{"id":37798,"date":"2019-05-31T13:37:27","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T13:37:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37798"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:36:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:36:40","slug":"4-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-pasas-de-ser-un-infiel-a-un-hombre-leal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-pasan-cuando-pasas-de-ser-un-infiel-a-un-hombre-leal\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que pasan cuando pasas de ser un infiel a un hombre leal"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you break things off with a cheater, you feel like you\u2019ve alcanzado su punto de ruptura<\/span><\/a>. Pierdes toda esperanza de un ma\u00f1ana mejor y esperas que todos los hombres de tu futuro te traten como lo hizo este imb\u00e9cil.<\/p>\n

Then, all of a sudden, you meet someone worthy of your love and attention. You meet a mature man who is faithful and loyal and who acts as if he\u2019d never do anything to hurt you.<\/p>\n

Una vez que esto ocurre, toda tu visi\u00f3n del mundo cambia. Por primera vez, empiezas a verte a ti mismo y a todo lo que te rodea con mayor claridad y experimentas numerosos cambios. He aqu\u00ed los 4 m\u00e1s importantes.<\/p>\n

1. A\u00fan tienes problemas de confianza<\/h2>\n

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I have to disappoint you\u2014not everything goes smoothly the moment you find a loyal man because sadly, you still have a lot of past traumas to get over. These issues you\u2019re still carrying around as a heavy burden don\u2019t go away as easily and unfortunately, they impact your new relationship.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve found someone so different from your ex. You\u2019re wondering if this new guy has some kind of secret agenda and if he plans on screwing you over the same way your ex did. You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve found someone this nice and you\u2019re worried that this guy is too good to be true.<\/p>\n

2. Te das cuenta de lo t\u00f3xica que era tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

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Let\u2019s be honest here\u2014throughout your entire relationship, deep down, you always knew that things shouldn\u2019t be like that. You knew that you shouldn\u2019t keep on forgiving that infidelity and mistreatment but you kept on doing so anyhow.<\/p>\n

Simultaneously, you also lied to yourself. You kept convincing yourself and everyone else that your relationship wasn\u2019t that bad after all and you kept on ignoring your strong intuition, despite knowing the truth.<\/p>\n

However, now, things have changed. Now that you have something to compare it with, you see how awful and toxic your past relationship actually was. For the first time ever, you realistically see all of its horrors and the pain you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

Finally, you see what a healthy and normal partnership should look like and you understand that this wasn\u2019t anything similar to what you had. Of course, all of this negative experience from the past taught you to be even more grateful for this hombre leal<\/span><\/a> que tienes a tu lado.<\/p>\n

3. Te das cuenta de lo que mereces<\/h2>\n

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For years, your ex was putting all the blame on you. He kept diminishing your value and manipulating you to think that you weren\u2019t worthy of love and that you deserved everything that had been going on.<\/p>\n

After a while, you started believing him. He managed to persuade you that you really weren\u2019t destined to be loved and that he was the best you\u2019d ever get.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ahora ves que nada de esto es cierto. Ahora ves que todo este tiempo, en realidad te estabas conformando con menos y que mereces mucho m\u00e1s de lo que estabas recibiendo. Usted ve que el amor est\u00e1 destinado para usted despu\u00e9s de todo y que puede ser amado m\u00e1s de lo que nunca fue.<\/p>\n

4. Recuperas la confianza<\/h2>\n

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Ser enga\u00f1ado destroys everyone\u2019s confidence<\/span><\/a>. You wonder why you weren\u2019t enough for the man you loved so much that he had to find someone else. What was he missing in your relationship, that he had to look for outside of it?<\/p>\n

Las cosas se ponen a\u00fan peor cuando un infiel se niega a asumir su responsabilidad y cuando hace todo lo que est\u00e1 en su mano para convencerte de que no sirves para nada y que t\u00fa has sido la causante de todo lo ocurrido. En consecuencia, tus inseguridades aumentan y tu autoimagen se convierte en una ruina total.<\/p>\n

Bueno, afortunadamente para ti, todo esto cambia cuando dejas a este infiel y te cambias a un hombre de verdad, maduro y leal. Este hombre ve tu valor y te hace pensar m\u00e1s en ti misma tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

He appreciates and respects you, which inspires you to regain your self-respect as well. This man\u2019s love makes you look at yourself through different eyes and it makes you love yourself more. And that is the whole point, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

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