejar de cambiar por culpa de los dem\u00e1s<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The same goes for your personality, as well. If you want to avoid getting into a relationship which is doomed to fail, you have to stop pretending to be someone you\u2019re not. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The last thing you should allow is for some douchebag to mold you his way and to manipulate you into thinking that you\u2019re not enough just the way you are.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sooner or later, all of this acting will tire you, and you\u2019ll lose yourself in the process. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Besides, you want a guy to fall in love with the real you and not some imaginary person that doesn\u2019t even exist.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por lo tanto, en lugar de esforzarte por gustar a los dem\u00e1s, empieza a quererte a ti mismo antes de esperar que lo hagan los dem\u00e1s. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te aseguro que una relaci\u00f3n sana contigo mismo es la base de una relaci\u00f3n sana con todos los dem\u00e1s, incluidas tus parejas sentimentales.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Aprende de tus relaciones anteriores<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Una de las reglas de oro de las citas es deshacerse de todo el equipaje emocional del pasado antes de lanzarse a una nueva relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should put aside or completely forget all the harsh but valuable lessons your relationships taught you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everything you\u2019ve been through happened for a reason, and now is the time to take advantage of all the pain you\u2019ve experienced.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your previous relationships helped you realize what you want or don’t want. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te han ayudado a ver con lo que nunca debes conformarte y lo que te mereces. Ahora es el momento de poner en pr\u00e1ctica esos conocimientos.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t lower your standards<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you should be too picky when it comes to men. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m not telling you to wait for a Prince Charming who will magically appear in your life. \u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The truth is that there is no such thing as perfection, and you shouldn\u2019t look for it either.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should ever lower your standards. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Always be aware of what you want and need, and don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you\u2019re asking for too much. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember\u2014it\u2019s always better to remain single until the right guy comes along then enter new relationships which don\u2019t have any chance of surviving.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Sea sincero sobre sus expectativas<\/strong>
<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Otra cosa que puede ayudarte a evitar quedarte atrapado en un relaci\u00f3n condenada al fracaso<\/a> es ser honesto sobre lo que aportas a la relaci\u00f3n, as\u00ed como sobre lo que quieres de ella. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y lo mismo puede decirse de su pareja.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Hablen de sus planes y expectativas de futuro. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

See if you\u2019re compatible and if you can meet each other halfway. Besides love, this is a recipe for success.
<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"5<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It would be great if there was a way for us to run away from those people who aren\u2019t meant to be from the very start. That there would exist a possibility of us knowing when things won\u2019t work out before we fall in love with the other person wholeheartedly and before it becomes too…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":36899,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36892","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_362867441.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36892","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36892"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36892\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/36899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36892"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36892"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36892"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}