{"id":37793,"date":"2019-05-31T13:08:28","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T13:08:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37793"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:14:46","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:14:46","slug":"con-la-persona-adecuada-cualquier-momento-es-bueno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/con-la-persona-adecuada-cualquier-momento-es-bueno\/","title":{"rendered":"Con la persona adecuada, cualquier momento es bueno"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t necessarily believe in all that <em>\u2018right person at the wrong time\u2019<\/em> thing\u2026 I never really have.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00e9 que puede ser una opini\u00f3n impopular, pero realmente creo que con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-types-of-arguments-that-prove-youre-with-the-right-person-even-if-you-think-youre-not\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la persona adecuada<\/span><\/a> by your side, there\u2019s no such thing as bad timing.<\/p>\r\n<p>Things get messy, words get said, temporary break-ups occur\u2026 but ultimately, if this person is really your \u2018one\u2019, I firmly stand my ground when I say that you will always find your way <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cuando-sabes-que-nunca-funcionara-pero-sigues-volviendo-el-uno-al-otro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">el uno al otro<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Ahora mismo, puede que est\u00e9s atravesando tu periodo m\u00e1s oscuro. <\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>Your relationship is on shaky ground and despite the enormous amount of love you two feel for one another, things just don\u2019t seem to be clicking.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>There\u2019s always something\u2026 either on your side or on his.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>Siempre hay un obst\u00e1culo que se interpone en tu relaci\u00f3n y te ha ido quitando pedacitos de tu alma, tu energ\u00eda y tu capacidad de luchar por \u00e9l.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>You know he\u2019s the one for you. The feeling you get when you\u2019re with him is unlike anything you\u2019ve ever experienced.<\/p>\r\n<p>\u00c9l hace que todas tus preocupaciones desaparezcan. \u00c9l hace que tu d\u00eda sea m\u00e1s brillante, sin importar lo mal que est\u00e9n las cosas. Su presencia hace que el peso del mundo sea un poco m\u00e1s ligero.<\/p>\r\n<p>But you just don\u2019t feel it\u2019s meant to be anymore.<\/p>\r\n<p>The timing just seems off and you\u2019re running out of the will to keep proving yourself wrong. You\u2019re on the verge of giving up and it\u2019s tearing you apart.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Well, I\u2019m here to tell you that this is when you keep pushing forward harder than ever.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>This is when you tell yourself that you\u2019re merely going through a massively crappy period and that even though you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel right now, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not there!<\/p>\r\n<p>Puede parecer demasiado oscuro y desafiante para seguir adelante, pero si te detienes ahora, \u00bfqu\u00e9 sentido ha tenido seguir adelante hasta ahora?<\/p>\r\n<p>What has been the point of surviving everything you\u2019ve been through as a united front up until this point?<\/p>\r\n<p>Por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/13-things-to-remember-if-you-feel-like-giving-up-on-love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">abandono<\/span><\/a> on him now, you\u2019re throwing out the window everything you\u2019ve sacrificed so far. You\u2019re saying that it was all for nothing. Ask yourself one thing: Was it really?<\/p>\r\n<p>I know you don\u2019t believe it was.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re just tired and scared. You don\u2019t think you can survive any more heartbreak and pain, so the easiest thing would be to just give up and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/revolcandose-en-la-autocompasion\/\">revolcarse en la autocompasi\u00f3n.<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p>Pero si esta persona es realmente la pieza del puzzle que os falta, os deb\u00e9is el uno al otro el seguir adelante.<\/p>\r\n<p>Find the reason to push through all the crap. Because at the end of the day, if he\u2019s not worth it, nobody is. And that should motivate you to love him now harder than ever before.<\/p>\r\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The timing right now might suck but that\u2019s the awesome thing about time<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it\u2019s going to pass!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37796 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Con la persona adecuada, cualquier momento es bueno\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>This feeling of dread will vanish and once you\u2019re finally in the clear (which you will be), you\u2019ll see that real love is stronger than any amount of obstacles that may come your way.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you\u2019ll see that with the right person, there\u2019s no such thing as bad timing. Just a rough patch\u2014with an expiration date!<\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m not trying to say it\u2019s that easy. I know it\u2019s not. We\u2019ve all been through enough crap to know better than to hope for a fairy tale love story.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s going to feel really crappy for a while before things start taking a turn for the better.<\/p>\r\n<p>But the whole point is that it\u2019s not forever. Whatever shit you\u2019re going through, if it\u2019s with the one you love more than life itself, eventually it\u2019s going to be worth it.<\/p>\r\n<p>Some people are worth never giving up on. And it this person means that much to you, you\u2019re not going to throw in the towel. You\u2019re going to stay in the ring.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yeah, you may end up bloodied, bruised and kicked all over\u2026 but it\u2019s only a matter of time before you\u2019ve healed and ready for another round. This time stronger, smarter and more endurant.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s just life for you. You need to be ready to take a few blows every now and again if you want to survive with your head and your heart both in one piece.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>This is the only life you\u2019re getting. Don\u2019t waste it by making excuses and giving up on the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to you because you\u2019re too weak to keep going.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>Put your fighting gloves on, keep your head in the ring and never lose focus. Fight your fights and don\u2019t let an occasional defeat bring you down.<\/p>\r\n<p>Puede que pierdas una o dos batallas, pero si eso significa mantener <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-tu-chico-hace-estas-10-cosas-es-un-verdadero-caballero\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tu chico<\/span><\/a>, I\u2019d say that\u2019s a win!<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37794 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Con la persona adecuada, cualquier momento es bueno\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":37795,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_316372019.jpg",800,541,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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