{"id":37073,"date":"2019-05-23T10:41:35","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T10:41:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37073"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:28:02","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:28:02","slug":"10-razones-por-las-que-ser-abandonado-no-es-tan-malo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-razones-por-las-que-ser-abandonado-no-es-tan-malo\/","title":{"rendered":"10 razones por las que ser abandonado no es tan malo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos estamos familiarizados con el hecho de que las rupturas son el \u00faltimo grano en el culo y, a veces, tambi\u00e9n pueden ser extra\u00f1as o perturbadoras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When someone mentions the word \u201cbreakup,\u201d the first thing that comes to our mind is that feeling of uneasiness and pain of a broken heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero nadie parece hablar de sus ventajas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Olvidamos ese viejo y sabio dicho: \u201cIf you want to see the rainbow, you have to deal with the rain.\u201d<\/em> Olvidamos que para poder experimentar algo mejor y m\u00e1s grande, primero tenemos que enfrentarnos a lo peor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si miras las cosas desde otra perspectiva, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que la raz\u00f3n por la que ten\u00edas que romper<\/a> at some point is because you simply didn\u2019t get along, they took you for granted, or perhaps you lost trust in each other, which all leads to one major conclusion: You simply weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you look at every breakup as an important lesson that has to be learned the hard way and the opportunity to become closer to meeting the one who is right for you, you will realize that getting dumped isn\u2019t all that bad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In that vein, here are 10 reasons why getting dumped is actually the best thing that happened to you because you\u2019re far better without them!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. You weren\u2019t meant to be<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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As already said, reason number one for why you shouldn\u2019t look at breakup as something totally negative is because you clearly weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esto significa que la ruptura era inevitable y cuanto antes ocurra, mejor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Peor que la ruptura ser\u00eda perder el tiempo con alguien con quien no tienes futuro<\/a>...as\u00ed que en cierto modo deber\u00edas estar agradecido por haberte dejado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Crecer y aprender lecciones<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Breakups always help us to grow and they teach us valuable lessons that we somehow don\u2019t want to notice because we\u2019re too busy with the negative side of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero, efectivamente, una ruptura es una oportunidad para crecer y aprender de los errores.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Del mismo modo que las cosas malas te hacen apreciar las buenas, una ruptura te ayuda a apreciar las cosas y los momentos mejores que est\u00e1n por llegar, y te prepara para estar agradecido por ellos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. You didn\u2019t have to be the dumper<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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No matter how weird it sounds, one of the biggest upsides of being dumped is the fact that you didn\u2019t have to be the dumper.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esto significa que tendr\u00e1s la conciencia limpia y nunca te arrepentir\u00e1s de nada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Continuar\u00e1 vivir tu mejor vida <\/a>without worrying that you\u2019ve made a mistake by dumping that someone.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. La pelota est\u00e1 en tu tejado<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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When you\u2019re the one who\u2019s getting dumped, the ball is in your court, which means you have la libertad<\/a> to choose whether you\u2019ll just leave them without saying a word, whether you\u2019ll yell at them, or whatever else you choose.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Since you\u2019re the one who\u2019s getting dumped, it automatically means you\u2019re the one in a more vulnerable position, so you get to choose how things will end.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can decide that you don\u2019t want to see them ever again, or you can propose to stay friends.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. La oportunidad de volver a conocerse a s\u00ed mismo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Las rupturas son una oportunidad perfecta para descubrir tus pasiones y volver a conocerte a ti mismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tienes todo el tiempo del mundo para buscar nuevas aficiones, hacer lo que te haga feliz y que nada ni nadie te importe una mierda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. M\u00e1s tiempo para centrarse en sus prioridades<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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When you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who\u2019s not right for you, you are more likely to direct all of your energy to that person and as a consequence neglect your own priorities, becoming drained.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, now that they\u2019re out of your life, you will have more time to focus on positive things instead of solely negative ones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Deshacerse de la toxicidad en su vida<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Recuerda que ser abandonado significa deshacerte de la toxicidad en tu vida y, cr\u00e9eme, no hay mayor bendici\u00f3n que esa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Despertarse por la ma\u00f1ana sabiendo que los niveles de toxicidad han disminuido significativamente significa ser feliz y disfrutar de cada segundo del tiempo que pasas con personas positivas y con las que realmente se preocupan por ti.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Estar soltero y volver a salir<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Que te dejen tambi\u00e9n significa volver a disfrutar de la solter\u00eda y hacer lo que quieras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You have the power to choose whether you\u2019ll date again or rather spend the night binge-watching your favorite TV shows.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You have the power to listen only to yourself and your gut instead of dancing to other people\u2019s tunes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Disfrutar de m\u00e1s tiempo con los amigos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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When you\u2019re with someone who\u2019s definitely not right for you, you will waste lots of your energy in stressing about it and then complaining about it to your friends.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero, una vez que te deshagas de ellos, disfrutar\u00e1s pasando m\u00e1s tiempo con tus amigos y hablando tambi\u00e9n de otras cosas, en lugar de tu novio o novia de mierda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s why getting dumped isn\u2019t all that bad, right?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Cada vez m\u00e1s cerca de conocer a la persona que te corresponde<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cada vez que te dejan, est\u00e1s m\u00e1s cerca de conocer a la persona que te corresponde.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te acercas a vivir la vida que mereces y a estar con alguien que sea digno de estar contigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando ves las cosas as\u00ed, que te dejen se convierte en lo mejor que te ha pasado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando empieces a dudar, acu\u00e9rdate de las sabias palabras de Alexander Graham Bell: \u201cWhen one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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