{"id":37316,"date":"2019-05-27T10:43:25","date_gmt":"2019-05-27T10:43:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37316"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:42:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:42:45","slug":"5-preguntas-que-debes-hacerte-antes-de-enviar-un-sms-a-un-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-preguntas-que-debes-hacerte-antes-de-enviar-un-sms-a-un-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"5 preguntas que debe hacerse antes de enviar un SMS a su expareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

Reconozc\u00e1moslo: no existe una persona que nunca haya sentido la tentaci\u00f3n de ponerse en contacto con un ex de alguna manera. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque cada persona lo hace por un motivo diferente, la conclusi\u00f3n es la misma: enviar un mensaje de texto a un ex es algo que siempre debes pensar detenidamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is exactly why we\u2019re presenting you a set of questions you should ask yourself antes de<\/em> acerc\u00e1ndote a tu ex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just answer each one of them honestly, and you\u2019ll know where you stand and what you should do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00bfMerece saber de ti?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Lo primero que tienes que preguntarte antes de plantearte contactar con tu ex novio es si \u00e9ste merece saber de ti. \u00bfEn qu\u00e9 t\u00e9rminos os separasteis?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you won\u2019t be the first one to call some dude who humiliated you and treated you like crap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is why you should ask yourself whether he was an asshole who should be erased from your memory or is he actually a good guy who won\u2019t see you making this step as a chance to take advantage of you and break your heart once more? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfLe dar\u00e1s un aumento de ego <\/a>y te rebajas si le mandas un mensaje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo peor que podr\u00eda pasar?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Lo siguiente en lo que hay que pensar es en el peor de los casos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying that you texting your ex will be a complete failure, but it is also something you need to be prepared for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es lo peor que podr\u00eda pasar? \u00bfQue ignore por completo tu mensaje? \u00bfO que te insulte y te conteste de una manera horrible?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either way, is this something you\u2019re ready to take? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfTe resultar\u00e1 inc\u00f3modo cruzarte con \u00e9l si te deja en visto? \u00bfTe sentir\u00e1s humillada y avergonzada por intentar algo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Will the earth stop spinning if your ex doesn\u2019t respond to your text? Will you go back to feeling the same way you felt when you two broke up? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the answer is positive, one thing is clear\u2013texting an ex is without doubt not the right move for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00bfQu\u00e9 quieres que ocurra en secreto?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Del mismo modo que debe pensar en el peor escenario posible, tambi\u00e9n debe pensar en el mejor resultado posible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, la verdadera pregunta es: \u00bfcu\u00e1l ser\u00eda el mejor resultado posible para usted?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want this guy to tell you that he\u2019s been thinking of you all along? Do you want him to vuelve arrastr\u00e1ndote<\/a> a ti, admitiendo su amor eterno?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or you want revenge? Do you want him to think that you\u2019re still not over him just so you could pay him back for everything he\u2019s put you through?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQuiz\u00e1 s\u00f3lo quieres un cierre? \u00bfNecesitas una explicaci\u00f3n antes de pasar p\u00e1gina en tu vida?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00bfTodav\u00eda sientes algo por \u00e9l?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Now that you\u2019ve realized why you want to text your ex, it\u2019s time to be clear about your feelings for him. Do you still love this guy? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you really tried doing everything in your power to move on from him but you\u2019re left with no other options except accepting that he is the love of your life? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfTe ves de nuevo a su lado? \u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesta a trabajar en tus problemas y a esforzarte por reconstruir vuestra relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00bfO simplemente te sientes solo?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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O puede que nada de esto sea cierto. Puede que alguien nuevo te haya hecho da\u00f1o y quieras volver a lo que te es familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQuieres demostrarte a ti misma que puedes tener a ese chico cuando te apetezca? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want to prove to him that you\u2019ll always remain special and that he\u2019ll never forget you for real?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfEs posible que este tipo no sea m\u00e1s que tu zona de confort? Que you don\u2019t actually love him<\/a>, but you\u2019re just used to having him around?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or maybe you\u2019re lonely and afraid of ending up alone. Maybe you don\u2019t miss your ex\u2013you just miss being in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Let\u2019s face it\u2013there doesn\u2019t exist a person who was never tempted to contact an ex in some way. Even though different people do it for different reasons, the bottom line is the same: sending a text to an ex is something you should always think through. That is exactly why we\u2019re presenting you a set…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":37322,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1304952193.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37316"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37316\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37322"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}