{"id":37506,"date":"2020-05-28T12:08:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T12:08:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37506"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:31","slug":"solo-te-echa-de-menos-porque-no-puede-reemplazarte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/solo-te-echa-de-menos-porque-no-puede-reemplazarte\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00f3lo te echa de menos porque no puede reemplazarte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tener que perder a alguien para darte cuenta de lo especial e inestimable que era para ti es una de las cosas m\u00e1s desafortunadas que existen. (aunque muy com\u00fan)<\/em> despu\u00e9s de una ruptura dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

We are all unique in our own way, which basically means that we\u2019re all irreplaceable, and no matter how much somebody wishes to find our exact copy in another person, it is simply not possible.<\/p>\n

When a romantic relationship falls through, it\u2019s inevitable that both partners will eventually move on to other people and seek adequate replacement for their respective exes.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que cuando recibas ese mensaje inesperado a una hora intempestiva de tu ex <\/a> que te llev\u00f3 tanto tiempo superar, que sepas que por fin se dio cuenta de lo que tontamente dej\u00f3 pasar.<\/p>\n

The only thing is, it\u2019s a little too late now. Yeah, he misses you and he might even really want you back.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

But what kind of a prick do you have to be to break a girl\u2019s heart, leave her to her own devices, move on to someone new like she never existed, and then expect her to forgive you because it took losing her to realize just how precious she was?<\/em><\/p>\n

No, sir, you don\u2019t get to do that.<\/em><\/p>\n

You do not get to shatter her world by deciding she simply isn\u2019t enough anymore and abandon her as if she meant nothing to you, then in her absence realize how good you really had it and hope she\u2019d be na\u00efve enough to forgive and forget.<\/em><\/p>\n

Cuando te fuiste, todo su mundo se vino abajo.<\/p>\n

La roca que ten\u00eda en ti de repente desapareci\u00f3. Su mejor amigo <\/a> con el que pod\u00eda compartir cualquier cosa ya no estaba a su lado.<\/p>\n

And her lover who knew every bit of her body by heart was suddenly sleeping in another woman\u2019s bed.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda que aprender a encontrar una manera de hacer frente a todo eso sin perder la maldita cabeza, todo el tiempo sintiendo como si el suelo bajo ella se desmoronaba y se deslizaba cada vez m\u00e1s lejos de su alcance.<\/p>\n

Y simplemente pasaste a un modelo m\u00e1s nuevo, con la esperanza de encontrar algo nuevo y excitante, pero de lo que al final te diste cuenta fue de que ninguna mujer podr\u00eda reemplazar jam\u00e1s el calor de sus suaves labios sobre los tuyos.<\/p>\n

Ninguna mujer puede compararse a su incre\u00edble capacidad de amar sin juzgar.<\/p>\n

And when you tried to find solace in another woman\u2019s arms, you realized that nothing could match her tight embrace that made you immediately calm and serene, as if it was telling you that everything was going to be okay, and somehow\u2026 it always was.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfPero adivina qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Ya no es esa chica ingenua que secretamente esperabas que siguiera siendo. Ya no es el tipo de persona que acepta fragmentos.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ahora sabe que merece a alguien que la aprecie mientras la tenga.<\/p>\n

Pensaste que pod\u00edas tomar el camino f\u00e1cil, divertirte bajo el sol, y luego volver como si nunca hubieras dejado un vac\u00edo devastador en su mundo.<\/p>\n

Pero te equivocaste. Ella sabe que no debe creer nada de lo que digas ahora.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, ha pasado por muchas cosas desde que te fuiste. Le tom\u00f3 un minuto, pero finalmente tiene sus prioridades claras.<\/p>\n

And now you can crawl and you can beg, but all you\u2019ll get from her is a confident smile in your direction, which will show you just how badass and strong she is now.<\/p>\n

She will look at you, but she won\u2019t see the man she once loved so deeply.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo que ver\u00e1 ahora es a un hombre que le da pena.<\/em><\/p>\n

Y eso le va a dar mucha fuerza. Ha esperado este momento y ha rezado para poder mantener la calma contigo y no caer en tus viejos trucos.<\/em><\/p>\n

Y por fin lo ha conseguido. Por fin puede mirarte sin desmoron\u00e1ndose <\/i><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, ahora la echas de menos, pero tuviste tu oportunidad con ella. Era toda tuya.<\/p>\n

Te entreg\u00f3 su coraz\u00f3n y su alma, y a cambio lo \u00fanico que quer\u00eda era tu dedicaci\u00f3n y un poco de esfuerzo.<\/p>\n

And you couldn\u2019t even give her that. So don\u2019t be surprised when she\u2019s all out of second chances.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She knows that she\u2019s irreplaceable. She knows how unique and special she is.<\/p>\n

Y le da alegr\u00eda saber que por fin puede decirlo con orgullo mientras te muestra la puerta a donde perteneces.<\/p>\n

Y eso est\u00e1 fuera de su vida.<\/p>\n

Maybe next time you\u2019ll be able to realize the value of what you have before you gamble it away.<\/p>\n

Whoever you end up spending your life with, hopefully you\u2019ve learned your lesson.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t appreciate her while she\u2019s by your side, you don\u2019t deserve her when you change your mind!<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ahora est\u00e1 viviendo su mejor vida, y nunca m\u00e1s dejar\u00e1 que un hombre la mastique y la escupa como t\u00fa lo hiciste.<\/p>\n

Esos d\u00edas ya pasaron.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t hate you though. She simply doesn\u2019t think about you anymore.<\/p>\n

And now, while you\u2019re dealing with the consequences of your actions, you will finally feel exactly what she felt when you put her through all that hell.<\/p>\n

So good luck getting over her. God knows you\u2019ll need it.<\/p>\n

\"S\u00f3lo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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