{"id":3795,"date":"2017-08-24T07:38:15","date_gmt":"2017-08-24T07:38:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3795"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:24","slug":"si-un-chico-te-hace-estas-5-cosas-es-un-jugador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-un-chico-te-hace-estas-5-cosas-es-un-jugador\/","title":{"rendered":"Si un chico te hace estas 5 cosas, es un jugador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos hemos estado en esta situaci\u00f3n. Todos hemos salido con el el mayor imb\u00e9cil.<\/em><\/strong> Todos hemos tenido al menos un tipo que nos ha tomado por tontos.<\/p>\n

Actually, you were involved in a game and you rocked it\u2014but the thing is\u2014you didn\u2019t even know you were playing.<\/p>\n

You are still not sure whether you are playing or not?! Tell me if this scenario rings any bells\u2014everything is peachy and everything is going perfectly ok. But, somewhere deep inside you, something is hiding and bothering you. It\u2019s a feeling that something may be a bit off.<\/p>\n

So, as every normal girl, you will ask your partner if your doubts are true or if you\u2019ve lost it completely. And guess what? You\u2019ve lost it! Of course, everything is perfect\u2014your super sweet guy a.k.a. the ultimate douchebag assures you things have never been better!<\/p>\n

Y t\u00fa eres a\u00fan peor por creerle a \u00e9l y no a tus instintos.<\/p>\n

\u00a1\u00a1TU INSTINTO NUNCA SE EQUIVOCA!!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe, but just maybe, he is right and you are completely overreacting, but then again compare that with your instincts. I would always go for the instincts rather than anything else\u2014so should you.<\/p>\n

Take a look at the list of things that will confirm the thing you already doubted\u2014he\u2019s totally playing you.<\/p>\n

1. Esconde su tel\u00e9fono<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-9UZZmHtF1b2TURLlab<\/p>\n

His phone is a legend of a long lost treasure buried somewhere in the ancient and unknown location\u2014no one has ever seen it but there are stories it exists. That\u2019s exactly your experience with his phone.<\/p>\n

These men are master manipulators. They will hide their phones and actually, they won\u2019t let you even find yourself in a situation where you can use some kind of an excuse to see their phones. They are that good.<\/p>\n

2. S\u00f3lo te llama cuando te necesita<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u00bfTe suena familiar una llamada para ligar? Bueno, deber\u00eda si est\u00e1s saliendo con un verdadero lig\u00f3n. S\u00f3lo te enviar\u00e1 mensajes y te llamar\u00e1 cuando quiere algo de ti<\/a>\u2014and that something is of course sex.<\/p>\n

And one more thing. He only communicates with you as the night approaches. When he\u2019s done with his activities, when he was already out with his friends or a girl that left him hanging, so he called you\u2014the backup girl. Seriously, don\u2019t let him do this to you!<\/p>\n

3. Sus amigos no tienen ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s en ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-2mDnRIayXeHfLqERuY<\/p>\n

And this one is completely obvious. They are probably used to meeting \u2018one-time\u2019 girls who aren\u2019t meant to be around for long. So, they do not even bother to get to know them.<\/p>\n

Even if you came to the phase you meet his friends, you will spend a night out together, but you won\u2019t be able to shake off the feeling they weren\u2019t trying at all to make you feel comfortable. Maybe you think they are just rude and inconsiderate, but it\u2019s not that\u2014it\u2019s just that they see you as one of the \u2018many yet to come\u2019.<\/p>\n

4. No PDA<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/mlb-nlds-2018-dhjS0aDPwUojdyfoYW<\/p>\n

They will hide you and believe me, they are good at it. They will refuse any sort of PDA because that is the official acknowledgment of the two of you being together. They won\u2019t risk the possibility of scoring with a new chick. If they leave the impression they are unavailable, that\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

Aunque, a veces te dejar\u00e1n besarles o cogerles de la mano, pero no antes de haberse asegurado de que nadie le est\u00e1 mirando. As\u00ed que \u00a1mucho cuidado!<\/p>\n

5. Tus instintos te dicen que algo va mal<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/foxhomeent-fox-20th-century-xUA7bilj5YByXZkqnS<\/p>\n

Esto es lo \u00faltimo y lo m\u00e1s importante. Puede contarte todo tipo de historias, pero si tienes la sensaci\u00f3n de que algo no va bien, probablemente sea as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

El objetivo de una relaci\u00f3n, entre muchos otros, es conseguir la sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad y amor. No lo est\u00e1s consiguiendo y eso significa que tu relaci\u00f3n no funciona.<\/p>\n

Also, you have the feeling that he doesn\u2019t care about you at all. You have the feeling that things are always about him. He only talks when it\u2019s about him. When you talk, he couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa lo sabes todo sobre \u00e9l y \u00e9l no tiene ni idea cuando se trata de ti.<\/p>\n

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We have all been in this situation. We have all dated the ultimate douchebag. We have all had at least one guy who played us like we were nothing but fools. Actually, you were involved in a game and you rocked it\u2014but the thing is\u2014you didn\u2019t even know you were playing. You are still not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":3796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/alex-iby-286943.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3795"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3795\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3796"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}