{"id":37487,"date":"2019-05-28T10:39:39","date_gmt":"2019-05-28T10:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37487"},"modified":"2022-04-28T23:53:08","modified_gmt":"2022-04-28T23:53:08","slug":"los-5-asesinos-mas-destructivos-de-las-relaciones-y-como-combatirlos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-5-asesinos-mas-destructivos-de-las-relaciones-y-como-combatirlos\/","title":{"rendered":"Los 5 asesinos de relaciones m\u00e1s destructivos (y c\u00f3mo combatirlos)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una relaci\u00f3n es un santuario entre dos personas en el que pueden ser ellas mismas sin miedo a ser juzgadas.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

And every relationship is based on certain fundamentals that help it run smoothly and keep it from running into glitches and obstacles. It\u2019s really simple\u2014if you don\u2019t take care of your relationship, sooner or later it\u2019s doomed to fail.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

As\u00ed que si quieres mantener tu relaci\u00f3n sana, feliz y hacer que dure <\/span>mucho tiempo<\/span><\/a>En cuanto a la calidad y la longevidad, debe conocer los factores que marcan la diferencia.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, la mayor\u00eda de las parejas se sienten demasiado c\u00f3modas la una con la otra, por lo que se olvidan de tener cuidado con ciertas cosas que est\u00e1n poniendo su relaci\u00f3n en alto riesgo de una ruptura temprana y desordenada.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Para evitar cualquier complicaci\u00f3n y mantener tu id\u00edlica relaci\u00f3n como hasta ahora, ten cuidado con estos 5 asesinos de relaciones m\u00e1s comunes.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\r\n

1. Comunicaci\u00f3n deficiente<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Let\u2019s face it, we all believe that we\u2019re really good at communicating and getting our points across, but the truth is, we all mess up and let the intensity of the situation get the better of us at times.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s almost too easy turning a normal discussion into a yelling session where nothing productive gets done, and all that\u2019s achieved is getting you both that much more agitated and annoyed at each other.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

La pr\u00f3xima vez que quieras <\/span>tu hombre<\/span><\/a>prueba esto. Por muy molesto que sea en ese momento, cuente hasta diez, ordene sus pensamientos y escuche lo que tiene que decir por s\u00ed mismo.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

No interrumpir, no gritar y no se\u00f1alar con el dedo.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Hear him out, and try to understand where he\u2019s coming from. In turn, he\u2019ll do the same for you. Peacefully talk it out whilst trying to find common ground as opposed to assigning blame, which leaves nobody happy.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

2. 2. Incapacidad para confiar plenamente en los dem\u00e1s, incluso cuando ello significa dar un salto de fe.<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

If you can\u2019t trust your partner, you\u2019ll never be truly happy in your relationship. The whole point of partnership is knowing that you\u2019ve got each other\u2019s backs no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But it doesn\u2019t work if you doubt every other thing he says and does, which is ultimately a toxic waste of your time. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sometimes, being in a relationship means taking a huge leap of faith and believing them even when you have no proof that they\u2019re telling the truth.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Esto es <\/span>tu persona<\/span><\/a> and your rock. Would he lie to you? I think you know the answer to this. So give him the benefit of the doubt, and trust that he\u2019s making good decisions and keeping you in the loop.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Hasta que demuestre lo contrario, elige tener fe en \u00e9l y perm\u00edtete ser feliz sin esa carga innecesaria de desconfianza.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

3. Identifying yourself solely as somebody\u2019s girlfriend<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Mantener la propia identidad a lo largo de la relaci\u00f3n es crucial para que \u00e9sta dure y tenga \u00e9xito.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s cute when you\u2019re so close that you finish each other\u2019s sentences and don\u2019t mind just napping when you\u2019re together with no need to actually do anything. It feels nice whatever you do, as long as you\u2019re together.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But don\u2019t let your girlfriend role be your whole identity!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Remember who you are outside of your relationship,m and keep doing your own thing. Don\u2019t neglect your people and passions, and make sure to find a balance between your two worlds.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re an amazing girlfriend and that\u2019s a fantastic part of your life, but there is so much more to you than just that. So don\u2019t lose sight of your other world, and be true to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

4. Ponerse excusas unos a otros por miedo a quedarse solos<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Sure, there will be times where you\u2019ll both screw up, and the adult thing to do is forgive, learn from it, and move on.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Pero cuando se trata de comportamiento de mierda y <\/span>abuso emocional<\/span><\/a>Nunca debes excusarte por ese tipo de comportamiento. Es mucho mejor estar solo que con alguien que te degrada.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Make sure you\u2019re being treated right, and forgive only when your heart tells you it\u2019s the right thing to do. If you sense your partner is genuinely sorry for certain actions that resulted in you being hurt, find it in your heart to forgive.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But never let it happen twice. One time is a mistake, two times \u2013 it\u2019s a choice.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

5. Not having each other\u2019s backs through thick and thin<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Sometimes, your partner will take on more than he can handle. At times, you won\u2019t agree with his choices, but you need to let him do his thing, and if need be, let him learn from his mistakes.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Se supone que apoyarse mutuamente<\/a> no matter what. Even when it feels like it\u2019s a bad idea, let him try, and cheer him on as loudly as you can.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s important that you have his back and vice versa because without each other\u2019s support, where would you be?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Be your partner\u2019s biggest cheerleader, and show him that you\u2019ve got him\u2014always. If he fails, be his shoulder to cry on, and if he succeeds, be a proud girlfriend!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

A veces, simplemente estar ah\u00ed y no interferir es lo mejor que puedes hacer. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You won\u2019t always agree with his choices, but that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t root for him to succeed. <\/span>Estar all\u00ed<\/span><\/a> even when it\u2019s hard to do, and he\u2019ll do the same for you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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