{"id":37365,"date":"2020-04-27T13:14:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T13:14:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37365"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:17:59","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:17:59","slug":"4-razones-brutalmente-honestas-por-las-que-te-da-por-sentado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-razones-brutalmente-honestas-por-las-que-te-da-por-sentado\/","title":{"rendered":"4 razones brutalmente honestas por las que te da por perdida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Que te den por sentado es una de las cosas m\u00e1s humillantes y dolorosas por las que puedes pasar.<\/p>\n

Es especialmente dif\u00edcil si tu compa\u00f1ero de vida te trata as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

This is exactly the situation you\u2019re in right now.<\/p>\n

En el fondo, eres consciente de que tu novio o marido est\u00e1 convencido de que hay no hay nada que pueda hacer para que dejes de quererle <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Ves que se aprovecha de tu buen coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ves que disfruta de tu presencia s\u00f3lo porque le gusta tener a alguien que le quiera tanto.<\/p>\n

And you know it very well that you\u2019re on the bottom of his priority list.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 ocurren estas cosas en primer lugar? \u00bfC\u00f3mo sabe alguien que otra persona es v\u00edctima adecuada de este trato?<\/p>\n

Para ser concretos, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 tu novio te da por sentada? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 te utiliza, cuando eso es lo \u00faltimo que se merece una chica como t\u00fa?<\/p>\n

Porque puede<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La primera raz\u00f3n por la que alguien puede tratarte as\u00ed es bastante sencilla.<\/p>\n

Simplemente pueden hacerlo. Les permites comportarse as\u00ed y no tienen conciencia de sus actos.<\/p>\n

Y tu novio probablemente no sea una excepci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Even though I\u2019m not claiming that him taking you for granted is just your fault (after all, he is the one who is emotionally hurting you without thinking about the consequences), maybe it\u2019s time to think things through and ask yourself whether you\u2019re the one who\u2019s been giving him permission to act this way.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s make one thing clear. If a guy is an asshole, he\u2019ll probably try hiding his negative personality traits in the beginning and start revealing them over time.<\/p>\n

That means that your boyfriend wasn\u2019t this big of a douchebag from the very start. Instead, he started with little things.<\/p>\n

Y as\u00ed, sin m\u00e1s, se sali\u00f3 con la suya todas las veces.<\/p>\n

After a while, he realized that you\u2019re giving him the green light for his behavior.<\/p>\n

He noticed that he doesn\u2019t have to show you any appreciation and you\u2019ll still continue being there for him or do him favors, so he kept on taking you for granted more and more.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but here is the harshest and the truest truth: if a guy is taking you for granted, he is probably doing it because he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n

Al menos, no lo suficiente como para pensar en tus emociones y tener cuidado de no romperte el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

He might like you enough to spend time with you, but he doesn\u2019t give a damn whether he\u2019ll emotionally damage you.<\/p>\n

He couldn\u2019t care less about you feeling underappreciated or hurt.<\/p>\n

This guy is obviously a selfish jerk who only thinks about his own needs and could never put you first, despite everything you\u2019ve been doing for him.<\/p>\n

Recuerda una cosa: if a man treats you like he doesn\u2019t care <\/a> ser\u00e1 mejor que empieces a creerle.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, \u00bfqu\u00e9 mejor prueba de su indiferencia necesitas?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too nice<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, existe ser demasiado amable<\/a>demasiado amable, o demasiado cari\u00f1oso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a girl who gives her entire self to a man who will never be able to reciprocate and that is exactly why you feel like you\u2019ve been taken for granted.<\/p>\n

You try too hard and you put too much effort into someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Besides, you never get angry. Even when you notice his wrongdoings, you forgive him easily and he knows he\u2019ll always get away with the way he\u2019s treating you.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 iba a molestarse en cambiar de aires?<\/p>\n

Consequently, the man you\u2019re dating doesn\u2019t have any miedo a perderte<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He knows that you\u2019ll stick around, no matter what he does, because you\u2019ve convinced him in your love and you showed him your feelings.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it is easier for him to lie back and enjoy the attention he\u2019s been getting from you than to continue winning you over.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how to say \u201cno\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re taken for granted, your biggest problem is probably the fact that you don\u2019t know how to turn someone down.<\/p>\n

Te cuesta poner l\u00edmites y la gente, incluido tu novio, se aprovecha de ello.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re someone who is always available and ready to do whatever it takes to please the person you love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always there when he needs a favor, a shoulder to cry on, or some company, while in his eyes, you\u2019re ranked far from first place.<\/p>\n

En pocas palabras, usted es un donante profesional de segundas oportunidades <\/a> y aceptador de falsas excusas.<\/p>\n

Even when deep down you know that someone won\u2019t ever change and doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life, you go against your principles and always take them back.<\/p>\n

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