{"id":37120,"date":"2020-09-23T12:09:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T12:09:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37120"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:40:23","slug":"si-no-estan-preparados-para-amarte-tienes-que-dejarlos-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-estan-preparados-para-amarte-tienes-que-dejarlos-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no est\u00e1n preparados para amarte, debes dejarles marchar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Llega un momento en la vida de todos nosotros en que tenemos que dejar de huir de la realidad.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ese momento en el que simplemente debes enfrentarte a la verdad, sin importar lo dolorosa y dura que pueda llegar a ser.<\/p>\r\n<p>El momento en el que tienes que aceptar el hecho de que algunas personas son <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/soulmate-simply-not-meant\/\">no debe ser<\/a>...tanto como t\u00fa quieras.<\/p>\r\n<p>Que <strong>you can\u2019t keep on waiting for love that will never come<\/strong>, and that you can\u2019t keep getting all your hopes about someone who will never give you what you deserve.<\/p>\r\n<p>Llega un momento en que tienes que aceptar que hay algunas personas que nunca te dar\u00e1n el amor que necesitas y no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, deja de mentirte a ti mismo.  Deja de buscar excusas y deja de darte segundas oportunidades sin fin.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, your love won\u2019t inspire them to become the people you need and want them to be.<\/p>\r\n<p>They won\u2019t change their ways or understand how much pain they\u2019re causing you. They won\u2019t try hard not to lose you before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, you won\u2019t save them. They won\u2019t miraculously come to their senses and see that you don\u2019t deserve to be treated this way.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121337 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer decepcionada se sienta en el respaldo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>En lugar de eso, seguir\u00e1n utilizando tu bondadoso coraz\u00f3n todo el tiempo que puedan.<\/p>\r\n<p>Seguir\u00e1n aprovech\u00e1ndose de ti y esperando que siempre te entregues por completo sin que recibas nada a cambio.<\/p>\r\n<p>Seguir\u00e1n trat\u00e1ndote como basura sin apreciar nunca ninguno de tus esfuerzos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p>Seguir\u00e1n tom\u00e1ndote por tonto y pidi\u00e9ndote todo sin darte nada.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>This goes for everyone in your life who doesn\u2019t love you back and who doesn\u2019t appreciate you: for your romantic partner, that toxic friend, and even your closest family members. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Remember: whoever doesn\u2019t treat you the way you deserve to be treated doesn&#8217;t deserve a place in your life. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Tienes que entender esto: <strong>whoever isn\u2019t ready to love you now won\u2019t ever love you. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Quien te falte al respeto ahora nunca te dar\u00e1 el respeto que necesitas.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Quien ahora te trata como un premio de consolaci\u00f3n nunca te dar\u00e1 un lugar en su lista de prioridades. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Whoever doesn\u2019t value your presence needs to feel your absence right away.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>So when do you plan on putting an end to all of these relationships in which you\u2019re the only one who\u2019s trying?<\/p>\r\n<p>When do you plan on accepting that you\u2019re just wasting your time on those who don\u2019t deserve you, never did, and never will?<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121336 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer deja al hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Remember that we all accept the treatment we think we deserve. You\u2019re the one who settles for this half-ass love, the one who accepts zero effort.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re the person who keeps on giving people the green light to continue hurting you, by giving them all those second chances.<\/p>\r\n<p>El que se conforma con falsas amistades y relaciones pseudo rom\u00e1nticas.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, when will you accept that it\u2019s about time you take your life into your own hands and stop putting the keys of your happiness into someone else\u2019s?<\/p>\r\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n real que tienes es dejarte llevar?<\/p>\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p>To leave everyone who doesn\u2019t love you in the past and to move on in your new future, without anyone holding you back or putting you down?<\/p>\r\n<p>That it\u2019s time you stop choosing others over yourself and time to start loving yourself more than anyone else?<\/p>\r\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 doing all of this will be everything but easy and it won\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\r\n<p>Cutting ties with people you love, despite them not loving you back, is one of the hardest things you\u2019ll ever have to do.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero te ayudar\u00e1 a crecer. Te ayudar\u00e1 a ver tu verdadera fuerza interior y a convertirte en una versi\u00f3n mejorada de ti mismo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yes, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re breaking your own heart. But it is the choice you have to make \u2013 for your own good.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sin embargo, quiero que conf\u00edes en m\u00ed: todo el dolor por el que pasar\u00e1s merecer\u00e1 la pena.<\/p>\r\n<p>It will teach you that you don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need you back, that you can always make it on your own. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante, <strong>te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 a saberlo mejor la pr\u00f3xima vez.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>To always give exactly as much effort as you\u2019re getting and to never put your life on hold, waiting for someone to become ready to love you.<\/p>\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-121335\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si no est\u00e1n preparados para amarte, debes dejarles marchar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a moment in all of our lives when we have to stop running away from reality. That moment when you simply must face the truth, no matter how painful and harsh it might get. The moment when you have to come to terms with the fact that some people are not meant to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121334,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37120"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37120\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}