{"id":37730,"date":"2019-05-30T12:41:21","date_gmt":"2019-05-30T12:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37730"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:37:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:37:46","slug":"7-cosas-que-debes-recordar-cuando-te-obsesionas-con-alguien-que-no-esta-obsesionado-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-debes-recordar-cuando-te-obsesionas-con-alguien-que-no-esta-obsesionado-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que debes recordar cuando te obsesionas con alguien que no est\u00e1 obsesionado contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oh, esa sensaci\u00f3n cuando piensas en alguien que te gusta de verdad. A medida que pasa el tiempo, fantaseas con ellos d\u00eda y noche.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though you haven\u2019t had any physical contact with them, you already know how it feels to be held in their arms because you\u2019ve imagined it one too many times.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se convierten en tu principal prioridad y centrarte en otra cosa que no sean ellos es sencillamente imposible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The only problem is that they don\u2019t feel the same way about you. They barely know that you exist, or they only see you as a friend.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Or perhaps they have already told you that they don\u2019t have feelings for you, but you still believe that things will eventually change.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When that happens, you know that you are officially obsessing over someone who isn\u2019t obsessed with you and even though you\u2019re aware of it (somehow), you still can\u2019t stop doing it.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What to do when you can\u2019t stop pensando en alguien<\/a> que nunca piensa en ti?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What to do when you can\u2019t stop hoping that things will change, even though you know they won\u2019t?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pues bien, en esa situaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo hay una cosa que hacer y es recordar las 7 cosas siguientes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Obsession is a reflection of what\u2019s missing on the inside<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The first thing to remember when you\u2019re obsessing over someone is that obsession is actually a reflection of what\u2019s missing on the inside.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You blindly idealize someone because you envy something that you don\u2019t have or because of feelings of loneliness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019re desperate to be in love with someone, you subconsciously start idealizing a specific person and imagining that they are your perfect partner (even if you don\u2019t even know them yet).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por eso es importante ser consciente de que los pensamientos obsesivos se producen por una raz\u00f3n y la raz\u00f3n est\u00e1 dentro de ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Ceder a las fantas\u00edas s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1 las cosas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo fantasees con ellos, m\u00e1s tiempo you\u2019ll be in pain<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If deep down in your heart you know that you\u2019ll never be with them or if they\u2019ve given you signs that they are not romantically interested in you, then (no matter how harsh it sounds) it\u2019s high time to give up and come back to reality.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Seguir fantaseando con ellos s\u00f3lo har\u00e1 que te sientas m\u00e1s desgraciada porque ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil olvidarlos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. There\u2019s a thin line between loving them and loving the idea of them<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cuando se trata de amor, nuestro cerebro es capaz de hacernos creer casi cualquier cosa sin ninguna raz\u00f3n v\u00e1lida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly thinking of someone, your brain will understand that you\u2019re in love with them and you\u2019ll feel like you really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, there\u2019s a fine line between loving someone and me encanta la idea de ellos<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Obsesionarse con alguien suele significar amar la idea que se tiene de \u00e9l y admirar sus cualidades.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know it\u2019s hard to accept it, but it has nothing to do with real love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. La obsesi\u00f3n es una forma de evasi\u00f3n<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Fantasear y so\u00f1ar despierto con alguien significa ocupar tu mente con algo que te agrada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s the main reason why you often find your thoughts wandering toward the same direction.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

that\u2019s the main reason why you often find your thoughts wandering toward the same direction.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tu obsesi\u00f3n por una persona concreta se convierte en una forma de evadirte de tu rutina diaria, de tu trabajo o de los problemas que puedas estar atravesando en ese momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s important to understand that it\u2019s not real. It is more of a daily mini vacation that you have become addicted to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Experiencing unrequited love doesn\u2019t mean the problem lies in you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly thinking about someone and you would do anything to be with them, yet still they are not changing their minds regarding it, this doesn\u2019t mean that the problem lies in you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They just think you won\u2019t be compatible, which has nothing to do with changing yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Igual que es imposible que a ti te gusten todos los que te gustan, lo mismo ocurre con ellos, pero es m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil darse cuenta cuando los papeles est\u00e1n cambiados.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Las mejores cosas de la vida llegan cuando menos te lo esperas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Relajarse y seguir la corriente de la vida significa reducir los niveles de estr\u00e9s innecesario.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Recuerda siempre que las mejores cosas de la vida llegan cuando menos te lo esperas, no cuando las anticipas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re determined to think about the same person for the rest of your life even though you know there will be no progress, you\u2019ll miss some great things on the journey called life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if you absorb the idea that the best things will happen when you least expect them, you\u2019ll change your perspective and be much happier!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. El tiempo curar\u00e1 todos tus sentimientos no correspondidos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you feel hopeless about the situation you\u2019re in, don\u2019t worry.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Al igual que todos los enamorados, el tiempo curar\u00e1 todos tus sentimientos no correspondidos<\/a> y un d\u00eda te encontrar\u00e1s ri\u00e9ndote de ti misma por ser tan tonta de obsesionarte con alguien que nunca lo mereci\u00f3.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Con el tiempo aprender\u00e1s a centrarte en mejorarte a ti mismo y a encontrar el equilibrio perfecto que no te permitir\u00e1 volver a obsesionarte tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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